Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

For the most part people aren't your friends whether male or female few people wish you happiness.

Social media is funny. I posted a pic of me and my girl on IG and the response was crazy. You would've thought I announced my engagement.

I'm not really surprised but I guess I'm feeling a lil Drake-ish and sad that a bunch of girls who were supposed to be my friends are reacting negatively. I really hate losing friends but honestly them hoes aint my friends if they don't support my growth.

shyt is real out here. Girls in their late 20s/early 30s are hypersensitive to the idea that they'll end up alone. They don't respond well to a good man who they thought they had a chance with settling down. (Whether or not the chance was realistic)

The good news is now I can move on... and I don't have to be strategic on what I put on IG with my girl anymore.

 

[MikelArteta]

The key as a man is if you had a attractive woman before you can always get another one. Patience is the key.

people dont seem to understand this.

yeah, if the girls ur messing with dont look as good as ur ex, ur just gonna be more depressed. but if they look better and they want u just as bad as u want them, u'll forget ur ex with the extreme quickness. i know because ive experienced it.

anyone who says dating after a breakup doesnt work is really just immature or has never experienced the desire of an attractive woman.

a woman who is attractive, has no kids, college educated, will make u laugh at yourself for wasting time even entertaining the thought of ur ex.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Anyone else's roster non existent right now? My shyt is lookin' like the Cavs bench in game 5. I only have like one chick left locally that I can hit up whenever & it's probably only a matter of time before she's

I'm not even sure how it got to this point but I don't have the patience or motivation at the moment to build it back up. I'm still on my fukk the world shyt so it is what it is

 

[Shadow King]

I'm not out there dating like that however I have things I notice about women. When I was approached or approached (which is rare) I notice in conversations on of the first things I am asked is what do you do for a living?Granted this is important in this day and age I realize this question is asked earlier.Yourboccupation or status can almost shape how far you go with a woman.Another thing I notice is cold approaches is best way to keep a woman honest.I know Instagram and all them other dating sites are the thing.However if small talk makes you nervous,you won't get far in the dating game.

Yup

 

[360dagod]

I'm convinced brehs... take showers without soap and workout after..

I'm hitting the gym hard from here on out

 

[Nuke Dukem]

I keep attracting women I'm NOT attracted too... (mostly online) ....

My ex was not fat.... she had a slim waist, medium size fat azz, and nice little B cup titties..


These females that keep coming at me are POPPED, and it's disappointing thinking that's what I'm stuck with..


I'll be honest too... I stopped fukking these hoes..

Like when I first got single I was fukk any n everyone one of these hoes... Now though, I don't even feel like giving these chubby bytches the time of day n would rather beat my shyt n go about my day ...


Any advice ... I'm going to the gym n trying to drop weight, I have about 40 lbs to be in the range I need to be..

Other then that idk what to do... it's so frustrating thinking I'll have to SETTLE with a fat chick or single mother



ANY ADVICE..?????

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

I look like a new man with this haircut

 

[International Playa]

I keep attracting women I'm NOT attracted too... (mostly online) ....

My ex was not fat.... she had a slim waist, medium size fat azz, and nice little B cup titties..


These females that keep coming at me are POPPED, and it's disappointing thinking that's what I'm stuck with..


I'll be honest too... I stopped fukking these hoes..

Like when I first got single I was fukk any n everyone one of these hoes... Now though, I don't even feel like giving these chubby bytches the time of day n would rather beat my shyt n go about my day ...


Any advice ... I'm going to the gym n trying to drop weight, I have about 40 lbs to be in the range I need to be..

Other then that idk what to do... it's so frustrating thinking I'll have to SETTLE with a fat chick or single mother



ANY ADVICE..?????

Just smash whatever you getting for now till you attract what you want. Its easier to get new females when you already got a female. Law of attraction eish

In college I wasnt getting any play besides this fat female who used to come mine late at night, her big ass titties her juicy titties made up for her being overweight. At least I was smashing, few months later I started attracting females I like, thick slim etc.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Just smash whatever you getting for now till you attract what you want. Its easier to get new females when you already got a female. Law of attraction eish

In college I wasnt getting any play besides this fat female who used to come mine late at night, her big ass titties her juicy titties made up for her being overweight. At least I was smashing, few months later I started attracting females I like, thick slim etc.

I feel you... I been at it since october tho, so about what 8 months now.. I want something slim thick to call my own...

Plus idk all I care about when I talk to these chubby goofy bytches is getting my nut off, after that I don't give a fuuuuuuck .. like I won't return text/calls any of that...


What changed in those few months tho that you started attracting the women you want ..??

 

[Lord Bison]

Random Gem:

If you chilling with a chick and she brings up anything about sex during the conversation without you saying anything, you have a good chance of smashing. That usually means that she thinking about performing the deed on you.

 

[MikelArteta]

Low key it sucks when your just out of a long term relationship knowing you gotta enter back into this crap called the dating world.

I know these feelings of it will pass but it just makes me sick to my stomach having to basically start over meeting chicks, finding out about em and all that friggin hoopla, especially the older you get it feels nauseating. I'm turning 32 on Saturday, last time I was single I was in my twenties.

The good news is I'm making more money than I ever have been and after all my bills still have like 80% of my take home pay, my closet is in tip top shape, like I said I know it will chagne it due time but I'm feeling like kobe in his last year

 

[International Playa]

I feel you... I been at it since october tho, so about what 8 months now.. I want something slim thick to call my own...

Plus idk all I care about when I talk to these chubby goofy bytches is getting my nut off, after that I don't give a fuuuuuuck .. like I won't return text/calls any of that...


What changed in those few months tho that you started attracting the women you want ..??

Because I had someone I was smashing, it killed off the desparate vibe that repels women

 

[International Playa]

Low key it sucks when your just out of a long term relationship knowing you gotta enter back into this crap called the dating world.

I know these feelings of it will pass but it just makes me sick to my stomach having to basically start over meeting chicks, finding out about em and all that friggin hoopla, especially the older you get it feels nauseating. I'm turning 32 on Saturday, last time I was single I was in my twenties.

The good news is I'm making more money than I ever have been and after all my bills still have like 80% of my take home pay, my closet is in tip top shape, like I said I know it will chagne it due time but I'm feeling like kobe in his last year

Damn breh, I thought you and your girl were gonna try & work things out. What happened?

I just turned 30 too breh, the dating pool for our age range is bad man, single mothers, females with emotional baggage, obese etc. I been dating younger to avoid that, but I had to lie about my age lol

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Damn breh, I thought you and your girl were gonna try & work things out. What happened?

I just turned 30 too breh, the dating pool for our age range is bad man, single mothers, females with emotional baggage, obese etc. I been dating to younger to avoid that bit I had to lie about my age lol

I turn 30 in July


How young are you dating ..

 

[International Playa]

I turn 30 in July


How young are you dating ..

Last two girls I dated last year were were 28 & 20.