iceberg_is_on_fire
Wearing Lions gear when it wasn't cool
If you break ties with a woman once, never go back. Doomed for failure brehs.
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Means nothing, she's still with him.
Stop listening to her problems holding out hope.
I've been there breh. He's cheating on me , he's hitting me he treats me so bad :beli
Receives a wedding invitation in the mail
It doesn't matter,
Stop listening to her problems holding out hope.
I've been there breh. He's cheating on me , he's hitting me he treats me so bad :beli
Receives a wedding invitation in the mail
It doesn't matter,
and the fukk up part her nikka be cheating on her, and she tells me all this
what if she comes back?
92Inc
Fear me
I got to do betterMeans nothing, she's still with him.
Stop listening to her problems holding out hope.
I've been there breh. He's cheating on me , he's hitting me he treats me so bad :beli
Receives a wedding invitation in the mail
It doesn't matter,
iceberg_is_on_fire
Wearing Lions gear when it wasn't cool
Why did she leave in the first place?
Look I've had women tell me at 7pm I love you rein car, your the best thing to happen to me reincar, I'll never do anything to hurt you. And at 704 sending a email on my computer and 710 using my shower and at 715 reading a long ass email professing her love for another guy .
Words mean nothing to me
Actions do
Words mean nothing to me
Actions do
Man I wont lie its hard, I tried being friendly and a friend to my ex even though it hurt for like 3 damn years till I finay said screwed this, cut the cord ceased all contact and detoxified myself.
You see them dating scrub and scum guys treating em like a 2 dollar whore, cheating , abusing etc and your like
I treated her better than my mommy, I would have given her a kidney and was always faithful and this guy gets her respect and love and she sticks by him time and time again even when treated like dirt.
Cutting the cord will make you think logically will show you to stop wasting your time on people who don't appreciate you. Iy took me years to learn that lesson .
You see them dating scrub and scum guys treating em like a 2 dollar whore, cheating , abusing etc and your like
I treated her better than my mommy, I would have given her a kidney and was always faithful and this guy gets her respect and love and she sticks by him time and time again even when treated like dirt.Cutting the cord will make you think logically will show you to stop wasting your time on people who don't appreciate you. Iy took me years to learn that lesson .
Hollywood Co
Primetime Reppin
Just threw my whole roster in the bushes brehs.
Its a gawt damn chore finding decent chicks you actually want to keep around for other than busting a nut. Its winter and a dude really just trying to chill and kick it with a dope girl and build from there but I haven't found one chick I can stand being around.
Its a gawt damn chore finding decent chicks you actually want to keep around for other than busting a nut. Its winter and a dude really just trying to chill and kick it with a dope girl and build from there but I haven't found one chick I can stand being around.
Take some time off breh. I'm doing the same. I'm focusing on myself now. I've had so many flakes in the first 3 weeks of 2014 then the last 2 years combined. So I've had it.
I'm at a midlife crisis, where people around me are happily married or recently engaged or have LTR. I wasted too much time going to school and now I feel like I wasted my 20s doing nothing. Plus I was stuck with a girl which I knew was heading nowhere, so I wasted even more time. So right now I'm doing me. I'm gonna stop going to clubs, wasting money at bars, or wasting time chasing girls. I've been heavily in the gym and I'm focused on being a better me by the time 2014 comes to a close.
Hollywood Co
Primetime Reppin
Yea I've been doing the same because A lot of transition is about to take place for me but I'm just feeling the urge to want something real around. Trying to navigate it day to day is stressful tho.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
This will be one of my longest posts I've ever written here, but I wanna get some shyt off my chest right now regarding disrespect from people in general, especially females.
This is another gem of a video by Tariq I'm posting for a reason in line with what I have to say:
Never tolerate disrespect from females, whether it's in jest or not.
Ole girl I mentioned who disrespected me through whatsapp was damn near sniveling and crying to my female cousin after I told her to step and go message somebody else. It's always fascinating to see how they react when they see you clearly don't give a fukk and can easily just get on with it and not care they even exist. She kept sending me messages, but of course I ignored them and didn't bother to reply which I guess the ether made that soul burn slow. I wasn't doing it as some kind of game, cos I don't play games, but I have my principles and if I feel you overstepped the mark I will check you from the gate.
Anyway, she's a friend of my cousin but she lives abroad and she told my cousin that she was just playing and didn't mean any offence but I took it the wrong way (at one point though she said to my cuz "I didn't know he was so sensitive"
more on that point later...). She forwarded the whatsapp convo to my cousin so she read the whole thing and my cousin told her that she has to remember that there's a slight cultural difference and also, if someone doesn't know you, then people tend to read what's on the screen in black and white and feel disrespected even if it wasn't intended. My cousin told me that she (my cousin) felt that I shouldn't have said the "go message another man" part, but I said, nope I stand by what I said. If I feel like you're attacking my character, there's nothing wrong with me telling you to find someone that ticks your boxes. I feel that's totally fair.
Anyway, this chick actually called me on my cellphone (goodness knows how much that cost) so I suggested she just speak to me through skype or viber since it would be free, but her laptop wasn't working and she couldn't do it on her blackberry so I figured I'll just let her talk, cos shyt, it ain't my phone bill so why should I give a fukk. Anyway, she was saying the same things she said to my cousin and that it was miscommunication and whatnot and that I was ignoring her messages and shyt - however the word 'sorry' never came out her mouth regardless. So afterwards, we spoke briefly about other stuff and that was that. She hasn't messaged me since we spoke on Sunday and I'm not about to message he either.
The point I'm making is this: it doesn't matter whether someone is supposedly jesting or not....if they say or do something you don't like, don't be afraid to check them on it or throw them in the bushes altogether. NEVER let shyt slide. If something bothers you or makes you uncomfortable, wtf are you sitting back being quiet for? don't let muthafukkas shame you into calling you "sensitive" or touchy or a crybaby. No, a real man stands up for his. Different things affect different people. Some will do that reverse psychology shyt and say stuff like a real man is thick skinned and doesn't let little comments affect him. BULLshyt. You ain't a fukking man if you just sit back and allow a disrespectful person get away with their bullshyt. Like a tumor, it always starts out small then grows and grows and multiplies because you failed to identify it and cut it out.
I'm talking in generalities too, not just some chick you're seeing, but even members of your own family or friends and acquaintances. If you got some bitter ass and/or controlling aunties/female cousins/sisters or whatever who come at you sideways, check THEM. I don't care if they wanna throw temper tantrums, call you disrespectful, try and put hands on you etc...stand up for yours no matter what the temporary cost is. You're a fukking grown ass man, you ain't 12 years old no more and they need to accept that. shyt, my own father knows not to overstep boundaries with me cos I'll set him straight. If you ARE wrong and you know it, then by all means don't be too proud to listen to criticism or advice, but even then, don't let people talk to you any ole way. This is an example of a sniveling coward who lets people run him:
You see what I'm talking about? This dude is afraid to bring a woman into HIS own home that HE'S paying for cos he's scared his mommy will disapprove, despite the fact she's living there with a man she's not even married to herself. Sometimes, you can't even have tht your mother wouldn't take advantage of your weakness, that's the world we live in. Now if this dude was halk a fukking man, he would tell his mother that this is HIS house and he's bringing a woman there and if she doesn't like it, she can either tolerate it or she and her partner will have to find somewhere else to live. For all he knows, she might just admire the fact that he's finally grown some balls and even mellow down. Even if she refuses to have anything to do with him after that, so what? She wasn't much of a mother to begin with, so there's no real ultimate loss.
Stop worrying about making broads like you. fukk being "liked", that shyt is for the birds and you don't have feathers or a beak attached to your face. Have your shyt together as a man and make yourself a force to be reckoned with and demand respect from everybody. Just because someone likes you doesn't mean they'll respect you. You may be nice until they decide to come at you sideways for whatever reason and if they do that, they obviously don't even like you any ole damn way. At least if they respect you, they won't come at you greasy and may even like you for THAT.
Seriously, dudes need to man up, because I'm seeing epidemic levels of moist ass, no testosterone having, bytchassedness worldwide.
Another thing, stop giving these broads so much power. My female cousin is a bit on the heavy side but with an attractive face and the amount of super mangina simp shyt dudes say to her and other broads she knows makes me cringe to the point where it becomes unbearable. Basically, to say dudes are putting her and other chicks on pedestals is an understatement. Put it like this, you can read your bible, quran, torah and any other spiritual book and you'll never read a single passage that has half the reverance to a figure that some of these dudes give to chicks, it's embarassing. Needless to say, they laugh about that shyt all the time.
This is another gem of a video by Tariq I'm posting for a reason in line with what I have to say:
Never tolerate disrespect from females, whether it's in jest or not.
Ole girl I mentioned who disrespected me through whatsapp was damn near sniveling and crying to my female cousin after I told her to step and go message somebody else. It's always fascinating to see how they react when they see you clearly don't give a fukk and can easily just get on with it and not care they even exist. She kept sending me messages, but of course I ignored them and didn't bother to reply which I guess the ether made that soul burn slow. I wasn't doing it as some kind of game, cos I don't play games, but I have my principles and if I feel you overstepped the mark I will check you from the gate.
Anyway, she's a friend of my cousin but she lives abroad and she told my cousin that she was just playing and didn't mean any offence but I took it the wrong way (at one point though she said to my cuz "I didn't know he was so sensitive"
more on that point later...). She forwarded the whatsapp convo to my cousin so she read the whole thing and my cousin told her that she has to remember that there's a slight cultural difference and also, if someone doesn't know you, then people tend to read what's on the screen in black and white and feel disrespected even if it wasn't intended. My cousin told me that she (my cousin) felt that I shouldn't have said the "go message another man" part, but I said, nope I stand by what I said. If I feel like you're attacking my character, there's nothing wrong with me telling you to find someone that ticks your boxes. I feel that's totally fair.Anyway, this chick actually called me on my cellphone (goodness knows how much that cost) so I suggested she just speak to me through skype or viber since it would be free, but her laptop wasn't working and she couldn't do it on her blackberry so I figured I'll just let her talk, cos shyt, it ain't my phone bill so why should I give a fukk. Anyway, she was saying the same things she said to my cousin and that it was miscommunication and whatnot and that I was ignoring her messages and shyt - however the word 'sorry' never came out her mouth regardless. So afterwards, we spoke briefly about other stuff and that was that. She hasn't messaged me since we spoke on Sunday and I'm not about to message he either.
The point I'm making is this: it doesn't matter whether someone is supposedly jesting or not....if they say or do something you don't like, don't be afraid to check them on it or throw them in the bushes altogether. NEVER let shyt slide. If something bothers you or makes you uncomfortable, wtf are you sitting back being quiet for? don't let muthafukkas shame you into calling you "sensitive" or touchy or a crybaby. No, a real man stands up for his. Different things affect different people. Some will do that reverse psychology shyt and say stuff like a real man is thick skinned and doesn't let little comments affect him. BULLshyt. You ain't a fukking man if you just sit back and allow a disrespectful person get away with their bullshyt. Like a tumor, it always starts out small then grows and grows and multiplies because you failed to identify it and cut it out.
I'm talking in generalities too, not just some chick you're seeing, but even members of your own family or friends and acquaintances. If you got some bitter ass and/or controlling aunties/female cousins/sisters or whatever who come at you sideways, check THEM. I don't care if they wanna throw temper tantrums, call you disrespectful, try and put hands on you etc...stand up for yours no matter what the temporary cost is. You're a fukking grown ass man, you ain't 12 years old no more and they need to accept that. shyt, my own father knows not to overstep boundaries with me cos I'll set him straight. If you ARE wrong and you know it, then by all means don't be too proud to listen to criticism or advice, but even then, don't let people talk to you any ole way. This is an example of a sniveling coward who lets people run him:
http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/361210/I-m-too-scared-to-meet-my-webcam-lover
I'M having webcam sex with a woman on the other side of the globe.
My new friend is naughty, feisty and very rude.
She says the most outrageous things to me and I find myself letting go like never before.
Most times we both end up naked, exhausted and in hysterics.
She whips out adult toys, mucky mags and sexy lingerie which she uses to turn me on.
The other day she dressed as a naughty teacher and we roleplayed for hours. In return I talk dirty to her and make her feel cherished and adored.
She’s British and we met via a chat room. Suddenly I have a reason for getting up in the morning. We take it in turns to contact each other on our different time zones and I couldn’t imagine my life without her in it.
I’d love to meet her for real but I’m frightened of what my family would say. She’s desperate to get back here as she is divorced and would love to be near her mum and sisters again.
But my mum and her boyfriend live in my house with me. I know for a fact my mum would not take kindly to another woman coming into our home.
She wouldn’t approve of me sharing a bedroom with my friend or changing our routines.
I’m in my early thirties. Two years ago I was in a disastrous relationship with a local woman.
She used me for money and for sex and my mother has since dubbed me “useless with women”. But I have to believe my new lover and I have a chance, don’t I?
I'M having webcam sex with a woman on the other side of the globe.
My new friend is naughty, feisty and very rude.
She says the most outrageous things to me and I find myself letting go like never before.
Most times we both end up naked, exhausted and in hysterics.
She whips out adult toys, mucky mags and sexy lingerie which she uses to turn me on.
The other day she dressed as a naughty teacher and we roleplayed for hours. In return I talk dirty to her and make her feel cherished and adored.
She’s British and we met via a chat room. Suddenly I have a reason for getting up in the morning. We take it in turns to contact each other on our different time zones and I couldn’t imagine my life without her in it.
I’d love to meet her for real but I’m frightened of what my family would say. She’s desperate to get back here as she is divorced and would love to be near her mum and sisters again.
But my mum and her boyfriend live in my house with me. I know for a fact my mum would not take kindly to another woman coming into our home.
She wouldn’t approve of me sharing a bedroom with my friend or changing our routines.
I’m in my early thirties. Two years ago I was in a disastrous relationship with a local woman.
She used me for money and for sex and my mother has since dubbed me “useless with women”. But I have to believe my new lover and I have a chance, don’t I?
You see what I'm talking about? This dude is afraid to bring a woman into HIS own home that HE'S paying for cos he's scared his mommy will disapprove, despite the fact she's living there with a man she's not even married to herself. Sometimes, you can't even have tht your mother wouldn't take advantage of your weakness, that's the world we live in. Now if this dude was halk a fukking man, he would tell his mother that this is HIS house and he's bringing a woman there and if she doesn't like it, she can either tolerate it or she and her partner will have to find somewhere else to live. For all he knows, she might just admire the fact that he's finally grown some balls and even mellow down. Even if she refuses to have anything to do with him after that, so what? She wasn't much of a mother to begin with, so there's no real ultimate loss.Stop worrying about making broads like you. fukk being "liked", that shyt is for the birds and you don't have feathers or a beak attached to your face. Have your shyt together as a man and make yourself a force to be reckoned with and demand respect from everybody. Just because someone likes you doesn't mean they'll respect you. You may be nice until they decide to come at you sideways for whatever reason and if they do that, they obviously don't even like you any ole damn way. At least if they respect you, they won't come at you greasy and may even like you for THAT.
Seriously, dudes need to man up, because I'm seeing epidemic levels of moist ass, no testosterone having, bytchassedness worldwide.
Another thing, stop giving these broads so much power. My female cousin is a bit on the heavy side but with an attractive face and the amount of super mangina simp shyt dudes say to her and other broads she knows makes me cringe to the point where it becomes unbearable. Basically, to say dudes are putting her and other chicks on pedestals is an understatement. Put it like this, you can read your bible, quran, torah and any other spiritual book and you'll never read a single passage that has half the reverance to a figure that some of these dudes give to chicks, it's embarassing. Needless to say, they laugh about that shyt all the time.
iceberg_is_on_fire
Wearing Lions gear when it wasn't cool
Cutting ties with a woman is just as therapeutic as that post nut clairvoyance. You don't think straight if you are still wrapped up with any dealings with a former significant other.
This will be one of my longest posts I've ever written here, but I wanna get some shyt off my chest right now regarding disrespect from people in general, especially females.
This is another gem of a video by Tariq I'm posting for a reason in line with what I have to say:
Never tolerate disrespect from females, whether it's in jest or not.
Ole girl I mentioned who disrespected me through whatsapp was damn near sniveling and crying to my female cousin after I told her to step and go message somebody else. It's always fascinating to see how they react when they see you clearly don't give a fukk and can easily just get on with it and not care they even exist. She kept sending me messages, but of course I ignored them and didn't bother to reply which I guess the ether made that soul burn slow. I wasn't doing it as some kind of game, cos I don't play games, but I have my principles and if I feel you overstepped the mark I will check you from the gate.
Anyway, she's a friend of my cousin but she lives abroad and she told my cousin that she was just playing and didn't mean any offence but I took it the wrong way (at one point though she said to my cuz "I didn't know he was so sensitive"
Anyway, this chick actually called me on my cellphone (goodness knows how much that cost) so I suggested she just speak to me through skype or viber since it would be free, but her laptop wasn't working and she couldn't do it on her blackberry so I figured I'll just let her talk, cos shyt, it ain't my phone bill so why should I give a fukk. Anyway, she was saying the same things she said to my cousin and that it was miscommunication and whatnot and that I was ignoring her messages and shyt - however the word 'sorry' never came out her mouth regardless. So afterwards, we spoke briefly about other stuff and that was that. She hasn't messaged me since we spoke on Sunday and I'm not about to message he either.
The point I'm making is this: it doesn't matter whether someone is supposedly jesting or not....if they say or do something you don't like, don't be afraid to check them on it or throw them in the bushes altogether. NEVER let shyt slide. If something bothers you or makes you uncomfortable, wtf are you sitting back being quiet for? don't let muthafukkas shame you into calling you "sensitive" or touchy or a crybaby. No, a real man stands up for his. Different things affect different people. Some will do that reverse psychology shyt and say stuff like a real man is thick skinned and doesn't let little comments affect him. BULLshyt. You ain't a fukking man if you just sit back and allow a disrespectful person get away with their bullshyt. Like a tumor, it always starts out small then grows and grows and multiplies because you failed to identify it and cut it out.
I'm talking in generalities too, not just some chick you're seeing, but even members of your own family or friends and acquaintances. If you got some bitter ass and/or controlling aunties/female cousins/sisters or whatever who come at you sideways, check THEM. I don't care if they wanna throw temper tantrums, call you disrespectful, try and put hands on you etc...stand up for yours no matter what the temporary cost is. You're a fukking grown ass man, you ain't 12 years old no more and they need to accept that. shyt, my own father knows not to overstep boundaries with me cos I'll set him straight. If you ARE wrong and you know it, then by all means don't be too proud to listen to criticism or advice, but even then, don't let people talk to you any ole way. This is an example of a sniveling coward who lets people run him:
http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/361210/I-m-too-scared-to-meet-my-webcam-lover
I'M having webcam sex with a woman on the other side of the globe.
My new friend is naughty, feisty and very rude.
She says the most outrageous things to me and I find myself letting go like never before.
Most times we both end up naked, exhausted and in hysterics.
She whips out adult toys, mucky mags and sexy lingerie which she uses to turn me on.
The other day she dressed as a naughty teacher and we roleplayed for hours. In return I talk dirty to her and make her feel cherished and adored.
She’s British and we met via a chat room. Suddenly I have a reason for getting up in the morning. We take it in turns to contact each other on our different time zones and I couldn’t imagine my life without her in it.
I’d love to meet her for real but I’m frightened of what my family would say. She’s desperate to get back here as she is divorced and would love to be near her mum and sisters again.
But my mum and her boyfriend live in my house with me. I know for a fact my mum would not take kindly to another woman coming into our home.
She wouldn’t approve of me sharing a bedroom with my friend or changing our routines.
I’m in my early thirties. Two years ago I was in a disastrous relationship with a local woman.
She used me for money and for sex and my mother has since dubbed me “useless with women”. But I have to believe my new lover and I have a chance, don’t I?
Stop worrying about making broads like you. fukk being "liked", that shyt is for the birds and you don't have feathers or a beak attached to your face. Have your shyt together as a man and make yourself a force to be reckoned with and demand respect from everybody. Just because someone likes you doesn't mean they'll respect you. You may be nice until they decide to come at you sideways for whatever reason and if they do that, they obviously don't even like you any ole damn way. At least if they respect you, they won't come at you greasy and may even like you for THAT.
Seriously, dudes need to man up, because I'm seeing epidemic levels of moist ass, no testosterone having, bytchassedness worldwide.
Another thing, stop giving these broads so much power. My female cousin is a bit on the heavy side but with an attractive face and the amount of super mangina simp shyt dudes say to her and other broads she knows makes me cringe to the point where it becomes unbearable. Basically, to say dudes are putting her and other chicks on pedestals is an understatement. Put it like this, you can read your bible, quran, torah and any other spiritual book and you'll never read a single passage that has half the reverance to a figure that some of these dudes give to chicks, it's embarassing. Needless to say, they laugh about that shyt all the time.
I feel you on that. That's why I made that post saying I can't get mad at how females react. It's the man's fault a lot of the times for being so buttery soft... weak male feminists always bowing down and conceding to females. Some of these PUAs accepting nonstop respect in order to get a shot of that vagina. When females punish these dudes for being professional butt kissers, how can I get mad at that? You're right on checking disrespect at the door and not letting these broads play these little games with you. They'll do something wrong and try to act like you're wrong for getting offended by saying you're sensitive or how you need to loosen up or you're insecure or some nonsense. The average guy will give in because he's quick to bow down and is easily manipulated. If you don't have respect from a woman, you don't have anything... and the only way to get respect is to make sure she respects you and to check her when she comes with something slick. A man should never try to keep around a woman by any means necessary. YOU are the prize and it's her privilege to be around you and if she comes with some downtalk, privilege revoked...