Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I see I'm just gonna have to force myself to really get out and just put myself in social situations.
I've always met women through school and went out with my friends. We're all working now so it's harder to really get together outside of once or twice a month, and I'm not in school.
Now I can't really rely on those crutches anymore
And an even bigger problem is that being a lame that doesn't really get girls is sort of my identity now, so I'm fighting against that too
Either way I realize that j just gotta take control of my circumstances
I've always met women through school and went out with my friends. We're all working now so it's harder to really get together outside of once or twice a month, and I'm not in school.
Now I can't really rely on those crutches anymore
And an even bigger problem is that being a lame that doesn't really get girls is sort of my identity now, so I'm fighting against that too
Either way I realize that j just gotta take control of my circumstances
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im alright by myself yet feel like i'm too reserved at times. i can talk to women if they're in a class or if they're a friend of someone i know but for the most part i feel like i could be more attractive if i dropped weight. im tall so i dont look super big but i feel i should be higher up physically and game wise. i need to be assertive. i have things to offer but i feel like i need to be by myself and learn about me more. women are the side dishes to the entree that is life.my social circle is so miniscule though. im reserved and ive only spoke when i felt what i said would add to a conversation rather than just say stupid shyt. and i feel like i need to just go out more alone.
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the problem is you be having the
look..when im in my "zone",the
look be on full throttle..I caught a chick grillin and she turned her eyes with the quickness
Its not something im proud of..its just i be so in my thoughts, i lose track of my facial features
As far as expanding your social circle, you'd be shocked how nikkas like us sell ourselves short...
TheArchitect
All Star
Indeed. i just kind of have a permanent poker face...the problem is you be having the
when im in my "zone",the
Its not something im proud of..its just i be so in my thoughts, i lose track of my facial features
As far as expanding your social circle, you'd be shocked how nikkas like us sell ourselves short...
Funny you say how you catch chicks grillin then turning their eyes...the same thing happens to me FREQUENTLY....
As for the bolded, can you go deeper?
For instance,i've builded with everyone from hardcore thugs to crackheads...And all types in between...People just randomly start telling me about their issues in life
Mind you i ask myself,why me?What do people see in me that makes them want to have a confessional to a person they've never seen before?
If i were to apply this to regular women, if you can make a female feel comfortable and TEACH them,the game is already in your control...
My biggest flaw is i dont have a resemblance of an ego..Im too modest and humble which can really be a bad thing...
And i kinda lack motivation
Is this the ex that you saw in your house telling your Mom she getting married?@NerdNash
So today my mom tells me my ex is pregnant.
Imagine if I still talked to her or was "friends". I'd be devasted.
But because I cut her out of my life got rid of any emotional attachment I was like
Keep strong breh
Yeah you would've been sitting on the sidelines like
thinking you got her in your arms, she just has to come through and seal the deal and then you're hit with this news.That's how I feel when I hear my ex's name(The one that lived with me.) It's like someone saying a random person's name to me. I have no feelings about it.
Yup its a beautiful feeling at one point in my life id be devasted if she was even talking to a guy or ish now its like 
, so what's for breakfast toast or cereal.
Opposite of love is hate but indifference is what you should aspire
, so what's for breakfast toast or cereal.Opposite of love is hate but indifference is what you should aspire
Yeah you would've been sitting on the sidelines like
That's how I feel when I hear my ex's name(The one that lived with me.) It's like someone saying a random person's name to me. I have no feelings about it.
SmoothOperator88
Your friendly neighborhood coli poster
Same here, although I'm socially awkward in some respects. I hide it well though. And the only one of my main crew who isn't single I generally don't like going out with him to because he kills my vibe and liable to do some dumb shyt where I feel like I have to babysit his ass or he's gonna do some dumb shyt in the pursuit of chicks.
I am trying to extend my crew base though.
Only thing killing me is my daughter and her always FaceTime. 