Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Balla

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Is it catfishin if I use old pics? Think the bytches will still fukk with me if I look a lil different?

I like my old pics better. They were taken better and I was 40 pounds lighter.

:lolbron:

I got a Lil gut, but I'm more swole now tho.

:takedat:
 

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Is it catfishin if I use old pics? Think the bytches will still fukk with me if I look a lil different?

I like my old pics better. They were taken better and I was 40 pounds lighter.

:lolbron:

I got a Lil gut, but I'm more swole now tho.

:takedat:


I wouldn't.

Just be you breh and work on your gut.

Imagine some chick doing that to you, would you be pleased?
 

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But I still look good tho.

:mjcry:

I got cat fished before and she looked so skinny and then I saw her she was big as a house, I told her, go on, I'll catch up to you.

I hold my weight pretty well, but ok, guess I gotta take new pics.




I wouldn't.

Just be you breh and work on your gut.

Imagine some chick doing that to you, would you be pleased?
 
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So I noticed a lot of the apps have bad reviews on them talking about gold being a scam, not getting matches, having accounts cancelled after purchasing boosts.

And this is for a majority of the apps.

Y'all experience this?
 

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Y'all ain't answer my question about the apps. :mjgrin:

Is bumble worth paying a lil extra each month? I understand Tinder is meh and I ain't been too impressed with hinge.
 

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Be non chalant
Always keep a bullpen
Dump a hot girl once in your life to build immunity
Never introduce to your family
Never tell her how much you make
Hell I tell chicks my middle name
Have a Facebook just for chicks and once for close friends and families
Never spend money
Key logger
Never feel sorry for them tough luck

Boss shyt here. It’s a cold world I’m fridgid, I don’t feel any shame.
 
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Y'all ain't answer my question about the apps. :mjgrin:

Is bumble worth paying a lil extra each month? I understand Tinder is meh and I ain't been too impressed with hinge.

Hell naw. In my area it ain’t. Some dumb broads on that shyt too mane, Tinder is better. Make a net and trap em with Tinder, POF, Black people meet (quality is bad here but hoes be chasing that hotdog) OK Cupid. Drag net every week and you’ll always have something in it. Sometimes be some fine hoes that need to put some mileage on that p*ssy. Rinse, repeat
 

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Y'all ain't answer my question about the apps. :mjgrin:

Is bumble worth paying a lil extra each month? I understand Tinder is meh and I ain't been too impressed with hinge.


I think @VertigoKnight paid and he had success

I know for some of these apps if your older they charge more though
 

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It's cuz u ain't seal da deal.

Almost everytime I tried to fukk a girl and didn't, or she hit me with some excuse, I never got her out alone again.

Girls told me they were on their periods and had to wait to get off. Never had a second date with them. Basically they were telling me to fukk while they were on their periods.

Girl says she has to leave. Told me that if I pursued she would of let me hit.

I didn't make a move on a couple girls because I felt they weren't ready. Never seen them again.

So basically if you're feeling up on a girl in anyway and you don't hit then that's it.

It's like clockwork, you make moves, but don't seal the deal, you rarely get second chances.

Sounds like you cut this off because you didn't have a condom or maybe you weren't tryna fukk in the car?

I'm not saying you have to go hard on women and push shyt, but if yall doing any type of kissing, foreplay, anything leading to sex, you will rarely get another chance.

I'm writing a lot because I got bad onet*ts from these shyts.

It's like you were so close that you want to keep trying, "you almost had it nikka!!"

That's how you end up thinking what u did wrong and worrying about what happened to her.

Just try to seal the deal if yall doing sexual stuff. Just don't go too hard and back off when need be tho.
Yea you prolly right couple my cousins said the same shyt. :wow:

It's too late now:wow: fukk it
 

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Seems my weekend was asian orientated after meeting the chick on Friday I had another date that evening another Chinese chick I've been talking to for 2 weeks. Met for dinner and she turned up looking very demure and pretty she's 28 and works in a medical office. I towered over her, she is like 5'2. Again we settle into a nice groove with the chat and after dinner decide to go to another bar, had some drinks there and then start talking about dancing.

A few brehs have said it in this thread but it can't be underestimated how effective sitting at the bar is for a drink date, it means you both have to be close to each other. If a chick is feeling you. It will be totally obvious from this. apart from the obvious like her touching you and playfully slapping you. As it forces you to be intimate. We talk about dancing and I suggest we go to this R&B/hiphop night at a nearby club and she's up for it. Drop by my place to get changed slightly and also tell her to leave her jacket and umbrella and she can come get them afterwards.

:shaq:

Get to the club and dance, chat and then kiss her.

By now we are lit and boisterous. Get out the club at 2am and get back to mine. Tell her she can come lay down in my room. but she acts all coy. She comes anyway and we kiss. I tell her she can stay and nothing will happen. tbh we are both wasted and tired to fukk. I tell her I'm gonna go brush my teeth and I give her an oversize t shirt of mine. Go to the washroom and get back she's changed and in my bed I put one of my pillows as a 'border' and turn off the light. 2 mins later she tells me she's 'cold' and slides up behind me.

:takedat:

I grope her but don't want to push too much on her. I start rubbing her pum through her panties, then my hands down her panties and feel how wet she is. But we settle down and go to sleep. Sunday morning we wake up and kiss and hug then I make my move and she reciprocates and gets on top of me. We get down to it. At one point I lift her up with one arm and stand up and fukk her. Justin Slayer style. Chick looked shocked. After we finish she says I've "broken her" and rolls over and laughs. we lay up and she goes back to sleep I literally fukked her to sleep. Wake up at 5 and play street fighter and order sushi. She stayed at my place until 10pm when I called her a cab home.

She's cool, but I can see this one will be high energy. She's a little less mature than the chick I met on Friday but the p*ssy is good. Tbh I'm in a good place atm. High quality women with their own opinions, hobbies and want of independence like me. I've been shedding chicks I no longer feel I want to deal with regularly.

Was gonna put a pic up of us in bed but that feels tacky.

:pachaha:
 
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Y'all ain't answer my question about the apps. :mjgrin:

Is bumble worth paying a lil extra each month? I understand Tinder is meh and I ain't been too impressed with hinge.

I personally find the value as I can screen chicks I know are definitely into me and I can decide if I feel them enough to swipe on them.

Of course this all comes down to what sort of chicks you want and where you live.

City I live in. There are an abundance of very attractive and fit 25 - 40+ single career women. So I do very well.
 

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@VertigoKnight do you only go for Asian women only? Are asian women your type?

Are you Asian, black or white?

It seems like you are in your zone, respect:jawalrus:

Thank you breh.

I'm black of Caribbean heritage and was born and grew up in the UK. Moved to Canada 2 years ago. I wouldn't say I only go for asian women its only since moving here and being on the apps they've been choosing heavily and here in Van there aren't many attractive black women that aren't on the :mjpls: wave or the extreme shea butter vibe here.

I've got a Nigerian Canadian chick I see but she's in an open relationship so there are boundaries there, but she's cool and I enjoy my upfront FWB friendship with her.

I've found most women here are open minded and are happy to date whoever they find attractive without hangups. Even ones I thought would be hiding me like Persian and Indian women. Presence wise I find asian women are cool to hang with and also understand the subtle racial aspects of life unlike say a pawg would.

Plus they taste like peach and feel so delicious to fukk.

:banderas:
 
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