Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-Not-Attracted-To-My-Husband/2223631

"I understand completely. I've been married 35 years, met when we were in college. Get along beautifully and are the best of friends. He's tender, caring, sweet, smart, but...doesn't turn me on. There is someone else who does but unfortunately he possesses fewer of the good qualities of my husband except for that all important issue of physical attraction.

What to do? I've decided to take the seemingly unwise and unpopular plunge toward life with the new guy, risking stability, assured good treatment, intellectual compatibility, and mutual respect. I hope it works. I love both of them. Whoever gets turned on by my husband in the future will be a very lucky woman indeed."

get married brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

Stories like these are the reason why I don't even try to impress girls anymore. Can you imagine your wife just up and leaving you after 35 years because she doesn't find you attractive anymore?

women go by emotions there is nothing you can do.

there will be some echos from simps about choosing the right women like you would know 35 years down teh road she'd change.

notice teh qualities her husband has, all he did was trea her well and did his husband duties and still got scorched.

Go to any divorce forum on teh web and its alwys men talking about their wives packing up and going, rarely a woman will post her story.

 

[EA]

women go by emotions there is nothing you can do.

there will be some echos from simps about choosing the right women like you would know 35 years down teh road she'd change.

notice teh qualities her husband has, all he did was trea her well and did his husband duties and still got scorched.

Go to any divorce forum on teh web and its alwys men talking about their wives packing up and going, rarely a woman will post her story.

It's borderline depressing. She called him her best friend and listed all of his redeeming qualities then said she's trading all of that for physical attraction and the unknown

People ain't shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's borderline depressing. She called him her best friend and listed all of his redeeming qualities then said she's trading all of that for physical attraction and the unknown

People ain't shyt.

and theres nothing you can do about it

i cant even laugh because i've been there before when i've been dumped, her momma loved me , said i was the best thing to ever happen to her daughter, but her daughter didn't "feel" it for me anymore event though I did nothing wrong, that opened my eyes fully to the game of relationships.

if her husband treated her like dung those 35 years or was a alcoholic she would have still stayed.

 

[360dagod]

Stories like these are the reason why I don't even try to impress girls anymore. Can you imagine your wife just up and leaving you after 35 years because she doesn't find you attractive anymore?

you literally gotta mind fukk these broads..

this co-worker I knew went to strip clubs and had side bytches...And he was still married after 22 years...

I think that probably made her stay...

When bytches feel or sense they have competition, they will put the effort not to lose...

When you become a "safe nikka",it all starts going downhill...

 

[MikelArteta]

that whole thread disgusts me get married brehs


Wow. Your experiences are scary (sorry). I am a 31 year old single mom to a wonderful 4 year old boy. The father of my son, (whom I was completely crazy inlove with, who sparked and satisfied all my sexual desires) is a complete loser - the last time he saw my son he was 6 weeks old; he is irresponsible, selfish, lazy among other things...and so I made the decision that the next man I devote myself to, who will be a father to my son and be a great example to him, would be the complete opposite. I have met that man, we've actually known each other for 16 years, as best friends. He not only is respectful, gentle, responsible, loving, and a gentleman; he also has an amazing relationship with my son and my family. He really spends quality time with my son doing all the things a father should do. He is concerned about my sons well being and mine too. He adores me, loves me dearly, and has been in love with me ever since we met 16 years ago, and to top it all he wants to marry me. We've had sex a couple of times years ago and just recently when we went on holiday together (as friends). The experience was terrible then, and even so now…and this l believe is because I do not find him sexually attractive at all! We have a great time together, intellectually he stimulates me and his company is great but...I just cannot imagine myself sharing a bed with him every night, kissing him and having sex with him. I sometimes cringe when he touches me and am annoyed when he wants to hug me or wants to be "nice". He is a wonderful man, he would make a perfect partner and an amazing father (my son adores him), but I am just not attracted to him. My mother and siblings, well everybody we know really, tells me that if I let him go I will never find anybody better than him; especially because I am not getting any younger. They also tell me that I am the one with the problem and should try and change my mind set to seeing him as this desirable man...how possible is that... I am starting to believe them and I am afraid of being alone, or ending up with another “the father of my son” type.

 

[Youseenmywork]

....there is a whole nother market for the side nikka

There is no such thing as the side dude ...but im let you cook thoe

 

[MikelArteta]

you literally gotta mind fukk these broads..

this co-worker I knew went to strip clubs and had side bytches...And he was still married after 22 years...

I think that probably made her stay...

When bytches feel or sense they have competition, they will put the effort not to lose...

When you become a "safe nikka",it all starts going downhill...

theres only a few women out there you don't have to do this ish and thats few and in between.

ima upload something brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

earlier this year i was messing with this chick, i thought she was different, she had all the qualities i was looking for. I let my guard down a little, opened up a little, wasn't so cold and mysterious, anyways i picked up she started to get distant. i'd call and she'd be like oh im busy i'll call you back and never did, we had a plan to go to niagara falls for the weekend and like a few days before she cancelled that she was busy, then i found out she went clubbing and to a male coworkers birthday and well that was it, i just distant myself.

and here we go

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[360dagod]

There is no such thing as the side dude ...but im let you cook thoe

I'm all for explanations doggy

 

[MikelArteta]

ok here it is, like i always tell you guys by definition id be a awkward loser nice guy, but in the end whenever im disrespected etc., no matter how she looks, no matter what she offers I am not afraid to sever all ties and walk away


in the age of the simps women think they can disrespect you, walk over you dissappear and pop whenever they please because they have a vagina and you'll be there with open arms.

NAH

And I aint even saying I'm all that, i literally have Nothing right now phone aint buzzed in a few days, but i don't need no broad to complete me.

Spoiler

 

[EA]

and theres nothing you can do about it

i cant even laugh because i've been there before when i've been dumped, her momma loved me , said i was the best thing to ever happen to her daughter, but her daughter didn't "feel" it for me anymore event though I did nothing wrong, that opened my eyes fully to the game of relationships.

if her husband treated her like dung those 35 years or was a alcoholic she would have still stayed.

I've been there myself. When my ex dumped me, she said I tick all of her boxes and would make the perfect husband but I wasn't what she needed at that point in her life. 8 months later and she still doesn't seem to understand why I wouldn't want to talk to her. The cognitive dissonance these girls display is has me at a loss for words most days.

you literally gotta mind fukk these broads..

this co-worker I knew went to strip clubs and had side bytches...And he was still married after 22 years...

I think that probably made her stay...

When bytches feel or sense they have competition, they will put the effort not to lose...

When you become a "safe nikka",it all starts going downhill...

There are no benefits to being a good dude. This is why I keep to myself and let girls wonder why I don't talk to them. I'd rather be the guy that girls say "How comes I never hear from you?" to than the guy that spends all his free time listening to them talk about themselves and play games with me.

 

[MikelArteta]

I've been there myself. When my ex dumped me, she said I tick all of her boxes and would make the perfect husband but I wasn't what she needed at that point in her life. 8 months later and she still doesn't seem to understand why I wouldn't want to talk to her. The cognitive dissonance these girls display is has me at a loss for words most days.



There are no benefits to being a good dude. This is why I keep to myself and let girls wonder why I don't talk to them. I'd rather be the guy that girls say "How comes I never hear from you?" to than the guy that spends all his free time listening to them talk about themselves and play games with me.

It's because they have a vagina, most men easily accept disrespect and welcome back women with open arms, mostly every woman i'm "acquintances" with have their exes still around, these guys just can't let go. Thats why when you let go and want absolutely nothing to do with them it bothers them And that's what sucks a man you sit around pondering i've done nothing wrong yet this happens, and you look at your brehs or other relationships and dudes cheating left and right, treating their women like crap, always fighting and they still together and your like

thats why like you i smartened up, im still a good dude, i just don't invest as much, i'm just not afraid to walk away and never look back, if folks would see the women i walked away from for even the slightest infraction they would be like

 

[Ohene]

I've been there myself. When my ex dumped me, she said I tick all of her boxes and would make the perfect husband but I wasn't what she needed at that point in her life. 8 months later and she still doesn't seem to understand why I wouldn't want to talk to her. The cognitive dissonance these girls display is has me at a loss for words most days.



There are no benefits to being a good dude. This is why I keep to myself and let girls wonder why I don't talk to them. I'd rather be the guy that girls say "How comes I never hear from you?" to than the guy that spends all his free time listening to them talk about themselves and play games with me.

i forgot who said it in another thread but I prefer to be that nikka a girl complains about. I tell my friends similar shyt.

Once a girl is no longer phased or complains about your bs...you've lost her it seems. You gotta piss em off (not purposely...just by being assertive or overly honest) every now and then; get their emotions all worked up

 

[Medio]

these stories of woman being with a man for 20 years then up and leave them for some random dude that just clicked scare the shyt out of me ...

giving your heart and soul to a women and having her cheat on you scare the shyt of out of me ...

love is scary brehs ....