A mentality you want to develop is to feel great and to feel success when you do what you're supposed to, or in other words spit your game and remain true to your principles, as opposed to feeling great when a woman "rewards you" with a yes to your actions. You have to get in the 'habit' of talking to women and ignore her reactions. You want to get to where you stop imagining how she will react, but instead just focus on doing and let her reactions come as they may. If it's not positive, no big deal because you realize there is another woman who wants to hear what you say. It's just like a shirt that doesn't fit. You don't cry or boohoo over it. You just put it back on the rack and get another one. A mistake men make is giving women power over you by allowing their reactions to determine how you feel. "Oh she's not feeling what I said. I must be horrible. What am I doing wrong?" Then you start becoming tentative the next approach and you start overthinking things and start looking for 'signals' and all kinds of nonsense to 'guarantee success'. One of the biggest problems we've been taught in this society is to fear failure. Failure is actually a very positive thing in many regards and is a PART of success. If a woman rejects your advances, coo, there's just a lesson learned there and it saves you and her time. Let's see what the next woman is talking about. Every time you start imagining how a woman will 'react' to what you are about to say to her, you need to destroy that thought in your mind. Reward yourself for actually saying what's on your mind and make that the goal, not how she will react. Don't give a woman the power over you by looking for her approval. Your feeling of affirmation should come from the fact you actually spoke.
Why is this mentality important? You want to avoid trying to turn into a mind-reader. There's no way you can look at some woman and know exactly what she likes, so you have to broadcast your product, which is you, and allow the woman to choose that product. If you imagine she's out of your league or you start over thinking, you will never offer yourself to her in the first place. You are also limiting her power over you by not being controlled by her reactions. How powerful is it that someone completely shifts their personality around if they are in your presence? Very powerful. In other words, you are saying she is superior to you... and remember, women want a man that is bigger than them. Men are irrationally afraid of some imagined stank attitude that she will give you or have some irrational fear of rejection... When in reality, a stank attitude is reflective of HER, not of you... and in terms of rejection, you can't miss what you never had, so it's nothing if she isn't digging your style because someone else is.
