I'm breaking up with shorty, smh. She said she wants "more communication" during the week, but the only time she texts me is when I text her first. She got "salty" because I didn't call her the night she told me too and I pushed back asking her "why didn't she call me?" And I told her "closed mouths don't get fed" with a lot more shyt I said. She said she was "shy/afraid" to ask me to do something because she didn't know if I was busy and I had to tell her if she doesnt ask, she'll never know what I'm doing. She is older than me (29 years old) acting like this, smgdh. It's been 4 going on 5 months and we haven't had sex yet (we've tongue kissed and felt each other up). She talking about she wants "rose petals and a romantic room" and wants to be "spoiled", but I'm over this shyt tbh. I got more important shyt to worry about honestly.
Her parents say they like me and I didn't believe I was her 1st relationship, but she acts like a kid talking about "you didn't ask me to be your Valentine" and I dead ass told her "who else is it going to be?"
She doesn't even know I'm a virgin my damn self, but ppl, even her has told me I act "mature for my age" which is weird to me in itself. But fucc this chick wasting my time with these kiddy ass games.
Red flags on my part, her part, or the situation in general?
I'll take the L on that. Everytime I've tried to go further she said she wants romance. This relationship shyt ain't for me.Both. Older than you, "1st relationship", acts like a kid....can't even be direct about little shyt, that's annoying
You being a virgin isn't the biggest red flag, but does she know that you are is the biggest question. You said ppl say you act mature, based on what? most mature insight I can see is you canning her & letting her come back if she's really into you
You got middle schoolers tonguing and feeling each other up so stating that's the farthest yall went outside of sex isn't really anything crazy, it's actually childish af