Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[karim]

on some real spit though, I should've add this but before I even talked to her she was in a fading complicated relationship with this dude and she ended it a few days ago, they knew they were going to end up talking to other people cause she had no interest in him anymore, and the dude already knew about me. I knew this too. Then when I asked if she was serious about it she flipped out and said of course she is if she just did that.

 

[Days of Future Piff]

the mentality we have on this board really isn't common in real life. it's not really a mentality you tell to other people like that, but it's more along something you keep in your mind and use when making decisions. You tell someone else this, and they'll call you a misogynist, will tell you you won't ever have a woman and all kinds of other nonsense... but let them be the ones who spend 90% of their paycheck on a woman who doesn't appreciate none of it and is cheating on the side and using his money on the next dude. Let the next man struggle and stress when he comes home to his own house that he's paying for. it's better to be alone than with a woman that makes your life miserable. Honestly, I don't care to listen to much of what the 'older generation' has to say.

They're the ones that gave us the simped out advice that created all of these problems in the first place. They're the ones who told women they were princesses and deserved to be served and implanted the feminist mentality into these women, essentially making them near worthless when it comes to attracting a man. On the other hand, they are the ones who put a slave mentality, aka 'you needsss to be a gentleman' into men... so what do you have? You have these men who willingly rush to serve women without getting anything in return and you have entitled women who demand everything and give nothing back. You got to respect your elders, but you don't have to follow their mentality. Look at where the 'baby boom' generation has led us to. Countless wars, nation in debt we can't pay back, student loan debt on par with cc debt, plummeting marriage rates, etc. I can go on and on. If you follow the philosophies and plans laid out by the generation that led us into that, where do you think you'll end up?

The wisdom this man continues to post

 

[Beerus]

yeah so it finally happen.
backstory: asked chick out to the movies, she said she was finna hit me back the next day after she checked her job schedule to see when she free so we can go, never hit me back.(that was on the last week of december)
saw her again yesterday.
lol she had the audacity to come up to me and kiss me(on the cheeks like always) and ask me how i've been doing. before we took the bus
I'm like cool . I ain't seat like in front of her in the bus so we could have a convo but i was like on a seat behind her talked for like less then a minute.
on our way to the station when we got off the bus she was asking questions like how's school i was just on my :kobesmug: yeah it's cool almost done, super stoked alright!( I ain't sound sad at all)
normally when we used to get off the bus i'd go wit her in the same subway wagon.

Not this time I was like yo I'm going this way(always used to take that way since the last wagon is the closest to the stairs at the station where i get off at, but i just went with her when she was there to some other wagon)
She's like ok bye(I was hoping she'd do that)


Anyways saw her again today, she ain't come sit where she would sit normally at near me(maybe she thought I aint see her, but I did it on purpose had my face stuck on my iPhone watching netflix), and she aint wait for me when we got off the bus.

I did right? I mean I wasn't even trying to speak with her in the first place after that bullshyt she pulled. Normally I woulda just told her to not speak to me again, but yall nikkas said to play it cool. Which I think was the coolest I coulda played it.


Anyways with that bytch

 

[The ADD]

yeah so it finally happen.
backstory: asked chick out to the movies, she said she was finna hit me back the next day after she checked her job schedule to see when she free so we can go, never hit me back.(that was on the last week of december)
saw her again yesterday.
lol she had the audacity to come up to me and kiss me(on the cheeks like always) and ask me how i've been doing. before we took the bus
I'm like cool . I ain't seat like in front of her in the bus so we could have a convo but i was like on a seat behind her talked for like less then a minute.
on our way to the station when we got off the bus she was asking questions like how's school i was just on my :kobesmug: yeah it's cool almost done, super stoked alright!( I ain't sound sad at all)
normally when we used to get off the bus i'd go wit her in the same subway wagon.

Not this time I was like yo I'm going this way(always used to take that way since the last wagon is the closest to the stairs at the station where i get off at, but i just went with her when she was there to some other wagon)
She's like ok bye(I was hoping she'd do that)


Anyways saw her again today, she ain't come sit where she would sit normally at near me(maybe she thought I aint see her, but I did it on purpose had my face stuck on my iPhone watching netflix), and she aint wait for me when we got off the bus.

I did right? I mean I wasn't even trying to speak with her in the first place after that bullshyt she pulled. Normally I woulda just told her to not speak to me again, but yall nikkas said to play it cool. Which I think was the coolest I coulda played it.


Anyways with that bytch

Well played

Now forget about it and don't carry that energy around anymore.

 

[Huellz Santana]

Yo, I might be telling on myself but this some real nikka shyt an IDAGAF..

is it just me that gets turned off when a woman ridicules a mans "junk"?

Like...Maybe you have a big ass twat... I can't see a woman that would not deal with a man because of his size as anything less than a ho waiting to happen..

She's completely controlled by the dikk and really shouldn't be trusted...

nah dog. i been there before too. I'm not a lil guy but I'll tell you a story.

i was preparing to smash this chick. we were on a lil trip together, staying in a hotel, the whole 9. We were just friends but we flirted A LOT. so i took this as my chance to capitalize.

since we're friends we're both pretty open about who we fukk. turns out that she had a man she was seeing, "no biggie i think. I can still fukk" BUT YO...

then she goes on this 20 min rant about how he's a nice guy, good job, but not big enough for her. At first i'm like but she started talkin about all these mandingo nikkas she let fukk. she went into extreme detail and talked about how she likes to feel the pain in her cervix.

i went from to so fast... It was so unattractive. Like I knew I wouldn't be able to satisfy this chick off rip and I had rather not even let her see what i'm working with. Like I said, I aint no lil dude no homo. But this is the equivalent of being 6'4" and a chick talkin about how she only dates nikkas 6'10" and above. Even tho you're like, "I'm tall too!" you can't help but feel inadequate. i looked at her like a whore from that point on. LOL. this must be how the average white guy feels when he sees a white chick with a black dude. ​

 

[karim]

nah dog. i been there before too. I'm not a lil guy but I'll tell you a story.

i was preparing to smash this chick. we were on a lil trip together, staying in a hotel, the whole 9. We were just friends but we flirted A LOT. so i took this as my chance to capitalize.

since we're friends we're both pretty open about who we fukk. turns out that she had a man she was seeing, "no biggie i think. I can still fukk" BUT YO...

then she goes on this 20 min rant about how he's a nice guy, good job, but not big enough for her. At first i'm like but she started talkin about all these mandingo nikkas she let fukk. she went into extreme detail and talked about how she likes to feel the pain in her cervix.

i went from to so fast... It was so unattractive. Like I knew I wouldn't be able to satisfy this chick off rip and I had rather not even let her see what i'm working with. Like I said, I aint no lil dude no homo. But this is the equivalent of being 6'4" and a chick talkin about how she only dates nikkas 6'10" and above. Even tho you're like, "I'm tall too!" you can't help but feel inadequate. i looked at her like a whore from that point on. LOL. this must be how the average white guy feels when he sees a white chick with a black dude. ​

Woman should not be talking about dikks, period. Itdoesn't get more unattractive.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Size queens. I've met a few.

 

[Two Stacks]

Don't pay that nonsense any attention. Girls say that stuff to try to rationalize things in their heads if they think you're the type of brother that's above their station. In other words that's just their insecurity rearing its ugly head. I've been told on countless occasions that I seem like the kind of guy that only likes white girls. It's so stupid because these girls have nothing solid to base that theory on. Meanwhile I just laugh because I was engaged to a Jamaican woman and my most recent shorty was from Kenya. I just let them talk themselves into oblivion and right out of my consciousness.

I've been told this several times...but black women make me

the mentality we have on this board really isn't common in real life. it's not really a mentality you tell to other people like that, but it's more along something you keep in your mind and use when making decisions. You tell someone else this, and they'll call you a misogynist, will tell you you won't ever have a woman and all kinds of other nonsense... but let them be the ones who spend 90% of their paycheck on a woman who doesn't appreciate none of it and is cheating on the side and using his money on the next dude. Let the next man struggle and stress when he comes home to his own house that he's paying for. it's better to be alone than with a woman that makes your life miserable. Honestly, I don't care to listen to much of what the 'older generation' has to say.

They're the ones that gave us the simped out advice that created all of these problems in the first place. They're the ones who told women they were princesses and deserved to be served and implanted the feminist mentality into these women, essentially making them near worthless when it comes to attracting a man. On the other hand, they are the ones who put a slave mentality, aka 'you needsss to be a gentleman' into men... so what do you have? You have these men who willingly rush to serve women without getting anything in return and you have entitled women who demand everything and give nothing back. You got to respect your elders, but you don't have to follow their mentality. Look at where the 'baby boom' generation has led us to. Countless wars, nation in debt we can't pay back, student loan debt on par with cc debt, plummeting marriage rates, etc. I can go on and on. If you follow the philosophies and plans laid out by the generation that led us into that, where do you think you'll end up?

SOOOOOOOOOOO TRUE on the bolded....you get taught all the nice guy shyt by your moms (regardless of how she is with men), then you come to find out that you got lied to.

 

[Jone2three45]

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[Medio]

if you ever think you're being too nice or too easy with females I suggest you write down or type how your interaction went that female, think in order what you did and what she did. You will actually see if you're doing too much of something and why you may being too nice or too easy.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

how can i improve my phone convo game?you really have to be quick and alert when they drop certain questions thats why i prefer to text gives me enough time to calculate my response.a lot of the time i be thinking i should of said this instead

 

[The ADD]

how can i improve my phone convo game?you really have to be quick and alert when they drop certain questions thats why i prefer to text gives me enough time to calculate my response.a lot of the time i be thinking i should of said this instead

If you aren't good at its a waste of time develop. Keep it text and face to face. As man that's easy enough to make happen. If she objects, bushes.......

 

[NerdNash]

@kevm3 http://nerdatthecooltable.com/2014/02/quick-little-gems-dealing-with-women-pt-19/

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

If you aren't good at its a waste of time develop. Keep it text and face to face. As man that's easy enough to make happen. If she objects, bushes.......

nah but there has to be phone conversations if she aint calling you at all thats a red flag imo the problem is i always slip up and say something stupid in my attempt to shield any awkward silences

 

[The ADD]

nah but there has to be phone conversations if she aint calling you at all thats a red flag imo the problem is i always slip up and say something stupid in my attempt to shield any awkward silences

Why would you want to spend hours talking to her instead of being in person if you have that option. I'm not saying never speak on the phone but unless this chick is a teenager she should be past expecting a guy to be on the phone all night.