Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm just tired of people, (mostly women) taking kind acts for granted or like its nothing or showing very little appreciation for them. Its a death sentence as a man to shower a woman with attention and dedication and support. I'm watching my homie go through it bad and we have been telling him over and over and over. He now has the woman and 3 kids staying in the house with him while he goes out his way to make her comfortable....

This chick has done everything in her power to not be with him, but he has been there for her and her kids all along even bailing her out of jail and letting her stay with him while she just does whatever she wants. As soon as she gets on her feet she's gone and I aint gonna have any sympathy for dude because we warn him over and over and he says he understands over and over "but I can't help himself"


There's more that involves myself that I might try and get back into later...
 

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Simping :scust:

At my core I'm a nice person but now I dedicate my niceness to volunteering weekly

Dude is doing all of that and will only end up with a big L

Cats need to stop throwing their pearls before swine



I just tired of people, (mostly women) taking kind acts for granted or like its nothing or showing very little appreciation for them. Its a death sentence as a man to shower a woman with attention and dedication and support. I'm watching my homie go through it bad and we have been telling him over and over and over. He now has the woman and 3 kids staying in the house with him while he goes out his way to make her comfortable....

This chick has done everything in her power to not be with him, but he has been there for her and her kids all along even bailing her out of jail and letting her stay with him while she just does whatever she wants. As soon as she gets on her feet she's gone and I aint gonna have any sympathy for dude because we warn him over and over and he says he understands over and over "but I can't help himself"


There's more that involves myself that I might try and get back into later...
 

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I'm just tired of people, (mostly women) taking kind acts for granted or like its nothing or showing very little appreciation for them. Its a death sentence as a man to shower a woman with attention and dedication and support. I'm watching my homie go through it bad and we have been telling him over and over and over. He now has the woman and 3 kids staying in the house with him while he goes out his way to make her comfortable....

This chick has done everything in her power to not be with him, but he has been there for her and her kids all along even bailing her out of jail and letting her stay with him while she just does whatever she wants. As soon as she gets on her feet she's gone and I aint gonna have any sympathy for dude because we warn him over and over and he says he understands over and over "but I can't help himself"


There's more that involves myself that I might try and get back into later...
That isn't being nice he's just making bad decisions. He has something deeper going on :manny:
 

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The immature brehette still seeking ego gratification, judging her self worth by number of facebook friends and instagram followers and how many likes her photo gets and once the honeymoon period dissipates off looking for their next emotional high.



The sampler, taking a bite out of all the pears but putting them back. Taking affection, attention, gifts and time from multiple men while making no choice at all. She receives everything she desires and gets her dopamine hit.



The wishy washer. One day here, next day gone. One day committed, next day need a break. These one foot in the door groundhog day brehettes by doing this continue to get the honeymoon high, as every time they come back it’s like starting over.



I had my fun and want to settle down brehettes - they want a relationship rather than you, you are just a handy placeholder that any man could fit into. Ala a team that’s tanking filling out it’s roster with scrubs. They don't want you because of you, so much as you to play a position in their head of what they need filled. These women are in love with the idea of love and having a boyfriend/husband, and thus they have an incredibly petty view on what love really means.



These type of brehettes aren’t honest with themselves about what they want, have no willingness to self reflect and be self aware and have no idea how to function in a mature relationship.
 

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One of the huge goals is to simply find joy and happiness in life. Never get to the point where you 'hate women', but always be cognizant of what a woman COULD do if you let the wrong one enter into your life.

Be careful of the internet, because it can be sort of like the garbage bin of humanity, where you are intentionally or unintentionally gravitating towards places that collect the worst of human behavior. When you constantly see bad behavior, it can put you into a really negative state of mind and put a drain on your spirit.

The point of the advice in this thread isn't to say women are all trash and they're all bad, and this isn't a collection of the worst display of behavior females have to offer. Rather, the goal should be to DETACH your emotional state from a woman, meaning that you don't require a woman to be happy. If some particular woman flakes on you, your day isn't ruined because you can simply resume that day with some activity that you enjoy. The goal isn't to teach you how to treat women like they are trash and they are worthless. Rather, it is to teach you to only allow women who have self-respect and who also value you into your presence so that they can't wreak havoc on your life.

I think we need to find some more decent examples of women, like how Tia Mowry got at her husband and stood by him even when he wasn't famous... or look at the attitude of Reginald Lewis's wife Loida Lewis.


There was also one about Nipsey Hustle going to Africa and how he was treated by women over there.
 
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