Beerus
Banned
Hell yeah stay away from co workers I had to put that gag on me...... this is only till well in a few months until I find a new job and start hunting
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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all i see is
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2. she has a man
3. don't mess with coworkers unless you hate or dont care about your job
1. I'ma proceed forward.
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This one was my bad. I know better.3. I'm just trying to figure out what this chick is doing trying to become all buddy buddy. THAT's what I really wanna know
smARTmouf
Ascended Member
1. I'ma proceed forward.
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3. I'm just trying to figure out what this chick is doing trying to become all buddy buddy. THAT's what I really wanna know
She knows you want to fukk her friend...That's why she throwing subs at you.... She's making herself think she wants you...
but she crazy breh...believe her when she says she is..don't let nobody mess with your money fam..
Oh I DEFINITELY believe her...and lmao...she tryna trap me...we call that the setup down here...if only i could get head without anyone knowing. but thats impossible.
I think this is one of the main reasons im single... Too many chicks out here who cant talk about anything but reality tv. Crazier part is that its a lot of dudes out here who do the same. One of my first date questions is always "whats the last book you've read?"Another thing in 2014 its impossible for a GROWN woman to be SHY in this day and age.There is a huge difference between quiet and shy thats another thread another time.Back to my point these women arent shy.I rather say lacking in conversation.Face it we cant talk to women about America's trillion dollar deficit.Its only a certain things we can talk to and with a woman about. Im not trying to be or sound sexist it is what it iswomen sure have alot to say about social media,Kardashian,Love&Hip Hop tho
An intelligent woman
I was having a facebook conversation with a young lady from one of my classes. She's from the motherland, the great continent of Africa. Nice young lady in my opinion. We were talking about money, because she's here as a Finance major, but said she wasn't in it for money. This is an excerpt of what she sent(she speaks french as a first language, english as second, so the text spelling/lingo is not her being ghetto, it's just how she has to text to be legible).:
Having money doesnt mean u hav everything. U cant buy love, peace of mind, happiness. Money helps us get material things we need for our comfort. Im not saying its not good to have money. But, i just want to highlight the fact that we shouldnt rely on money, bkoz we can loose all those material things so easily
Myself, i need money to to get some things for my comfort, but i know for sure money will not help live a life full of joy. And thats why i dont really care abt money. I care more abt the blessing of God. Because when He blesses u, he gives u everything u need to live a good life.
I disagreed with her first point(I was being a dikk, I was being honest, but a little bit of a dikk), and this is what she sent back:
ok let's take an example. U see all those Hollywood stars, they are very rich. But i dont think they are happy, they divorce pretty much all the time. Meaning that they didnt find love. some of them even committed suicide, even though they have plenty of money.
i involved God because, in my opinion he is the only one that can give us all we need. Money cannot give us everything.
This convo went on for a minute, but the above back and forth exchange is pretty much the gist of it.
I figure we post up a bunch of messed up stuff in here, so I could a least post something that made my outlook on ladies a little less bleak. Could she be full of it? Maybe, but at least she's consistent with it, because she would not budge from her point no matter how I tried to sway it.
Pretty much all our convo's have made me go :"Somebody's gonna get her and hit the lotto. She's a good one."
I could be wrong though.
Having money doesnt mean u hav everything. U cant buy love, peace of mind, happiness. Money helps us get material things we need for our comfort. Im not saying its not good to have money. But, i just want to highlight the fact that we shouldnt rely on money, bkoz we can loose all those material things so easily
Myself, i need money to to get some things for my comfort, but i know for sure money will not help live a life full of joy. And thats why i dont really care abt money. I care more abt the blessing of God. Because when He blesses u, he gives u everything u need to live a good life.
I disagreed with her first point(I was being a dikk, I was being honest, but a little bit of a dikk), and this is what she sent back:
ok let's take an example. U see all those Hollywood stars, they are very rich. But i dont think they are happy, they divorce pretty much all the time. Meaning that they didnt find love. some of them even committed suicide, even though they have plenty of money.
i involved God because, in my opinion he is the only one that can give us all we need. Money cannot give us everything.
This convo went on for a minute, but the above back and forth exchange is pretty much the gist of it.
I figure we post up a bunch of messed up stuff in here, so I could a least post something that made my outlook on ladies a little less bleak. Could she be full of it? Maybe, but at least she's consistent with it, because she would not budge from her point no matter how I tried to sway it.
Pretty much all our convo's have made me go :"Somebody's gonna get her and hit the lotto. She's a good one."
I could be wrong though.
Just like anything else, I'd advise you proceed with caution. Women are known to be able to talk that great game and how they would never cheat on you and how they are all about loyalty. At least verbally, it sounds like she has a solid head on her shoulders, but watch her actions. A lot of times what a woman says doesn't line up with how she acts. Don't be cynical, but also don't get caught slipping. Enjoy yourself but be watchful and aware that she might not be as she seems. Proof through actions is required.
One of the worst things you can do when dealing with women is 'overthink.' That's the woman's job. It's like hitting a nail on the head with a hammer. If you make it more complicated than what it is and overthink it, you will make the task way more difficult than it needs to be. If you feel you need to perfectly hit the nail on the head the first time and you start calculating the angle at which you hit it and all other sorts of nonsense, you probably will never even swing the hammer in the first place. Everything must be taken in moderation, including thinking.
Most people on message boards are thinkers, and the INTJ personality type is very prevalent. People like this typically think a lot and want high assurances of success before they engage in any action. Therefore, before approaching and dealing with women, many men will think, think, think and wait for some perfect signal. This will cause them to never talk to the woman in the first place in many instances. They look at rejection as something deadly and to be highly avoided. They incorrectly treat rejection from women akin to something like disarming an explosive... they feel they must carefully proceed, and if they fail, all is lost. There approach then becomes highly cerebral and calculated, approaching timidity. This is a huge mistake. Men should treat talking to women more like trying on shirts at the store. Rejection, aka finding a shirt that doesn't fit, is nowhere near the end of the world. In fact, it's a great thing because it will help lead you to a shirt that WILL fit. A lot of guys get mad at women who reject them directly, but they should appreciate that, because she is not wasting your time, and in reality, she is giving you the opportunity to take your presence to someone who DOES value your time. Stop thinking everyone will or should like you because they won't, nor should they. Instead, focus on finding your target audience that appreciates what you are bringing to the table. Be thankful for the ones who don't waste your time and reject your product without dilly dallying. There is nothing bad that happens when you are rejected by a woman unlike jumping off of a bridge and having your bungee cord snap.
The main problem with a lot of men si that they react based upon how they THINK a woman will react. A man might start picturing how she might react in his mind and start thinking what signals he should look out for and all other sorts of nonsense. This is over-thinking category. Stop worrying about signals and offer her a taste of who you are, and if she takes it, then that's your signal. If not, there are a lot of other women who will, so keep it pushing. You will miss out on a great woman because you start doing all this overthinking and allow your imagination to create fear in your mind.
Most people on message boards are thinkers, and the INTJ personality type is very prevalent. People like this typically think a lot and want high assurances of success before they engage in any action. Therefore, before approaching and dealing with women, many men will think, think, think and wait for some perfect signal. This will cause them to never talk to the woman in the first place in many instances. They look at rejection as something deadly and to be highly avoided. They incorrectly treat rejection from women akin to something like disarming an explosive... they feel they must carefully proceed, and if they fail, all is lost. There approach then becomes highly cerebral and calculated, approaching timidity. This is a huge mistake. Men should treat talking to women more like trying on shirts at the store. Rejection, aka finding a shirt that doesn't fit, is nowhere near the end of the world. In fact, it's a great thing because it will help lead you to a shirt that WILL fit. A lot of guys get mad at women who reject them directly, but they should appreciate that, because she is not wasting your time, and in reality, she is giving you the opportunity to take your presence to someone who DOES value your time. Stop thinking everyone will or should like you because they won't, nor should they. Instead, focus on finding your target audience that appreciates what you are bringing to the table. Be thankful for the ones who don't waste your time and reject your product without dilly dallying. There is nothing bad that happens when you are rejected by a woman unlike jumping off of a bridge and having your bungee cord snap.
The main problem with a lot of men si that they react based upon how they THINK a woman will react. A man might start picturing how she might react in his mind and start thinking what signals he should look out for and all other sorts of nonsense. This is over-thinking category. Stop worrying about signals and offer her a taste of who you are, and if she takes it, then that's your signal. If not, there are a lot of other women who will, so keep it pushing. You will miss out on a great woman because you start doing all this overthinking and allow your imagination to create fear in your mind.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Sad to say its doubtful I'll ever open up to a woman again.
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If the right girl comes along there's no reason to keep to yourself. The key is to find the trustworthy one. You don't have to share your life story with them right away.
Nah.
That unfiltered love and trust is something I'll never attain agajn, I trust zero women except my mom and sister.
A real man only loves twice
Fair enough, but eventually it will happen. I'm pretty heartbroken from my last failed relationship, but I'm not gonna avoid woman or stop myself from loving them. The right one will come along. That's the way I look at it
Hey quick advice, I been texting back and forth with this chick I met on New Years. I didn't wanna be stuck in the "text buddy" phase and plus she told me she's very interested. Even sent me a pic and asked for mine. I asked her "when am I gonna see you next"? I haven't gotten a response yet.
Too beta of a text?
you proposed to a woman that told you she fukking moved to another continent without telling her boyfriend
when i found out my ex dumped her ex boyfriend and refused to give him back the tv he bought her i damn near dumped her, then i made her call him right then and there to give him his shyt back. had she told me something like this that would have been an immediate
for me.stop worrying about how to formulate your texts. if she doesn't respond, she is on some bullshyt and undesirable. this whole alpha men and beta men shyt is the male version of overanalyzing shytFair enough, but eventually it will happen. I'm pretty heartbroken from my last failed relationship, but I'm not gonna avoid woman or stop myself from loving them. The right one will come along. That's the way I look at it
Hey quick advice, I been texting back and forth with this chick I met on New Years. I didn't wanna be stuck in the "text buddy" phase and plus she told me she's very interested. Even sent me a pic and asked for mine. I asked her "when am I gonna see you next"? I haven't gotten a response yet.
Too beta of a text?