They f*cked before her sister started dating him.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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They f*cked before her sister started dating him.
philmonroe
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No disrespect to you but you seem to have other issues yourself with women (like your mom) going on you might need to get checked out. I only say that cause your advise might be a little biased. As for Nerdnash I don't know why his girl is messing with him if she don't have kids. You know what your signing up for and you still wanna complain I don't get that. My man messing with a chick now and she doesn't have a child but everytime he goes over to the ex house to pick up the child its a problem. I don't have time for that and would advise men/women without kids to never mess with those with esp if your selfish like me regarding time. Yeah tell her to be gone is good cause the person with children shouldn't have to deal with the insecurity bs either.
Your girl makes an issue out of something so small? No disrespect to your girl but im convinced something is wrong with these women in general. I remember one time my little sister hit her head when my mother was opening the fridge, and im there comforting her while she is about to cry and i have the ice in my hand and im placing it on her head asking her which part of specifically.....
then my mom starts spazzing out like some maniac talking about how im___ years old and leave me alone with my daughter!!!
Because apparently you can't even comfort your own flesh and blood nowadays
Anyway as for thoughts on what your method was man....you were thisclose to doing it perfectly but peep this you made one big error and im not sure but maybe you noticed it already:
Me: Cool. Don't text my phone anymore
^Remember in situtations with kids you have to be extra careful. That 'Dont' text my phone anymore" could be very damaging....especially with how vindictive women can be. She could use that against you in the future with your family, her family, her friends,etc. Heck she could even bring it up 30 years from now whether or not you are still together about how you told her that you dont want "Her or your daughter to contact you ever again".
We all know talking in person or over the phone can be a bit more effective sometimes. But i understand sometimes because of our situation we can only text at that specific moment. And it may be better in some cases like that because you wont have them play one of those "games" where they love to hang up while your still talking.
That "COOL" could have also been replaced with an "okay".
Because "okay" is a more arbitrary word and i would recommend it as a word to get used to using when in situations like this with women....Whether you are saying "okay" through texting or in person.
When "cool" is used alot of women would usually take it for you being a big smart ass to them.
Delete her number
My neck and my back
All Star
oh it was her sister...but still nikka, the nerve of this bytch
you really should've left her after you found about that shyt...this right here just shows nikkas how ridiculous bytches can be...she fukked a nikka who is now dating her sister and she has the AUDACITY to get mad cuz you was sleeping in your daughters bed
Sounds like something an enabler to women would say......."Please don't be too hard on women"
NOtice i said nothing dramatic about how i hate my mother. All I did was say how irrational they are. Chris Rock has made jokes about women being irrational too. I guess every criticism a guy gives is having "issues with women"
This thread right here is a pretty interesting analysis on how to deal with these women
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/63353-aye-free-boy-loudaffair-8.html#.ULVSY4eH1Fs
Thread pretty much a summary of what we're talking about. Son got locked up after selling them drugs and also mashed on another female, but his baby momma is angry, especially now that she got 2 of his kids. Women love thugs until they get locked up or until they find they been cheated on... but you know she's going to go back when he gets out.
We had to perform that rescue mission on the negro in this thread, talking about he's going to deal with a woman with a kid by a drug dealer. We'll see if he takes our advice and learn. We be telling yall young'ns this for a reason.
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...like-broads-cant-make-mistake-18-19-20-a.html
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/63353-aye-free-boy-loudaffair-8.html#.ULVSY4eH1Fs
Thread pretty much a summary of what we're talking about. Son got locked up after selling them drugs and also mashed on another female, but his baby momma is angry, especially now that she got 2 of his kids. Women love thugs until they get locked up or until they find they been cheated on... but you know she's going to go back when he gets out.
We had to perform that rescue mission on the negro in this thread, talking about he's going to deal with a woman with a kid by a drug dealer. We'll see if he takes our advice and learn. We be telling yall young'ns this for a reason.
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...like-broads-cant-make-mistake-18-19-20-a.html
Pretty much mane. You go and give in or you start begging and she'll toss you right overboard like you was a piece of trash on the ship.
That's why it's always best to make women something like 4th priority. You just got so many other interesting activities to occupy your time in the meanwhile and you're just happy and enjoying life regardless of what the woman does.
Real talk, don't be mad at the things you've found out about women... how you found the game to be. Learn from it and adjust to it. Don't let it compromise your righteous standards, because those are way bigger than pulling or dealing with women, but you got to adapt. As a man, you shouldn't 'check out' of the game. That's giving up and men ain't about that, but rather you got to learn and apply this knowledge to be able to deal with women on your terms...
that simping, pandering and chasing? Being punked by women? Being buddy buddy with lil lady? Upgrading her nails and clothes? Nosirreee bob
that simping, pandering and chasing? Being punked by women? Being buddy buddy with lil lady? Upgrading her nails and clothes? Nosirreee bob
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CrossBones
Louder than words
a woman has to be enhancing, and interested in enhancing your life. just like hopefully you are for hers. but dont get caught up shouldering weight that isnt yours, and taking attitude for something that you didnt do wrong. thats manipulation to try and leverage you into a submissive role. apologetic and doubting yourself. then theyre going to look down on you. thats why you dont put women in control. it doesnt work that way. you wont be happy, and she wont. women dont have muscles, or size, or the whereabouts we do. they do have a lock on subversive methods however.
these mind games, sex games, and outright lies are the womans best weapons in life. and especially against you. dont think they arent aware of it, so you be too. it will always be that way and will get you caught up in the game until you recognize thats true. then when you can tell somethings wrong, stand up to the bull, and remain in control of your integrity.
and that integrity is a two way street, if she earns it and you do too then it has to be maintained on both sides. just nothing more, nothing less.
these mind games, sex games, and outright lies are the womans best weapons in life. and especially against you. dont think they arent aware of it, so you be too. it will always be that way and will get you caught up in the game until you recognize thats true. then when you can tell somethings wrong, stand up to the bull, and remain in control of your integrity.
and that integrity is a two way street, if she earns it and you do too then it has to be maintained on both sides. just nothing more, nothing less.
philmonroe
Superstar
Nope not at all but if it makes you feel better calling me an enabler of women so be it. I said what I said going by what you posted nothing more nothing less. I didn't say you hate your mom at all still don't mean you don't have some issues with her that could effect how you look at women. I have friends that do and you could be just like them. If not cool glad for you but me an enabler of women or people in generalSounds like something an enabler to women would say......."Please don't be too hard on women"
NOtice i said nothing dramatic about how i hate my mother. All I did was say how irrational they are. Chris Rock has made jokes about women being irrational too. I guess every criticism a guy gives is having "issues with women"
Women stay trying to turn a man into the kind of man she detests... on the other hand she can't get enough of the man she can't control and claim she hates. That's why I'm telling these cats stop changing for broads and giving up their authority. As much as a woman tries to fight it, she doesn't want to be in the lead role. She wants to be dealing with a man she can look up to and that leads. We got to rid the atmosphere of all this estrogen-laced game out there.
CrossBones
Louder than words
yeah for sure. being like them is only going to make a man a pretend women with bytch problems. then all of the solutions are there but "manning up" in their definition involves being more "sensitive, sweet and caring" to their bullshyt
when they say they want us to man up, they really want men to be playmen, wearing dresses, holding their purses, and worshipping them into a "simp-ler life"
but the reality is, if we dont give them that actual, real life man to woman, counter balance, it cant work for either one!
the crazy shyt is, Im seeing that its likely all a test from most women. like testing a man is subliminally inherent in them. and I mean the extreme case today. the women arent right, so they dont know what to look for, really. right now from the improper, new age hoes they want to take the man role, so they want men to be the bytches. they really want to be women, but today they think that by being a man, they can find a better man for them. its all twisted. they do the games to see if the man is "worthy" and strong enough for her. because if she can punk him, what does that mean another MAN can do to him? and still even, some bytches get carried away with it and live for trying to break a man down until she gets reigned in.
even the mean, top dog fight a man ratchet bytches like to be talked down to and put in her place.
because if we dont show these women and girls what the real is, shes getting thrown off the bus, uppercut, kicked in the ass, and soon to go head to head with someone who WILL put her in her place. one way or another. its sick.
yet putting a man, and the balance of gendar relationships in misery because she wants to prove whos more willing to be toyed with is ... wrong. and the more unstable, disrespectful, and delusional a woman is, the worst the tests will be.
what they really want, deep down, is that strength, that discipline, and that consistency to look up to and follow. the only thing that is worthy of a partnership is one with likewise, mutual thinking. and to be that, a man has to follow that strict code to a T! to set an example. we have to be right in our cypher completely in order for our own sanity and have the ability to sort out the bull. thats the only way.
From the moment she meets you her goal is to try and manipulate you. if she succeeds at it she will look down on you with disdain for being just another guy she can control but ultimately men that can be manipulated have a purpose in her life which is to get used by her like an appliance until she disposes of them.
i'm sad to say that i didn't get until later in life that most of what women say and do in relation to men is about manipulating them. its not even malicious in intent women are conditioned by society to manipulate men. it's like Pavlov's experiment where the dogs heard the bell and salivated. women see a man and once he's known to be interested one of the first things they do is try to manipulate him. they're so used to getting things from men that its probably not even conscious. its baby steps too they get you to do something very minor then something else slightly less minor and at some point if the pattern continues you're buying her a house or a car or something else crazy.
At the end of this video this guy says something profound. I wish my father told me shyt like this as a child. He couldn't say it for the same reason that most men can't.
Him telling me shyt like this would undermine my opinion of my mother and all other women.
Anyway the line is:
This video nails so many points. The whole way women constantly reinforce that trust is crucial to a relationship. The statement is true but when a woman says it there's a possible second meaning. The first meaning is what the statement actually says and the second is a statement of conditioning to get you to "trust" her and drop your guard so she can manipulate you freely. In fact if the word trust comes out of a woman's mouth in relation to you and her there's a high probability that manipulation is going on. The sad part is i genuinely believe most men never get past the surface level of what women say to see the possible manipulative purposes of what she's saying.
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