Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Youseenmywork
KING
spring around the corner, gonna be time to rebuild that roster in a minute.
At work looked over a case
Husband making over a mill a year and wife still left now getting 25,000 a month in spousal support.
But but Money, status
No infidelity, married for over 20 years
Husband making over a mill a year and wife still left now getting 25,000 a month in spousal support.
But but Money, status
No infidelity, married for over 20 years
The majority of women simply don't care about what you 'do for them', which is a very tough pill to swallow for the average man.
I just realized that I'm going to have to add "pleasant disposition/temperament" to my list of traits I want in a girl.
I'm dealing with this chick right now. Who is super fine and has a ton of potential but is hella moody!
This is how it goes when I see her and she's in a bad mood.
Me:
Her:
Me:
Her:
Me:
Her:
Me:
shyt be ruining my day sometimes. I'm reflecting back and I really like girls who walk around with a smile on their face. I'm never taking that for granted again.
some people have a frown on their face and they dont know it. its usually because they're always in deep thought. but if you alert them to it, they'll usually lighten up, smile and gleefully provide an explanation for the look.
but if someone is always walking around with the kind of look u described, and after u tell them, they continue doing it, u might wanna be careful. eyes are indeed the windows into the soul. pay attention to what u see.
if u wanna know the type of people that have the strongest potential to do you dirty, it is imperative to pay attention to little things like these.
That's pretty much the gist of it. The essence of a woman is her emotions. When her emotions wanes, she could care less about you. When her emotions are on, she'll essentially do anything for you. That's the one thing that keeps women sticking around losers. They know how to get her in her emotions.
Youseenmywork
KING
http://elitedaily.com/dating/need-know-soul-look-soulmate/936336
Very good article its informative ...its also were my mind has been.
@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf
Very good article its informative ...its also were my mind has been.
@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf
Yup I saw you post it in the other thread
Shocked a woman wrote it
But I agree with it, why as well I'll never settle.
You know your soulmate will add to your life, but won’t evermake your life. You found your purpose long ago and no one can ever take that away from you or replace it.
Shocked a woman wrote it
But I agree with it, why as well I'll never settle.
You know your soulmate will add to your life, but won’t evermake your life. You found your purpose long ago and no one can ever take that away from you or replace it.
Youseenmywork
KING
Yup I saw you post it in the other thread
Shocked a woman wrote it
But I agree with it, why as well I'll never settle.
You know your soulmate will add to your life, but won’t evermake your life. You found your purpose long ago and no one can ever take that away from you or replace it.
I can say as a Man i havent done the best at buliding my world. I havent done the best wit this all of my life . So i didnt want to date this year my focus has been on me my insecurities...fears and just overall short comings as a Man.I believe that s why i dont post that much in this thread its only so many times you can say women anit shyt
.Lately i have just been reflecting on what needs to change about me so i can attract the right women.
I know what you mean I used to hop from relationship to relationship, dating site profiles when single chatting up a bunch of broads now no more, even when I was single for a while I was still bitter/angry, this is one fo teh first times in my life I can truly say 
. I'm in the gym, writing, and hopefully will start this new job soon, i'm doing me!!
. I'm in the gym, writing, and hopefully will start this new job soon, i'm doing me!! [I can say as a Man i havent done the best at buliding my world. I havent done the best wit this all of my life . So i didnt want to date this year my focus has been on me my insecurities...fears and just overall short comings as a Man.I believe that s why i dont post that much in this thread its only so many times you can say women anit shyt
I was renting out part of my life to bad tenants.......I was young and never paid attention to personality, character, values nothing I just cared what she looked like. If she was extremely attractive and she liked me and made the first move I'd date her. As time went on it became the same song and dance, now looking back some of the most beautiful women I ever dated were also the most toxic as I was overlooking the interior for the exterior just to be with them.
And many times I would stay longer than I should have. Codependency? meh maybe a little bit. Negative thoughts encompassing my mind....hmm maybe this it. I will never get another woman this beautiful again lol. So I stayed in toxic situations scared of the unknown, hoping for a change.
Time and time again I was going down the same path towards the same ending. Facing an individual I thought I knew extremely well, but in fact at the conclusion to my surprise I did not. I was then left in anguish, bitterness, anger and frustration - oh woe is me pity pity pity; this was not helping me at all except for leaving me stuck marinating in negative feelings. But this was my fault I was choosing women with no redeeming qualities at all. Sticking around because they were beautiful, hoping that I could change them/the situation - however all I was doing was renting space in my mind and my life to bad tenants so to speak.
Gentlemen, we can rebuild him. We have the technology. We have the capability
As I got older, my thought process shifted immensely. I looked at the common denominator in all these situations and it was well this quirky individual staring back at me in the mirror. I was willingly jumping into these situations, I was willingly overlooking - I was the manager hiring not qualified individuals but I kept on looking the other way blaming them when I knew they did not have the qualifications in the first place, I had no one to blame but myself.
And with experience comes wisdom, I could either use that wisdom to my advantage or continue down the same vicious and toxic path. Meh I decided to use my wisdom instead. So while physical attraction is somewhat important to attract initially, in the end beauty fades. What good is being with someone I can't trust, who has no loyalty, who brings me down instead of enriching me, who doesn't share my values, who is just wasting my time. The terrible/sad thing about these unhealthy relationships/individuals is that they are very difficult to detach from - trust me I know first hand. However I decided I would rather be in a stable fulfilling relationship with someone who matches my values or embrace being single than to be anchored to a woman/relationship bringing me constant drama and discord. So I threw all my tokens for chaotic emotional roller coasters/toxic individuals and ahhhh peace!!!!!
So yeah I feel stronger now, much stronger. Knowing that I have the ability to now walk away from any situation/relationship/woman that is a detriment to my life. Although I had much more success with women when I looked the other way so to speak, life has never been so blissful (yes even single). I'm emotionally stable and grounded now, so much wiser only making sound decisions - RIP to neuroticism. So to pull that cliche quote everything happens for a reason meh at least thankfully I've rediscovered myself and refuse to let thoughts of frustration, disappointment, resentment or angry grow. Life is to wonderful for that.
And many times I would stay longer than I should have. Codependency? meh maybe a little bit. Negative thoughts encompassing my mind....hmm maybe this it. I will never get another woman this beautiful again lol. So I stayed in toxic situations scared of the unknown, hoping for a change.
Time and time again I was going down the same path towards the same ending. Facing an individual I thought I knew extremely well, but in fact at the conclusion to my surprise I did not. I was then left in anguish, bitterness, anger and frustration - oh woe is me pity pity pity; this was not helping me at all except for leaving me stuck marinating in negative feelings. But this was my fault I was choosing women with no redeeming qualities at all. Sticking around because they were beautiful, hoping that I could change them/the situation - however all I was doing was renting space in my mind and my life to bad tenants so to speak.
Gentlemen, we can rebuild him. We have the technology. We have the capability
As I got older, my thought process shifted immensely. I looked at the common denominator in all these situations and it was well this quirky individual staring back at me in the mirror. I was willingly jumping into these situations, I was willingly overlooking - I was the manager hiring not qualified individuals but I kept on looking the other way blaming them when I knew they did not have the qualifications in the first place, I had no one to blame but myself.
And with experience comes wisdom, I could either use that wisdom to my advantage or continue down the same vicious and toxic path. Meh I decided to use my wisdom instead. So while physical attraction is somewhat important to attract initially, in the end beauty fades. What good is being with someone I can't trust, who has no loyalty, who brings me down instead of enriching me, who doesn't share my values, who is just wasting my time. The terrible/sad thing about these unhealthy relationships/individuals is that they are very difficult to detach from - trust me I know first hand. However I decided I would rather be in a stable fulfilling relationship with someone who matches my values or embrace being single than to be anchored to a woman/relationship bringing me constant drama and discord. So I threw all my tokens for chaotic emotional roller coasters/toxic individuals and ahhhh peace!!!!!
So yeah I feel stronger now, much stronger. Knowing that I have the ability to now walk away from any situation/relationship/woman that is a detriment to my life. Although I had much more success with women when I looked the other way so to speak, life has never been so blissful (yes even single). I'm emotionally stable and grounded now, so much wiser only making sound decisions - RIP to neuroticism. So to pull that cliche quote everything happens for a reason meh at least thankfully I've rediscovered myself and refuse to let thoughts of frustration, disappointment, resentment or angry grow. Life is to wonderful for that.