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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I'm not in relationship with the girl i'm asking about were just talking and she hit me with that tonight
One thing I realize as time goes on dealing with women, is that all it takes is one.
It's like a multiple choice test with say 30 questions, to pass the test all you need is just 1 correct, just 1 out of 30 odds are you are going to pass the test. You get the first 29 wrong and you get that last 1 right you passed.
It's the same with women all it takes is 1, you get rejected by 29 women 1 doesn't reject you boom the 29 rejections don't matter.
It's like a multiple choice test with say 30 questions, to pass the test all you need is just 1 correct, just 1 out of 30 odds are you are going to pass the test. You get the first 29 wrong and you get that last 1 right you passed.
It's the same with women all it takes is 1, you get rejected by 29 women 1 doesn't reject you boom the 29 rejections don't matter.
Ur right but that, unfortunatley, takes time and youll learn the hard way. If I had someone tell me years ago that "I dont deserve you" meant she sucking and fukking someone else, I would have saved time. We need to help our brehs out.
Saysumthinfunnymike
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I learn shyt through each relationship. Obviously I would love to be 20 with the knowledge I have obtained but that's impossible. The best way to learn is to live through it and that takes time. Thankfully I'm not old and I look young so I have time. 
Happy new year brehs new year leave everything negative in 2014 and look forward to this year. hopefully you all learned important lessons last year and took notes apply those lessons to this year and dont make the same mistake again this year. Leave any fukk boy or fukk girl in 2014 who was wasting time ect. Wish you all success, happiness in whatever you do.
let's get it
let's get it
I have been told it all, monogamy is not natural, men cannot be faithful, a man is only as faithful as his options and blah blah blah blah blah. It's a different generation now - yes this is true, many struggle to be faithful with all the options at their disposal- but many are called few are chosen. Loyalty, fidelity and total commitment are rare traits that are hard to find in both genders but it is sad to me that society sort of looks at you as some sort of freak of nature if your core is being honest and decent.
When I was young teen in high school walking home one day I stumbled across a wallet on the side-walk. I picked it up and it was filled with twenty dollar bills, I could have gone shopping and splurged on a few things my heart desired. The temptation was there, no one would have known but nope it never crossed my mind as I returned it just the way I found.
And in the same way is how I view monogamy. There have been many many times where I've had opportunities to cross the line so to speak, cheat/stray while in a relationship, be the other man no one would have known but I have defined who I am as I individual, and that is not something I would ever participate in and I nipped the bud and any form of association right away. I value any relationship I am in as something that should be respected and protected and likewise the relationship between anyone else.
I don’t take the stance to be a good person, receive praise or act like I am better than anyone else; Some people feel no sense of guilt/remorse in what they are doing because they feel they deserve to have all their wants and needs fulfilled and I am not one to judge but I just have a set of unconditional principles that I choose to live by. And taking commitment and being faithful seriously is one of them. It's just not within me to betray a person's trust and choose to willingly hurt another due to selfishness of quote/unquote "fulfilling sexual and/or emotional needs that were not being met" or any other reasons to validate/rationalize choices.
When I was young teen in high school walking home one day I stumbled across a wallet on the side-walk. I picked it up and it was filled with twenty dollar bills, I could have gone shopping and splurged on a few things my heart desired. The temptation was there, no one would have known but nope it never crossed my mind as I returned it just the way I found.
And in the same way is how I view monogamy. There have been many many times where I've had opportunities to cross the line so to speak, cheat/stray while in a relationship, be the other man no one would have known but I have defined who I am as I individual, and that is not something I would ever participate in and I nipped the bud and any form of association right away. I value any relationship I am in as something that should be respected and protected and likewise the relationship between anyone else.
I don’t take the stance to be a good person, receive praise or act like I am better than anyone else; Some people feel no sense of guilt/remorse in what they are doing because they feel they deserve to have all their wants and needs fulfilled and I am not one to judge but I just have a set of unconditional principles that I choose to live by. And taking commitment and being faithful seriously is one of them. It's just not within me to betray a person's trust and choose to willingly hurt another due to selfishness of quote/unquote "fulfilling sexual and/or emotional needs that were not being met" or any other reasons to validate/rationalize choices.
I learn shyt through each relationship. Obviously I would love to be 20 with the knowledge I have obtained but that's impossible. The best way to learn is to live through it and that takes time. Thankfully I'm not old and I look young so I have time.
life lesson in everything, I look at every relationship and every girl i deal with as a life lesson, sort of like entry level jobs, maybe a crappy job but you learn about customer service or whatever, I've had horible relationships but they taught me everything of what to look for in women not settle just because she's beautiful etc., how to read women pick up the signs
better to learn it early than when your old and gray.
One of my exes hit me last night with a Happy New Years call, Chopped it up for like 3 min than said our peace.. I get a text now ; "it was good hearing your voice last night" 
...I already see what she tryna do, but nah its not going down like that 
...I already see what she tryna do, but nah its not going down like that
One of my exes hit me last night with a Happy New Years call, Chopped it up for like 3 min than said our peace.. I get a text now ; "it was good hearing your voice last night"
I phrased this as the holiday in
While the holidays are a great time to spend with family and friends, as well it presents a great opportunity to rest and relax and enjoy some time off work or school. The holidays also brings two opportunities within a week for individuals to rise from the ashes to try and forge an “in” back into your life.
Christmas day and New years, under the disguise of “mass texting” on those two days the famed Merry Christmas and Happy New Years text messages. They have nothing to lose but everything to gain, from exes/former lovers to former friends and toxic individuals that you have severed the ties with will pop up out of the woodwork knowing exactly what they are doing; I call it malicious manipulating tactics, using the goodwill of the holidays to try and restore contact. As you sit there pondering whether to reply before you do if there is even a semblance of emotional connection still left, you will feed it and will be right back at square one, nullifying all your progress made to that day…….or not, however I say don’t take the risk! People are not in your life for a reason, leave them in the past!!
Sounds like my ex
once you start seeing through the BS it's like Neo in the matrix. you start seeing bullets in slow-motion...The funny thing with women is this, i changed my whatsapp photo to an old family photo that had my ex in it because it had a caption of happy new year, right away a chick I haven't talked to in so long don't even have her number she's like whose that in the photo and im like its my ex
suddenly this chick is talking to me left and right trying to catch up and ish, the only thing that changed is before she thought I was a undesirable, I don't have facebook, instagram, I stay to myself mostly so I don't have "status" but once she saw my ex its ohhh
thats why I don't even stress over these birds, its all about status and perception
im turning 30 this year
just imaging in 5 years all the chicks that thought they were to good for me how flabby and sick they gonna look by the time i blink my eyes
just imaging in 5 years all the chicks that thought they were to good for me how flabby and sick they gonna look by the time i blink my eyes
Saysumthinfunnymike
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I'm pretty close to your age and the broads I knew from back in the day are nearly all
Most of the dudes I went to H.S. with too. I swear by the time some of the people were out of college they were already falling apart.