Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

TheArchitect

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OK @TheArchitect you got that aboriginal/amazon look. I used to have a friend similar he couldn't get Black Women for shyt but White Women was all over him and no problem with other races. So I don't know if you like the Vanilla ice cream or not. Other than that you should do fine with Women of other races. How tall are you that plays a role as well.

American Women in general are intimidated easy, if you are too swole/tall or have very strong facial features they feel insecure (which is dumb as fukk because they are not another Man competing for Women, but we all know Women lack logic and their brain runs in circles like this nikka :hamster:)

They can't really decide what they want at the end of the day. Some probably might even assume you are gay because if you have a certain BF % they are like no straight man is gonna be dedicated to achieving that. (More dumb female logic based on zero facts) :comeon:

Be cognizant of the assumptions that females make about YOU in particular because they will vary with each dude, then custom tailor your game based on that feedback.

Try tinder or another online dating just to get some data and feedback on what these hoes assume about you based on looks alone. Then you can tweak your game IRL.

Notice I haven't said anything you need to improve on physically. There is nothing wrong with you physically IMO so it's really time to focus on your mental chess game as my nikka above mentioned. If a bytch tells you that you need to change anything about yourself physically she is full of shyt. Never ask a bytch for advice period but especially in regards to a Man's appearance. They don't know what the fukk they want most times. And they are not visual creatures like us. You're not fat and you don't look like quasimodo, at the end of the day a Man's appearance only accounts for so much, they like Brad Pitt because he's famous not just because they consider him "attractive". In Women speak "attractive" doesn't just mean the physical part.

Hahahaaha, you said aboriginal/amazon....it's true, back in HS people would give me shyt just because they couldn't really tell what my ethnic was. They'd call me all types of Indians and terrorists (and pretty much anything having to do with Middle Eastern culture/celebrities; and this came from mostly african americans, but ever since I've graduated I rarely hear ignorance like that. Only in a handful of occasions in over a decade).

There was always a reason why the answer was no....including dumbass excuses like you posted (the whole zero female logic thing). It got so frustrating to the point where I pretty much lost all morale, which brings me to today....

As far as the vanilla thing goes, I have no problem with it. My favorite color is beautiful. I'm one of those cats that are somewhat jaded towards black women due to past confrontations/experiences. Don't get me wrong, I'd still date/fukk with one, but I'm a lot less keen on approaching them.

Tinder didn't work well for me. I don't know if it was me or the females on there. The only matches I'd really get were bots; I just started this soul swipe shyt though, so maybe that'll work better, though it's mostly black women from what I'm seeing....

So yeah, it's all in the mind I suppose....
 

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Wow brehs ...

My ex's sister fed me game last night. Told me everything about the dudey ex is fukking with now. Dude has a condo, good career, money, bmw but he's a lame. In her words...

Says my ex running around with him just to keep her mind off me .. And of course he balls deep in her.

She told me my ex asked her if she should give me another chance....


Then she told me to not text her or anything (which was my plan)

Told me she can promise me my ex is going to crumble. Said she's just out wilding because she's sad.

Side note: I wonder why her sis is feeding me all this info.
hmmm. i hope you are egotistical enough not to let this bytch back into your life.
Please block her number
 

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I see I'm just gonna have to force myself to really get out and just put myself in social situations.

I've always met women through school and went out with my friends. We're all working now so it's harder to really get together outside of once or twice a month, and I'm not in school.

Now I can't really rely on those crutches anymore

And an even bigger problem is that being a lame that doesn't really get girls is sort of my identity now, so I'm fighting against that too

Either way I realize that j just gotta take control of my circumstances
 
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im alright by myself yet feel like i'm too reserved at times. i can talk to women if they're in a class or if they're a friend of someone i know but for the most part i feel like i could be more attractive if i dropped weight. im tall so i dont look super big but i feel i should be higher up physically and game wise. i need to be assertive. i have things to offer but i feel like i need to be by myself and learn about me more. women are the side dishes to the entree that is life.my social circle is so miniscule though. im reserved and ive only spoke when i felt what i said would add to a conversation rather than just say stupid shyt. and i feel like i need to just go out more alone.
 
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Yeah, my boy stays telling me I need to get out and mingle more. Thing that sucks is I'm one of those guys who belongs to a squad that is no longer as active, due to kids/life, etc. Me and my other boy are like the only ones that don't have kids and shyt...but fukk it, a nikka'll figure it out...

As far as looks go, I wouldn't say I'm ugly, but I don't know if I'd go as far as to say I'm one of the best-looking guys around. I really don't know my full potential, seeing I've gotten mixed/shaky "reviews" coming up. I've been told I'm very "handsome" (a word I fukking HATE), others have stated I look very intimidating. I'll just say I have a "unique" look. I have a few pics in the mens pic thread as well (no homo, just in case you needed to see how i look in regards to this post).

the problem is you be having the:birdman:look..

when im in my "zone",the :birdman:look be on full throttle..I caught a chick grillin and she turned her eyes with the quickness:heh:

Its not something im proud of..its just i be so in my thoughts, i lose track of my facial features

As far as expanding your social circle, you'd be shocked how nikkas like us sell ourselves short...:ld:
 

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the problem is you be having the:birdman:look..

when im in my "zone",the :birdman:look be on full throttle..I caught a chick grillin and she turned her eyes with the quickness:heh:

Its not something im proud of..its just i be so in my thoughts, i lose track of my facial features

As far as expanding your social circle, you'd be shocked how nikkas like us sell ourselves short...:ld:
Indeed. i just kind of have a permanent poker face...

Funny you say how you catch chicks grillin then turning their eyes...the same thing happens to me FREQUENTLY....

As for the bolded, can you go deeper?
 

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Indeed. i just kind of have a permanent poker face...

Funny you say how you catch chicks grillin then turning their eyes...the same thing happens to me FREQUENTLY....

As for the bolded, can you go deeper?

For instance,i've builded with everyone from hardcore thugs to crackheads...And all types in between...People just randomly start telling me about their issues in life

Mind you i ask myself,why me?What do people see in me that makes them want to have a confessional to a person they've never seen before?

If i were to apply this to regular women, if you can make a female feel comfortable and TEACH them,the game is already in your control...

My biggest flaw is i dont have a resemblance of an ego..Im too modest and humble which can really be a bad thing...
And i kinda lack motivation:francis:
 

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Yeah you would've been sitting on the sidelines like :win: thinking you got her in your arms, she just has to come through and seal the deal and then you're hit with this news.

That's how I feel when I hear my ex's name(The one that lived with me.) It's like someone saying a random person's name to me. I have no feelings about it.
 

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Yup its a beautiful feeling at one point in my life id be devasted if she was even talking to a guy or ish now its like :ehh:, so what's for breakfast toast or cereal.

Opposite of love is hate but indifference is what you should aspire :blessed:


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Yeah you would've been sitting on the sidelines like :win: thinking you got her in your arms, she just has to come through and seal the deal and then you're hit with this news.

That's how I feel when I hear my ex's name(The one that lived with me.) It's like someone saying a random person's name to me. I have no feelings about it.
 

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Yeah, my boy stays telling me I need to get out and mingle more. Thing that sucks is I'm one of those guys who belongs to a squad that is no longer as active, due to kids/life, etc. Me and my other boy are like the only ones that don't have kids and shyt...but fukk it, a nikka'll figure it out...

As far as looks go, I wouldn't say I'm ugly, but I don't know if I'd go as far as to say I'm one of the best-looking guys around. I really don't know my full potential, seeing I've gotten mixed/shaky "reviews" coming up. I've been told I'm very "handsome" (a word I fukking HATE), others have stated I look very intimidating. I'll just say I have a "unique" look. I have a few pics in the mens pic thread as well (no homo, just in case you needed to see how i look in regards to this post).

Same here, although I'm socially awkward in some respects. I hide it well though. And the only one of my main crew who isn't single I generally don't like going out with him to because he kills my vibe and liable to do some dumb shyt where I feel like I have to babysit his ass or he's gonna do some dumb shyt in the pursuit of chicks.

I am trying to extend my crew base though.
 
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