Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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No simping but you need to end it on a good note. Take her to get something to eat and lightweight apologize so she drops it... ignoring her is too risky. I learned this game from a homie that would do the same when chicks let him go raw, then the next morning start complaining. He'd take them out to eat, but them the pill, apologize, etc. and never got caught up.

Always always always end every interaction on a good note.

Well she already unfriended me on FB...and I sent her a nice text message on some "we can still be friends" shyt...but other then that...:camby:
 

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Sorry but :ufdup:

When a chick says she's gonna pop mollys/coke/weed whatever, then that should be a red flag. From what you typed, I could tell from the convo alone before you got to the house that the broad's milk carton wasn't exactly sitting on the top shelf in the refrigerator. She's obviously batso.

p*ssy brought you into the world, don't let it take you out.
 

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I keep y'all updated..but I'll keep that as a lesson next time....

Just the NERVE of some of these chicks man...:snoop:
 

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Got damn thats powerful :damn:







But its not from a woman's mouth though :wow:
 
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What happened breh
I need the story.
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Man shieeeet. We were acquaintances or whatever freshman year and that's it. I'd see her once in a blue moon soph year and when id say hi she'd act like I was some new nikka so I was like :dahell: fast forward to this year and we find out we both live in the same apartment complex so I was like #ighhhhhtttt. Then I find out we're in the same class and wave to her and she gives me the most quiet non-interested "how are you" in history. I'm like :wtf: this girl really be fading me. The last straw was last week getting off the bus and I said hi to her and she looked at me and kept walking. I hit her with the :beli: and kept moving. She then apologized and said it was cuz she just wanted to go to bed. bytch it was 1pm you betta beat ya feet and get to class :what: I said "it's obvious you don't feel like talking so bye" then I speed walked to the building our class was in. She was sick as hell talmbout "Grams are you serious????" She actually yelled that and had random people looking to see wtf was going on. Ever since then I catch her staring. Today after class ended she was waiting for me to walk out with her I was like foh I gotta talk to the professor. She on that now :manny:
 

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Man shieeeet. We were acquaintances or whatever freshman year and that's it. I'd see her once in a blue moon soph year and when id say hi she'd act like I was some new nikka so I was like :dahell: fast forward to this year and we find out we both live in the same apartment complex so I was like #ighhhhhtttt. Then I find out we're in the same class and wave to her and she gives me the most quiet non-interested "how are you" in history. I'm like :wtf: this girl really be fading me. The last straw was last week getting off the bus and I said hi to her and she looked at me and kept walking. I hit her with the :beli: and kept moving. She then apologized and said it was cuz she just wanted to go to bed. bytch it was 1pm you betta beat ya feet and get to class :what: I said "it's obvious you don't feel like talking so bye" then I speed walked to the building our class was in. She was sick as hell talmbout "Grams are you serious????" She actually yelled that and had random people looking to see wtf was going on. Ever since then I catch her staring. Today after class ended she was waiting for me to walk out with her I was like foh I gotta talk to the professor. She on that now :manny:


Its like bytches don't want you but don't want you to know that they don't.
 

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It's game playing. As soon as she knew that she 'had you', she loses interest. As soon as you are 'not interested', she thinks you're a challenge and will pursue. Honestly, don't pay too much attention to her. The only reason she wants you now is because 'she can't have you', but as soon as you give her somewhat regular attention, then she'll go back to treating you how she did.
 

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It's game playing. As soon as she knew that she 'had you', she loses interest. As soon as you are 'not interested', she thinks you're a challenge and will pursue. Honestly, don't pay too much attention to her. The only reason she wants you now is because 'she can't have you', but as soon as you give her somewhat regular attention, then she'll go back to treating you how she did.

But how do you get her though?
If you ignore her, she's interested.
But if you act on her being interested, she'll go right back to ignoring you because now you're paying her attention again.
 

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But how do you get her though?
If you ignore her, she's interested.
But if you act on her being interested, she'll go right back to ignoring you because now you're paying her attention again.

You don't get her. You move on to another woman who isn't about these sorry games and has a natural interest in who you are.
 

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You don't get her. You move on to another woman who isn't about these sorry games and has a natural interest in who you are.
Kev, swear down, I used to think you were corny cuz of the Jesus shyt but you really drop knowledge. I'm sorry I ever doubted the lightskin gawd :wow:
 

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But how do you get her though?
If you ignore her, she's interested.
But if you act on her being interested, she'll go right back to ignoring you because now you're paying her attention again.

You don't get her. You move on to another woman who isn't about these sorry games and has a natural interest in who you are.

Exactly and btw that chick I told you all about who accused me of being boring hit me up yet AGAIN. I just didn't bother to reply.

I'm not interested in being some silly chick's 'challenge'. Just deal me with normally or don't deal with me at all. I'm way too old for that silliness.
 

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But how do you get her though?
If you ignore her, she's interested.
But if you act on her being interested, she'll go right back to ignoring you because now you're paying her attention again.

like kevm said cut your losses, unless you want to continue this corny games some women play.

It's the same games many exes play if you have dated alot of women you break up, you check your phone for that text or phone call that never comes, you check their facebook all the time, you think about them all the time, then finally one day it stops, slowly you stop caring as much, and just like clockwork you get a text message from a number or a phone call and you answer and your shocked, or a email or a facebook message. It's like some sick joke once you no longer care or show any initiative that you do, they have to reaffirm in their mind that they still can still have.

Has happaned to me numerous times in life, even with chicks i wasn't even dating just talking to, i delete their number chalk it up to non interest cuz i can feel it then out of the blue pop.

And always it comes down to a few reasons

1. she hasn't talked to me in awhile, and concocted in her mind that I was interested at one point and is fishing if I am still.

2. A favour, as she scrolls down the list of "male friends" and comes across my name

3. if something is going terrible in her life , example the guy she was interested more than me is a "cheater", or only used her for sex

I have no time wasting my time on women like this , why? Because there are so so so so much women, now more than ever there are more single women, there are more single women than married women. Hell i'm 29 and women in my age range and above who are stills ingle is so shocking, so why would i waste my tme when i'm the rare commodity when there are single lonely women all around me?
 
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