All you can really do is move on. All of that begging won't deliver you back anything. You'll learn just what coldness means. If you have a woman that's a friend, never take it to that other level, because that can easily mean the end of your friendship.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Matched with this chick on Tinder, real pretty face... but all her pictures were face shots... got me thinking she was hiding something.
Set up a date, and when I met her...that ass was fat as fukk... she had a long ass sweater but I could still see it
Grabbed a couple of drinks, got her to talk mostly about herself, didnt tell her much about me. At the end I told her i had to go, walked her back to her station...
Her: So... are we gonna see eachother again?
I lean in to give her a kiss, she backs off a lil bit:
Her: Are we gonna see eachother again?
I lean in again and kiss her, this bish bites and sucks my lower lip
Me: I'll think about it
She playfully hits me in the chest and I walk off laughing.
those quick witty remarks get these hoes fallin in love faster than a motherfukker
Never be friends with someone you have romantic feelings for
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
Not pancake flat but kinda small
I am very attracted to her, everything else im on board with
Gotta answer that for yourself breh.
Are you looking for a relationship or just having fun out there?
Either way you were clearly attracted enough to start something. Putting her in the bushes now on that now seems a little odd
Not gonna toss her in the buses, I'm not looking for a relationship but so far she has a lot of things i value lined up.
If this was 2k,
Personality: A
Loyalty: Incomplete but A from what i can gather
Looks/Body : B/B+
Career: A+
Drama Free: Incomplete but so far A
congrats on law school
See this is why male and female friendships rarely work no matter how platonic, it can work when you live far away from each other but if you live close and spend alot of time together one person will catch feelings.
Now that you've had sex there is no going back to regular friendship
Are you sure its love? When you have sex with someone you bond, dopamine levels get high and you enter this fog
Whenever a girl acts distant =
A) she's emotionally withdrawing
B) theres another guy
edit ah there it is B)
you do know the distant thing is crap right? its just the best reason to let you down easily. If you were to pack your bags and move back to the city you two are from it would be another reason. But this is what women do when they dump you/break up with you, they come up with the best reason possible.
Secondly see now she has you emotionally, because your angry she went back to a dirtbag ex.
1. So why would you want a girl who makes poor judgment choice in men
2. why would you want to be option b?
3. As I always say stop focusing on the Why? but focus on the WHAT!!!
The what is she dumped you and went back her greasy ex the why doesn't matter.
Women who go back and stay with men who treat them bad are emotionally unstable don';t waste your time with them it will suck the life out of you. LEt the dogs lie with the dogs.
Yeah you messed up, but its the common reaction. Emotions overrode logic it happens to everyone. Your going to be a man and fight for what you love that's what your told and what everyone is told, but it doesn't work. The best thing you can do is absolutely nothing, ala say nothing, delete her and get on with your life and if your paths cross again cool if not shrugs such is life.
1.Friendship was already over once you had sex
2. She is now controlling your emotions and your high, she can have her boyfriend whose beating up that vagina and getting head and still cheating and treating her like crap, and she can still have her best friend of 16 years to sit by the phone and hear her problems, while you utter but but Iw ouldn't do that I'd treat you good.
I'd honestly just cut my losses and move on, your a lawyer in geneva, you don't need this drama, there is nothing special about her NOTHING. you know how many women out there would love a opportunity with you?
Honestly I'd text or call her up and flat out say
That there is no going back to friendship after sex, that you will not be her plan B. That there are women out there that would thank God that they had you in their lives,
and if that person is not her, you need move on so that you can find such a person.
Stop wasting time on time wasters!!
Its not just females but there is a segment of people when they dump the reasons they will use is something to knaw at you
Ala she dumps you because you don't have a car
She dumps you because your not that educated
She dumps you because you live far
If you had a car, were educated and lived close it would be something else.
Its just a thing knowing you can't argue it.
She said distant because she knows you have a great job that you love in a different city.
It relieves her guilt, and noa you take some of the burder ah if only I lovede closet wed be together
Nope
Ala she dumps you because you don't have a car
She dumps you because your not that educated
She dumps you because you live far
If you had a car, were educated and lived close it would be something else.
Its just a thing knowing you can't argue it.
She said distant because she knows you have a great job that you love in a different city.
It relieves her guilt, and noa you take some of the burder ah if only I lovede closet wed be together
Nope
Its not just females but there is a segment of people when they dump the reasons they will use is something to knaw at you
Ala she dumps you because you don't have a car
She dumps you because your not that educated
She dumps you because you live far
If you had a car, were educated and lived close it would be something else.
Its just a thing knowing you can't argue it.
She said distant because she knows you have a great job that you love in a different city.
It relieves her guilt, and noa you take some of the burder ah if only I lovede closet wed be together
Nope
Ala she dumps you because you don't have a car
She dumps you because your not that educated
She dumps you because you live far
If you had a car, were educated and lived close it would be something else.
Its just a thing knowing you can't argue it.
She said distant because she knows you have a great job that you love in a different city.
It relieves her guilt, and noa you take some of the burder ah if only I lovede closet wed be together
Nope
it's up to you decide brehs once a woman gets distant and move on
A) You can keep taking me for granted, I'll be here for you as your faithful Plan B
B) Give yourself some value. Make something as small as your mere acknowledgement of her existence something she needs to work really
hard to regain. Have some dignity and self respect. Without it, you are worthless to her, despite what she might tell you.
I say
Change the dynamics by cutting her off from contact, dont give into bread crumbs not even pity sex she might offer you, Find someone who is deserving of what you have to offer.
These women are poison and your emotions have you begging for another dose
Take the easy road instead of the long and increasingly discord road of drama, emotional lows and manipulation tactics.
Never ever ever be a just in case nukka
just incase it doesn't work out with your ex I'm here
just incase you change your mind I'm here
just incase your bored tomorrow
just incase your not busy I'm here
just incase you forgot.....
I know it's hard but the one thing as a man you can control is your dignity, what you do with your time and who you give it to. Don't waste time on those who don't appreciate it or don't appreciate you
A) You can keep taking me for granted, I'll be here for you as your faithful Plan B
B) Give yourself some value. Make something as small as your mere acknowledgement of her existence something she needs to work really
hard to regain. Have some dignity and self respect. Without it, you are worthless to her, despite what she might tell you.
I say
Change the dynamics by cutting her off from contact, dont give into bread crumbs not even pity sex she might offer you, Find someone who is deserving of what you have to offer.
These women are poison and your emotions have you begging for another dose
Take the easy road instead of the long and increasingly discord road of drama, emotional lows and manipulation tactics.
Never ever ever be a just in case nukka
just incase it doesn't work out with your ex I'm here
just incase you change your mind I'm here
just incase your bored tomorrow
just incase your not busy I'm here
just incase you forgot.....
I know it's hard but the one thing as a man you can control is your dignity, what you do with your time and who you give it to. Don't waste time on those who don't appreciate it or don't appreciate you
Youseenmywork
KING
This one is going to hurt for a lot of dudes. Especially to those who think the strongest form of a relationship is friendship.
Youseenmywork
KING
http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/25/the-desire-dynamic/
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