Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr210]

rarely if ever can exes go from smashing, loving etc. to just being "friens"




they dated 3 years,a nd how many years have you dated? she has more of a connection,, slept more with this guy, her family cares about him more than you and your ok with that?




page 64 of the book of reincar paragraph 6

"women will tell you whatever you want to hear to calm your fears"

ah let me see of all the things women have told me

"he's just a friend" - ended up dating and marrying this "friend"

"i hate him, he abused me, threatened my family and he cheated on me and treated me horribly, i could never be with someone like that ever again" - girl who ended up cheating on me with her abusive ex.

Whenever a woman tells you she has no feelings for another guy its the total opposite.



for what? f that nygga



smrt man, don't be cool with it, don't let your guard down, 99% of men who stay talking to their exes, hope to either sleep with them, get back with them, or get extremely jealous when they date again.

its not healthy at all.

I couldnt have broken it down any better, I have not and will not date a woman who is still friends with an ex because Im not friends with any of my exes. Can they have male friends, yeah, because I do have female friends (ie 2) but best believe Im keeping an eye and if something isnt right or I get that gut instinct I terminate immediately

 

[DaRealness]

My girl is still friends with her ex. They dated 3 years. He did a lot for her and her fam and she told me that their friendship won't terminate. She has no feelings of love for him anymore she says.

She wants me to meet this nikka too but idk of I really want to yet.

Anyways Im not cool with it at all and she knows this but it's just something I can accept, I trust her.

She needs to go back to him then.


I would have been

and there's no way I'd tolerate that shyt. The minute you have a falling out with her or one of her family members it's gonna be "well Johnny would have done this, Johnny would never have done that". The fukk is ole dude still hanging around for anyway and why does she want you to meet him? It ain't like they have kids together. LOL @ her rubbing that shyt in your face and playing games.

Don't let this chick play you and take you for a fool, man. Walk away with your dignity while you still can and leave that "well, my baby would never do this to me" talk for the birds. Come on dude. Wake up and stop burying your head in the sand.

 

[CASHAPP]

secured cc aren't bad for building credit because you cant spend more than you put on the card.

CC debt trust me, ive been 25k cc debt in the whole before its not nice at all

No but I mean in termsof the credit score....like would u be able to start getting a credit score and a good one at that within 6 months?

I wanted to be able to take out a personal loan to be able to go to4 year college

 

[MikelArteta]

No but I mean in termsof the credit score....like would u be able to start getting a credit score and a good one at that within 6 months?

I wanted to be able to take out a personal loan to be able to go to4 year college

it takes time

The purpose of a secured card is to build credit so you can qualify for a regular account.
6 months apply for a reg cc and voila

 

[DaRealness]

 

[Turbulent]

So I recently got my tax return....I was thinking for a while to use it to get a secured credit card but now I'm not sure....I have no history of creditand I know they usually recommend secured creditcards for peoplein my situation when ur getting ur first card...

But do any of u guys have any tips for me if I should go ahead with it or not? I guess I'm worried about having to pay part of a cable bill monthly while working a minimum wage job I make under $200 weekly while paying a credit bill monthly will be too much....

Does the secured credit card really help in the long run guys?

How else would u recommend using a $215 fed return and $40 state return...

Btw @Turbulent this upcoming Monday is when I will be starting stronglifts and GOMAD

good stuff breh. follow the program as is. don't take shortcuts. also don't skip days. always show up. even if you have a cold. even if you're tired/ didn't sleep enough. even if it's just to do one set of squats and go back home. even if you only end up spending 5min at the gym. show up every session you're suppose to and try as best as you can to follow the program.

 

[kevm3]

With credit cards, don't ever run up more than you can pay off that month. Treat it like a more convenient form of cash and you'll be straight.

 

[karim]

nothing wrong with keeping the old stuff because it reminds you that you are human. You may not have ended on the best terms with some of your exes, but you still had the feelings and memories. Society tell us that we, as men, should be emotionless, but that's simply not true. As men, we have to keep our emotions under control, but if you turn emotionless, you are a step away from being a psychopath.

lol, so what about chicks keeping stuff from past relationships and thinking about exes? does it also remind them that they are human or does it make them untrustworthy demons that will cheat on you with said exes the first chance they get

 

[A.V.]

lol, so what about chicks keeping stuff from past relationships and thinking about exes? does it also remind them that they are human or does it make them untrustworthy demons that will cheat on you with said exes the first chance they get

 

[karim]

 

[Mr210]

lol, so what about chicks keeping stuff from past relationships and thinking about exes? does it also remind them that they are human or does it make them untrustworthy demons that will cheat on you with said exes the first chance they get

It depends on what it is, I have a problem with chicks who be keeping pictures and cards and shyt like that. My previous gf didnt like that I would wear a Michael Kors watch that my ex bought me, but she thought it was perfectly ok to keep cards, pictures etc

 

[kevm3]

lol, so what about chicks keeping stuff from past relationships and thinking about exes? does it also remind them that they are human or does it make them untrustworthy demons that will cheat on you with said exes the first chance they get

keeping stuff from old relationships vs actively keeping in contact with an ex. two difference circumstances

 

[MikelArteta]

lol, so what about chicks keeping stuff from past relationships and thinking about exes? does it also remind them that they are human or does it make them untrustworthy demons that will cheat on you with said exes the first chance they get

big difference between keeping stuff from past relationships, and texting, hanging out with your ex.

 

[Action Mike]

literally mostly visit this site to view this topic

been lurking for a minute

will contribute in time

 

[mamba]

She needs to go back to him then.


I would have been

and there's no way I'd tolerate that shyt. The minute you have a falling out with her or one of her family members it's gonna be "well Johnny would have done this, Johnny would never have done that". The fukk is ole dude still hanging around for anyway and why does she want you to meet him? It ain't like they have kids together. LOL @ her rubbing that shyt in your face and playing games.

Don't let this chick play you and take you for a fool, man. Walk away with your dignity while you still can and leave that "well, my baby would never do this to me" talk for the birds. Come on dude. Wake up and stop burying your head in the sand.

The nerve of some of these women, breh.