What are some suggestions for cheap fun dates. Women hate coffee meetups
I love absolutes.
I hate mamby pamby, this or that, depends on, go with the flow, play it by ear. etc etc.
The real world is actually grey, and most of my life is having to weigh X vs Y..., but I love a black and white.
So my absolute rules is this.
Rule #1 - Always bring a chick into my world.
Those first few dates, I'm gonna plan, we're gonna do what I wanna do, what I like to do, where I'm at.
There's very little room for negotiation.
I'm not gonna suggest a "let's make pottery together" or "attend a yoga class" or "volunteer at the soup kitchen cause I saw you did that in your profile"...(lol at that dude)
- WE GETTING WANGZ
- We shooting pool
- We hitting up this mixologist.
- If I'm in a decent city, mini golf or go-kartz
- Brand new Burmese spot opened up
Etc
WHAT WE NOT GON DO is me come up with stuff and try to get pre-approval.
I don't eat meat - GOOD BYE
I don't drink alcohol - SEE YA
I don't want to mess my hair up - ADIOS
Thai is cool, but can we get Sushi (or some other high dollar grub) instead - SAYONARA
Can't we go hiking instead? - *the sound of my mental pimp hand rearing back*
You don't want to negotiate? Compromise -
On one of the first dates? Hell 2 da Naw
And the thing is, I've taken chicks to tasting menus, play openings, concerts, comedy shoes, etc - but that's because I WANTED TO GO, and I would go even if she wasn't there.
If we seeing Saul Williams
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It's cause I'm in my Afro-Futurism zone for the night...
I say that you do what you want, and be inflexible when things start.
And if that means you're losing broads left and right, YOU NEED A BETTER PIPELINE.
Most guys are trying to do the most when they have only have
a few options.
Every Broad is rare, when all you really know is her photos and fake first date persona.
Your overall game plan needs help when you find yourself trying to cater to the desires of these fickle hoes.
Some cats just need to get better pics, others better wardrobe, others need to hit the gym.
Lotta cats need to change crowds.
And a few need to move to a different city. (You want
beautiful black women but live in Spokane - MOVE)
Rule #2 - She is gonna meet me there
Following from rule #1, I am gonna go someplace I wanna go, because I will not be at the Vegan Tofu spot/Israel support rally waiting 30 minutes because of whatever cockamamie excuse they come up with.
My time is valuable. I'll give
some grace to fine but late hoes, cause that's how chicks be. But if I'm waiting, it better be in a spot where I want to be.
Having said all that - A man needs a life for the chick to come into.
It's easy to fall into a rut of work/food/tv/video games/ etc.
I'm trying to get out of it now...
Your lifestyle - not your bank roll - but the style in which you live your life is CRUCIAL.
Cats that's always got something to do on any given night, he's usually not worried about broads. They're in his life. He's meeting new folks all the time, OFF LINE.
But if you're debugging 10 hours a day, uber eats multiple times a week, and staying abreast of all the new Amazon Prime shows
*looks in mirror*
You're not living life.
She doesn't want that or be a part of that - even if she's doing the same thing.
Hinge is the goat
. I am going to deactivate my account once I bagged this white girl number. I am not a pawger but she has nice cans lol.
