Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[jadillac]

Are you guys actually learning anything

there's plenty to be learned in here. There's plenty to apply to a past situation that you didnt understand, there's plenty to learn from other brehs current situations, and there's plenty to be mindful of in future relationships.

On top of this, people have different views/opinions on dealing w/ women. You can fit some of them into what you currently do & make yourself sharper.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

While mature women look at character and compatibility. Is he Nice? Does he treat me with respect? Is he emotionally stable? Do values match up (not interests), is his life in order (no drama, side chicks, etc.)

You mean the same mature women that were thots before?

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I just realized that I'm going to have to add "pleasant disposition/temperament" to my list of traits I want in a girl.

I'm dealing with this chick right now. Who is super fine and has a ton of potential but is hella moody!

This is how it goes when I see her and she's in a bad mood.

Me:
Her:
Me:
Her:
Me:
Her:

Me:

shyt be ruining my day sometimes. I'm reflecting back and I really like girls who walk around with a smile on their face. I'm never taking that for granted again.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

but I have to go to church with her

If a woman said this to me I'd delete her number

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

21.



she's saying that because she has spent so much time with me, she has put everyone else behind for me so she just wants to hang out a little less than usual, hang out with her girlfriends more and her mom. her mom even gave the spiel about how maybe this is God's way of teaching her to only rely on him and not your significant other.

You're a better person than me believing all that bullshyt. I've gotten to this weird point in my life where I'm honestly not caring about women's feelings anymore, despite growing up with women and always trying to be respectful and caring... I just don't give a fukk anymore. There simply isn't enough value in that kind of shyt anymore. Only thing I care about is improving my standing in the world, family and friends, exploring what the world has to offer, and increasing cash flow. If this were me she'd get that scorched Earth plan. Break it off, cut all contact, and delete all contacts including social media. She wants to go fukk other people imo, but doesn't have the balls to say it. Which is the biggest problem with women they just aren't direct at all.

I feel for you because I completely understand why you'd want to attempt to keep it alive, but you need to understand y'all are 21 and this is usually around the time most women want to basically fukk ALOT of different people with no consequences, and there's nothing wrong with that because hell most of us want to do the same thing...... The problem is she's trying to keep you at arms length while she does this and that's extremely disrespectful.

My recommendation is to drop her, and let her know you're going to do you and wish her the best. Don't let her put you on the back burner. Remember a man's value only increases with age. There is ZERO rush for us to settle down. Our shelf life is much longer than theirs. We're a fine wine where they're all new cars. Don't let her come crawling back after she let every dude that needed a rental or a lease drive and she's broken down. Why settle for a used car when you can afford the brand new fresh off the line car? You should honestly take her advice..... Discover yourself, BUT actually do it in a productive way. fukk women when you can, but mostly gain knowledge and experience in everything you can. Knowledge and experience are two of the most valuable commodities in this world after money. The more you posses the more respect and value you command.... Good Luck

 

[jadillac]

I just realized that I'm going to have to add "pleasant disposition/temperament" to my list of traits I want in a girl.

I'm dealing with this chick right now. Who is super fine and has a ton of potential but is hella moody!

This is how it goes when I see her and she's in a bad mood.

Me:
Her:
Me:
Her:
Me:
Her:

Me:

shyt be ruining my day sometimes. I'm reflecting back and I really like girls who walk around with a smile on their face. I'm never taking that for granted again.

lol

no doubt she acts that way b/c of the bolded. And she's gotten away with pouting/people giving way to her whims.

She likely KNOWS that it ruins your day/messes w/ ur mood, and that probably strengthens her reasons to continue to be that way b/c it's effective.


but yeah, just in general you(we all) should desire a pleasant woman. If you think about it, you see a pretty woman across teh room, wouldn't it make more sense if she was pleasant to go along with her looks, rather than contentious/moody?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I used to have twitter and I was flirting with this chick. She had a dude, but she never cared as long as I didn't take it to far. She low key liked it

Her and her dude broke up in December, I had deleted my twitter but I had her on Snapchat. She hit me up on there asking where I've been and gave me her number
So I flirted with her more, she said we can talk and get to know each other but I have to go to church with her

I would tell her straight up, No.

 

[Spliff]

Young shorty at work been puttin the full court press on me lately. The whole rubbing-bodies-as-I-walk-by shyt, standing close as fukk when sharing a space, extended eye contact with that demonic smirk (eyes sexy as fukk too ), staying late to talk, sneakin in physical contact (chest/ab/shoulder/back rub), puttin off duties to continue conversing and shyt. Shorty will break her ankle to come back and go "oh, did you say somethin else "

etc etc

Basically almost every indicator of interest you can safely show at work without broadcasting to the whole staff. This been going on since for about 7 months to different intensities

Now you're probably sayin "bruh...put ya bid in she tossin it at you on the low"

BUT she's:

-enganged
-has a kid
-lives with her fiance and his fam
-shares car with fiance



I pay her no serious mind and take it like she just seeking attention. Normally when I run into these situations its a go but I'm cuz its at work and her baggage is hilariously over-the-top. This my first job with direct women coworkers; I'm new to the environment. I hear how these office women seek to fill a void at work that their relationship ain't providing.

Plus that karma

But shes your typical hood medical assistant. They tend to be bout that action, IME, and she elevating this shyt to new heights now

I need words of wisdom brehs, the demonic realm is pulling me in

 

[The ADD]

Young shorty at work been puttin the full court press on me lately. The whole rubbing-bodies-as-I-walk-by shyt, standing close as fukk when sharing a space, extended eye contact with that demonic smirk (eyes sexy as fukk too ), staying late to talk, sneakin in physical contact (chest/ab/shoulder/back rub), puttin off duties to continue conversing and shyt. Shorty will break her ankle to come back and go "oh, did you say somethin else "

etc etc

Basically almost every indicator of interest you can safely show at work without broadcasting to the whole staff. This been going on since for about 7 months to different intensities

Now you're probably sayin "bruh...put ya bid in she tossin it at you on the low"

BUT she's:

-enganged
-has a kid
-lives with her fiance and his fam
-shares care with fiance



I pay her no serious mind and take it like she just seeking attention. Normally when I run into these situations its a go but I'm cuz its at work and her baggage is hilariously over-the-top. This my first job with direct women coworkers; I'm new to the environment. I hear how these office women seek to fill a void at work that their relationship ain't providing.

Plus that karma

But shes your typical hood medical assistant. They tend to be bout that action, IME, and she elevating this shyt to new heights now

I need words of wisdom brehs, the demonic realm is pulling me in

Been there fam, very similar situation. Went as far as trying to start the process outside of work but one phone call snapped me back to reality.

That easy kill is hella tempting but nothing good will come from it.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Young shorty at work been puttin the full court press on me lately. The whole rubbing-bodies-as-I-walk-by shyt, standing close as fukk when sharing a space, extended eye contact with that demonic smirk (eyes sexy as fukk too ), staying late to talk, sneakin in physical contact (chest/ab/shoulder/back rub), puttin off duties to continue conversing and shyt. Shorty will break her ankle to come back and go "oh, did you say somethin else "

etc etc

Basically almost every indicator of interest you can safely show at work without broadcasting to the whole staff. This been going on since for about 7 months to different intensities

Now you're probably sayin "bruh...put ya bid in she tossin it at you on the low"

BUT she's:

-enganged
-has a kid
-lives with her fiance and his fam
-shares car with fiance



I pay her no serious mind and take it like she just seeking attention. Normally when I run into these situations its a go but I'm cuz its at work and her baggage is hilariously over-the-top. This my first job with direct women coworkers; I'm new to the environment. I hear how these office women seek to fill a void at work that their relationship ain't providing.

Plus that karma

But shes your typical hood medical assistant. They tend to be bout that action, IME, and she elevating this shyt to new heights now

I need words of wisdom brehs, the demonic realm is pulling me in

Never shyt where you eat.

 

[MikelArteta]

You can

Lose your job
Fiance psyxgo beats you up or worse

Its not worth it

Young shorty at work been puttin the full court press on me lately. The whole rubbing-bodies-as-I-walk-by shyt, standing close as fukk when sharing a space, extended eye contact with that demonic smirk (eyes sexy as fukk too ), staying late to talk, sneakin in physical contact (chest/ab/shoulder/back rub), puttin off duties to continue conversing and shyt. Shorty will break her ankle to come back and go "oh, did you say somethin else "

etc etc

Basically almost every indicator of interest you can safely show at work without broadcasting to the whole staff. This been going on since for about 7 months to different intensities

Now you're probably sayin "bruh...put ya bid in she tossin it at you on the low"

BUT she's:

-enganged
-has a kid
-lives with her fiance and his fam
-shares car with fiance



I pay her no serious mind and take it like she just seeking attention. Normally when I run into these situations its a go but I'm cuz its at work and her baggage is hilariously over-the-top. This my first job with direct women coworkers; I'm new to the environment. I hear how these office women seek to fill a void at work that their relationship ain't providing.

Plus that karma

But shes your typical hood medical assistant. They tend to be bout that action, IME, and she elevating this shyt to new heights now

I need words of wisdom brehs, the demonic realm is pulling me in

 

[Ohene]

I would tell her straight up, No.

these fukkin blk girls man. its hard for a nikka out here

 

[Ohene]

Young shorty at work been puttin the full court press on me lately. The whole rubbing-bodies-as-I-walk-by shyt, standing close as fukk when sharing a space, extended eye contact with that demonic smirk (eyes sexy as fukk too ), staying late to talk, sneakin in physical contact (chest/ab/shoulder/back rub), puttin off duties to continue conversing and shyt. Shorty will break her ankle to come back and go "oh, did you say somethin else "

etc etc

Basically almost every indicator of interest you can safely show at work without broadcasting to the whole staff. This been going on since for about 7 months to different intensities

Now you're probably sayin "bruh...put ya bid in she tossin it at you on the low"

BUT she's:

-enganged
-has a kid
-lives with her fiance and his fam
-shares car with fiance



I pay her no serious mind and take it like she just seeking attention. Normally when I run into these situations its a go but I'm cuz its at work and her baggage is hilariously over-the-top. This my first job with direct women coworkers; I'm new to the environment. I hear how these office women seek to fill a void at work that their relationship ain't providing.

Plus that karma

But shes your typical hood medical assistant. They tend to be bout that action, IME, and she elevating this shyt to new heights now

I need words of wisdom brehs, the demonic realm is pulling me in

just dont do it. all i can say

 

[kevm3]

There's zero to gain there. You really want to put your job and or life at risk for some sneaky woman? There's way too many women outside of work to jump into something like that.

 

[Bless't]

lol

no doubt she acts that way b/c of the bolded. And she's gotten away with pouting/people giving way to her whims.

She likely KNOWS that it ruins your day/messes w/ ur mood, and that probably strengthens her reasons to continue to be that way b/c it's effective.


but yeah, just in general you(we all) should desire a pleasant woman. If you think about it, you see a pretty woman across teh room, wouldn't it make more sense if she was pleasant to go along with her looks, rather than contentious/moody?

I'm sorry... but no woman is this fine. A woman like this would frustrate and piss me off waaaaay faster than making me lust after her. Immediate turn off.