Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Beerus]

do what you feel breh. nothing wrong with re-confirming. nothing wrong with calling her or not calling her. texting her or not texting her. that's what i'm trying to explain to y'all. there is no right or wrong answer. only right and wrong mindset. if you have the right mindset, whatever move you do will work out for you. if you have the wrong mindset, even if you do all the "correct moves" you still won't feel right cause your actions will be born out of neediness. and she'll feel it. i feel the fear in your posts breh. the fear of fukking up. the fear of saying the wrong thing and losing "the opportunity". the fear of her misunderstanding you. and if i can feel it from your post, you better believe she can feel in in your texts, in your voice, etc. she probably knows she's in control breh. like i said you're behind the 8ball. let me break it down iller. take some time to calm down and reflect on all this. she already knows you're feeling her breh. she sees you make efforts to spend time with her. is she making efforts to spend time with you though? is she trying to figure out when you're free to do something with you? because this is what she would be doing if she was feeling you as much as you are feeling her. now i'm not saying you're done in the game. but you're way behind as of now. you're gonna have to do some major playing in order to steer this ship. what i'm saying is why invest all this energy when you could focus it on women that are actually trying to be in a position to ride your dikk? get your mind right breh.

I see all that, but breh I just met her on friday. a week ain't even passed yet. We ain't really text that much(so I ain't show that type of fear ). lol i ain't even speak wit her on the phone yet. shyt she the one who hit me up with them morning texts and tryna add me on facebook so she could talk to me on it while she was at work(shyt i was offline most of the day as soon as I jumped on facebook messenger she hit me up). Now i'm just tryna set a meet up and see if she wit it cuz if there's a cancelation im out like shyt i bagged another chick number at my job just yesterday and keeping that in a stable im tryna build and will definitely be brought up if I ain't going out with this chick next saturday

 

[EA]

I just had another example shown to me that girls are funny. I've been talking to a girl for a few months on a casual vibe and then she randomly told me that she broke up with her boyfriend recently. I don't know what kind of relationship she had with her guy but I would have thought that a "good" girl doesn't flirt with other guys late at night when she's in a relationship.

She asked me when am I gonna come and see her and part of me doesn't wanna follow her up on that. It's not like I was thinking of wifing her but I don't like mingling with girls that behave like that...despite my initial intentions of just casually having sex

 

[Rich Spirit]

So Big Sean ex-fiance broke up with him then gets married 3 months later to some cac?

 

[kevm3]

makes you really wonder. could it be she was talking to the dude the whole time? or maybe making some rash move to make him mad... but honestly, it's a waste of time to ponder it. This is exactly why you don't focus your life on women. Most of them are always on the prowl for an upgrade, and you are cool until the next best thing comes along.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Patrice O'Neal spit so many gems brehs.

One of em' was hilarious:

He said if us men became as "dismissive" as women, women would go insane, lmaooo!

 

[Kasual Konfidence]

So Big Sean ex-fiance broke up with him then gets married 3 months later to some cac?

She probably had homie on the DL the whole time.
Fall back dikk, all women have it breh remember that

 

[Jone2three45]

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[Kasual Konfidence]

So I'm talking to this chick,
Nothing serious but she wants to go out on a date.

Our conversations gets deeper as days go by.

She slipped up and told me that she slept with her friend, had unprotected sex with him and he came inside of her. They are still friends and talk everyday. I gave her the look. She then said I was being honest with you and your judging me? He's my friend, so what if we had unprotected sex?! I was on the pill! it's college life, get over it.






























To the bushes she goes

bytch sounds reckless breh

 

[kevm3]

So I'm talking to this chick,
Nothing serious but she wants to go out on a date.

Our conversations gets deeper as days go by.

She slipped up and told me that she slept with her friend, had unprotected sex with him and he came inside of her. They are still friends and talk everyday. I gave her the look. She then said I was being honest with you and your judging me? He's my friend, so what if we had unprotected sex?! I was on the pill! it's college life, get over it.






























To the bushes she goes

You're blessed she didn't try to pin that kid on you... you know, not tell you anything, let you take her on dates, ya'll end up doing whatever and she pops up like 'it's yours'. This just confirms the notion of the purpose of all those 'male homies'.

 

[Jone2three45]

bytch sounds reckless breh

That shyt is, but she'll never admit her ways. I told her I couldn't get serious with any woman in any situation like yours and I will not take you seriously and we shouldn't talk. So I ended it. She sent me multiple texts, saying your judging me, my friend(the one who skeeted all over her guts willy nilly) wouldn't judge me, I'm like why would he judge you if he got to skeet in you? He got what he wanted, he doesn't care about you lol. shyt is crazy.

 

[Jone2three45]

You're blessed she didn't try to pin that kid on you... you know, not tell you anything, let you take her on dates, ya'll end up doing whatever and she pops up like 'it's yours'. This just confirms the notion of the purpose of all those 'male homies'.

Word life.

 

[Kasual Konfidence]

That shyt is, but she'll never admit her ways. I told her I couldn't get serious with any woman in any situation like yours and I will not take you seriously and we shouldn't talk. So I ended it. She sent me multiple texts, saying your judging me, my friend(the one who skeeted all over her guts willy nilly) wouldn't judge me, I'm like why would he judge you if he got to skeet in you? He got what he wanted, he doesn't care about you lol. shyt is crazy.

This new generation of women we gotta deal withwtf is wrong with them. "He wouldn't judge me" Really??

You did the right thing breh and ended sh1t with chick. Plenty of other Vjay out there waiting to be preyed on

 

[kevm3]

That shyt is, but she'll never admit her ways. I told her I couldn't get serious with any woman in any situation like yours and I will not take you seriously and we shouldn't talk. So I ended it. She sent me multiple texts, saying your judging me, my friend(the one who skeeted all over her guts willy nilly) wouldn't judge me, I'm like why would he judge you if he got to skeet in you? He got what he wanted, he doesn't care about you lol. shyt is crazy.

You see all them cats calling fellas in this thread bitter, but who would have really ended up bitter if she never told you she was pregnant, pinned the child on you, you discover a couple of years later the child isn't yours, but you're already on hook for child support... you don't pay up, you go to jail.... ya'll ain't together, but the real baby daddy and her still is while you're paying for their child. you see how cold this game gets?

and that brings up another point. Ma was quite content to go chill with you and eat up your dinners, but she had a dude in the bg busting that thang down... she woulda probably cut ya'lls little outing short and went over there right thereafter.

That's why I focus more on Jesus, getting my finances together, etc., than these women. You see how dirty the game gets. That's another reason I tell dudes if you found you a decent one, get out the game.

The sad thing is, this is the type of female cats are developing new personalities for, throwing their homeboys under the bus for, coming off all this cash for... nah, makes no sense to me.

 

[Kasual Konfidence]

You see all them cats calling fellas in this thread bitter, but who would have really ended up bitter if she never told you she was pregnant, pinned the child on you, you discover a couple of years later the child isn't yours, but you're already on hook for child support... you don't pay up, you go to jail.... ya'll ain't together, but the real baby daddy and her still is while you're paying for their child. you see how cold this game gets?

and that brings up another point. Ma was quite content to go chill with you and eat up your dinners, but she had a dude in the bg busting that thang down... she woulda probably cut ya'lls little outing short and went over there right thereafter.

That's why I focus more on Jesus, getting my finances together, etc., than these women. You see how dirty the game gets. That's another reason I tell dudes if you found you a decent one, get out the game.

The sad thing is, this is the type of female cats are developing new personalities for, throwing their homeboys under the bus for, coming off all this cash for... nah, makes no sense to me.

Amen g aint nothing wrong with a thread on some enlightenment. Fellas gotta look out

don't get me wrong ni99as is foul too but women out here conniving af.

 

[kevm3]

Amen g aint nothing wrong with a thread on some enlightenment. Fellas gotta look out

don't get me wrong ni99as is foul too but women out here conniving af.

exactly. A lot of dudes are foul, and I'd tell that to a woman asking me for advice... but 9 times out of 10 she won't listen and will chalk it up to her having that magic cooch that will change him around. or how he's just misunderstood. A lot of the fellas here actually will listen, which I can give props for, because who actually wants this kind of stuff to be real?