Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rich Spirit]

All these young chicks ain't trying to be tied down to anyone. They wanna have their fun

 

[EA]

@craigsagersuit the writing is on the wall, breh. Girls only say that they feel like they've spent too much time with you when they're trying to distance themselves due to whatever reason (it's usually another guy or buyer's remorse). Best thing you can do is tell her to take whatever time she needs to find herself but you can't and won't wait on her. She's either going to be relieved because you gave her an out or she's gonna get upset because you didn't "fight for your relationship." Either way, you'll be in a much better space after she understands where you stand.

 

[the bossman]

i would caution guys to be careful with all women in general. even the good ones. people can change like the wind, and they have the right to.

The photo was removed because she most likely had a another nikka over and she didn't want him asking questions about u

 

[MikelArteta]

The saddest thing is that the more together your life is, the harder it is to meet someone on the same wave length of maturity and accomplishments whose also compatible and has similar goals and values.

 

[MikelArteta]

The thing is time is the greatest equalizer, there all on that want to have fun. But time catches up and soon they will face problems that are symptoms of getting older. Most fo the best guys (suited for marriage) will have been taken out of the dating pool through relationships/marriage/or not interested at all. So what they are stuck with when they are older are the lower quality to speak men (in terms of marriage). The players, the cheaters, the divorced bitter man, the “nice guy”.



This is why if you are a good single man (in terms of marriage potential) in the end you win, because the number of suitable men decrease exponentially. And this is why there are so many older single men out there with so many options, and why women fight and do their best to keep him.



Many of these brehettes think their ship won’t sink, that it will always be like this. Just sit around and look at what these young immature chicks look for. Is he attractive? Does he make me laugh? What kind of car? What kind of career? Where does he live? Is their first date chemistry? What interests.



While mature women look at character and compatibility. Is he Nice? Does he treat me with respect? Is he emotionally stable? Do values match up (not interests), is his life in order (no drama, side chicks, etc.)

All these young chicks ain't trying to be tied down to anyone. They wanna have their fun

 

[Ohene]

Yep, you probably have a solid investment in her and you don't want to feel you 'ruined it' by making a hasty move, so you can sit and wait. Most likely, what you will find is something will start being 'different' that you can't quite put your finger on... meaning she's more and more busy, isn't as affectionate as she used to be, etc. You can try to make maneuvers to get it right, but how I feel is that you can't rationalize with women when it comes to issues like this, especially when you have them saying 'we need to make mistakes'. What do women in their 30s call the dudes that ran through them and never committed? That's right, 'oh he was a mistake. I made my mistakes when I was younger." In other words, in her mind, she is emotionally committed to 'finding herself', aka having fun with no repercussions. If you keep her around, you'll find that she MIGHT stick around, but you'll start noticing that things have changed as said earlier.

yup. tthis is why i said dude needs to just sit loose and raise the antennas. it seemed like he been with girl for a while

 

[CityGuy]

Met this 27 year old off OKC who seems to have it all together. Masters degree, can cook, funny, straight forward and has good looks. It's been 3 weeks so my guard is always up waiting at any moment for her to slip up. She hits me up to go to the movies and offers to pay for dinner. Not trying to rush things but brehs she's literally everything off the check list right now.

 

[MikelArteta]

Remember Stoll honeymoon but you never know enjoy

Met this 27 year old off OKC who seems to have it all together. Masters degree, can cook, funny, straight forward and has good looks. It's been 3 weeks so my guard is always up waiting at any moment for her to slip up. She hits me up to go to the movies and offers to pay for dinner. Not trying to rush things but brehs she's literally everything off the check list right now.

 

[Nephilim_BC]

I used to have twitter and I was flirting with this chick. She had a dude, but she never cared as long as I didn't take it to far. She low key liked it

Her and her dude broke up in December, I had deleted my twitter but I had her on Snapchat. She hit me up on there asking where I've been and gave me her number
So I flirted with her more, she said we can talk and get to know each other but I have to go to church with her

 

[Nephilim_BC]

Also, y'all have a specific way y'all always approach women? I always ask them if I can take them out for ice cream. Girls like silly shyt (and ice cream apparently) or I'll ask them when was the last time someone complimented them in person.

 

[TRUEST]

That explains a lot. My only advice is to let her work through it but keep aware for signs she is stepping out on you. Lastly don't be surprised if it ends at some point.

ol boy needs to start building up a roster IMMEDIATELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i've dealt with situations like this on more than one occasion. nothing beats having options. trust!

 

[TRUEST]

Also, y'all have a specific way y'all always approach women? I always ask them if I can take them out for ice cream. Girls like silly shyt (and ice cream apparently) or I'll ask them when was the last time someone complimented them in person.

cold approach hardly ever works for me. but there's been instances where it has. the circumstances have to be right. say hi to her. ask her a question about whatever it is u see about her that intrigues u. what type of dog is that? how old is he? whats your name? girls who aint interested keep their answers short. and they never ask for ur name back after u asked em for theirs.

once u get a girl's number though, make sure u get the hell out of there. dont sit there trying to make small talk. once u get the number, be like its nice meeting u. i'll be linking up with u soon so we can continue to this. and leave asap. the more u talk, the more likely u'll fucck up. unless u got a serious next-level mouthpiece.

 

[Nephilim_BC]

cold approach hardly ever works for me. but there's been instances where it has. the circumstances have to be right. say hi to her. ask her a question about whatever it is u see about her that intrigues u. what type of dog is that? how old is he? whats your name? girls who aint interested keep their answers short. and they never ask for ur name back after u asked em for theirs.

once u get a girl's number though, make sure u get the hell out of there. dont sit there trying to make small talk. once u get the number, be like its nice meeting u. i'll be linking up with u soon so we can continue to this. and leave asap. the more u talk, the more likely u'll fucck up. unless u got a serious next-level mouthpiece.

everything

this girl at my job, im about to switch jobs soon so gonna try to talk to her before I leave so I can connect with her after I go.

 

[Mr210]

Are you guys actually learning anything

 

[jadillac]

All of the I love you talk doesn't mean a doggone thing. It's just a fun thing to say 'in the moment' to a lot of women. The same woman telling you she loves you more than anything in the whole wide world could easily be talking to some options as soon as she leaves your presence. That same woman will up and disappear on some, "Oh, well school just made me busy," KNOWING she was chilling with some other dude.

That girl not hitting you back in 3 months but continuing off from the last message you sent just shows how little you meant. In other words, she felt so little for you that not one day in 3 months did she feel the urge to see how you were doing.or to follow up on you. I know when a woman really cares for you, you not hitting her up after 1 or 2 days will have her asking where you've been at.

What the majority of these women are doing is exploring a ton of options and telling each one just enough to leave the door open so they can potentially come back to the one they have on the backburner. The gameplan a lot of these women have is be a career woman and wild out, and then in her 30s, find some dude to marry, have kids and check out of work, aka 'be a housewife'. This simp won't even get to really enjoy 'having a wife' either. What will likely end up happening is the simp will end up doing the housekeeping as well as working and paying all the bills... she'll be chilling at home, probably hitting up dudes on tinder or some other app and then make plans to divorce him in 3 or 4 years and get that alimony and child support. Then she goes back to the 'mistakes', aka bad boys who knock her down and discard her. I really wish dudes would stop falling for this game. It's hard to break out of that gray zone where things are never really clear, but realistically, we are in the age of unprecedented communication. NO ONE is too busy to text and contact someone if they really want to. They simply don't want to. Are you telling me this girl didn't watch any television shows, couldn't grab her phone while she was on the toilet, or didn't have a single iota of free time? However, the average dude is so afraid of being alone and places such high value on a particular woman, that he's perfectly fine being a male sidepiece in which the woman can hit up and discard at any time.

Fellas, this right here is the HARD & honest TRUTH, it should make you delete any shady/flakey chicks number in your phone, you should STOP hopign she'll hit you up sometime, and stop randomly hitting her up hoping she'll play along. You're just feeding her ego. She has no problem staying on facebook all day, or tinder....but you're simply not a priority to her. Even if she responds to your text, does she ever text you first?

Delete, delete, delete.

Unless....she's legit your friend and someone who ur cool with. And I only have 1-2 of those type of girls.

Knowing "the game" and playing "the game" is so awkward. Is so different when the ball is in your hands and you have to go against everything as a "good" man that you've been taught because you know the person won't respond the same way.

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this is too real man. It's a shame that you have to change to get somewhere w/ most women. And in the end, you usually just end up wasting YOUR time/money and losing a piece of yourself b/c you're being fake.