Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

The western world on this side of the hemisphere is filled with simps.

In many European and Asian and african countries men are still men. Women are aggressive .

It's like I always say and recommend travel.

@Emperor_ReinScarf

Had a different, but somewhat similar experience yesterday.

After coming back from a July 4th party in Brooklyn, I stopped by a bar in Manhattan. I actually went in there because it was pretty empty and I had enough of the wall to wall people at the BK event.

In come these 2 German chicks who obviously were a little buzzed. I start talking to them and find out they're here working, but might be going back home soon. One of them starts to break down how different it is working here vs Germany. She didn't understand how you can send someone an e-mail within the same company and not get a response. Her whole perception about America coming in was different then the reality she has experienced in the corporate world. She mentioned people won't do anything here unless they can see an immediate monetary gain.

We start talking about relationships and she mentions a guy she is talking to that is still back home. Apparently they were seeing each other and then he told her he had a girlfriend. Now hes popping back up and claiming he's on the rocks with the girl. The whole time I thinking this sounds like the reverse of what happens here in the states. I told her she is crazy for having lived here the past 6 months and still worrying about some guy she never really even dated back home. She then goes to the restroom and I chat up her friend a little bit.

When the first girl comes back she cuts into my conversation with her friend and we resume speaking. I could already tell she was interested so I start touching her more and holding her hand. I got her number, but I didn't stay too long after because I could sense her friend getting antsy/jealous. I just told her I had to meet someone and bounced.

Once I got home I was like eh I don't even know if I will call her. She seemed ok and would probably be DTF. It was kind of interesting hearing their experience working here vs back home though. It was also interesting to how the dude she was talking to back home was running the same BS game the chicks do here. I guess guys do it everywhere too, but these chicks were definitely more chill than the average NYC girls.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Another red flags cats need to take heed of is whenever their chick feels the need to have "Girls Night Out" every weekend or every other weekend. You see a chick with nothing but pics of her homegirls, having girls night, Theirs most likely alot of sexual experimentation amongst them or low down kitty licking

 

[kevm3]

to add on im feeling like patrick willis out here, i was talking to this 31 year old chick and just meh. I just don't have it anymore . I don't have the drive to bend over backwards and text or call, the fakeness to even care about asking questions to know about her. Too court and all that when theres a bunch of other vultures flying above, nah go ahead. Right now I've been saving hoping to go to paris this year

Too much work for no reward. I'd rather just be myself. All of those tricks and roleplaying is exhausting

 

[MikelArteta]

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Another red flags cats need to take heed of is whenever their chick feels the need to have "Girls Night Out" every weekend or every other weekend. You see a chick with nothing but pics of her homegirls, having girls night, Theirs most likely alot of sexual experimentation amongst them or low down kitty licking

but but your insecure trust me bla bla

 

[RealAssanova]

brehs, i cannot stress the importance of having options. options, options.....OPTIONS.

if no one believes me, talk to 5 different girls with an interest in you, and watch how your behaviour naturally changes.
on that note, i seem to be losing alot of mine.

 

[MikelArteta]

i had a fam bbq/reunion sort of thing over the weekend, and my cousins gf family was there.

From meeting her a few times before at other family events I was right and could tell right off the back she came from a strong two parent household. There were her mom and dad married for 25 plus years. My cousin is literally like me, so much that people have confused us time and time again, The only thing is my cousin at 24 is so much smarter than me, dude hit the jackpot literally.

My cousin is 24 still struggling to find full time work but his chick is still with him and has been for teh past few years, she works full time as a bank not as a teller, has her own car etc. my cousin has gone on trips with her family and so has she with his .

i told my cousin don't because you'll never meet a girl like this whose into you like this, whose family and yours are like together and hang out all the time and doesn't care about your status and all that ish.

And it reminded me of the mistakes I made in life, dating with women from broken homes, dating with women who haven't overcome daddy issues, dating wit women who didn't respect their parents.

yeah i know women from two parent households can be messed up as well. But just like a hs dropout can be smarter on every level than a dude with a masters im hiring the masters candidate every single time

 

[MikelArteta]

brehs, i cannot stress the importance of having options. options, options.....OPTIONS.

if no one believes me, talk to 5 different girls with an interest in you, and watch how your behaviour naturally changes.
on that note, i seem to be losing alot of mine.

the disease of oneitis

 

[twan83]

sometimes you gotta make hard choices that is best for you whether u want too or not and most dont realize that and end up staying with them or straying them along can be even worse in the long run for both parties

 

[360dagod]

Crazy at 27 with grey hairs showing, these younger joints startin to look at me

 

[Swamp-Thing]

You should never idolize mediocre p***y. There's always better.

Sometimes you just need to take a step back and look if there might not be a better option. She may look good and be working it right but still you can't give in to the traps.

If you think she's using you for the sex, food, attention etc. then it is you're responsibility to end it ASAP. Learning this the hard way is just expensive and unnecessary.

 

[MikelArteta]

Crazy at 27 with grey hairs showing, these younger joints startin to look at me

im 30 wiht a few grays
but i lived a stressfull 20's

 

[360dagod]

im 30 wiht a few grays
but i lived a stressfull 20's

yeah man..The stress was real

Im still feeling the effects..

Im trying to learn how to smile more and shyt like that..

I unknowingly be intimidating women etc and i dont even realize it

The funny thing is kids are the exact opposite

 

[Mike Ock]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

Had a different, but somewhat similar experience yesterday.

After coming back from a July 4th party in Brooklyn, I stopped by a bar in Manhattan. I actually went in there because it was pretty empty and I had enough of the wall to wall people at the BK event.

In come these 2 German chicks who obviously were a little buzzed. I start talking to them and find out they're here working, but might be going back home soon. One of them starts to break down how different it is working here vs Germany. She didn't understand how you can send someone an e-mail within the same company and not get a response. Her whole perception about America coming in was different then the reality she has experienced in the corporate world. She mentioned people won't do anything here unless they can see an immediate monetary gain.

We start talking about relationships and she mentions a guy she is talking to that is still back home. Apparently they were seeing each other and then he told her he had a girlfriend. Now hes popping back up and claiming he's on the rocks with the girl. The whole time I thinking this sounds like the reverse of what happens here in the states. I told her she is crazy for having lived here the past 6 months and still worrying about some guy she never really even dated back home. She then goes to the restroom and I chat up her friend a little bit.

When the first girl comes back she cuts into my conversation with her friend and we resume speaking. I could already tell she was interested so I start touching her more and holding her hand. I got her number, but I didn't stay too long after because I could sense her friend getting antsy/jealous. I just told her I had to meet someone and bounced.

Once I got home I was like eh I don't even know if I will call her. She seemed ok and would probably be DTF. It was kind of interesting hearing their experience working here vs back home though. It was also interesting to how the dude she was talking to back home was running the same BS game the chicks do here. I guess guys do it everywhere too, but these chicks were definitely more chill than the average NYC girls.

I might told this story in here before, but about 3 yrs ago after breaking up with my long term ex, I was a little lost out there I was dating here and there but no one I took seriously at the time and me and my current girl were just friends at the time. Anyway, so one day it was pretty nice out so I roll to a happy hr to meet an ex-coworker. Me and the co-worker chat and catch up and my co-worker leaves. So I just start up a convo with this nice looking chik sitting next to me. Turned out she visiting from Australia. So we kinda hit it off and she asked me about a club that plays hiphop and R and B. So I taker her to a little lounge. We hit it off more and I end up smashing and staying over. She did come with a friend but he wasn't in the room by the time we got to her spot. He was roaming the streets himself. So I end up staying the night and going to work the next morning (doing the walk of shame because of the same clothes and I smelled like perfume and alcohol). I didn't know, how to call it with that night. Next thing I know she starts texting me later in the afternoon to meet up again. I told her I had to go home first, and she said she wants to see my place. So I meet her at her room since it was near my job. Met the dude she was traveling with and he was cool as hell. He was dying to meet some spanish chiks he let me know, so I told him some phrases to help him. So this chik heads to my house with me and we smash again and she stays the night. I took her to a friend's house party the next day, she then got her luggage and spent the next 4 nights and days with me. We had a good time. Picnics, site-seeing, restaurants, deep convos about past relationships...it was great man. It was like having a temp g/f. Of course it sucked when she left. We spoke a lot after, she even told me she loved me and let me know how I restored her faith in men. Apparently, her ex did her dirty and was abusive. I won't lie, I was really digging her also but had done the long-distance thing and this would have been a little too long distance for me. I actually planned on going out there to see her again but as time went by me and my current girl started becoming more than friends and I let the Australian chik know. She was sad but understood. Fast forward to the present- we chat randomly here and there but they are always good convos. We both are in serious relationships and we give each other advice on relationships and things in general. But just from the time spent with her, I really realized the qualities I wanted in a woman. Had I not had that experience I might have still been aimlessly dealing with chiks for the sake of it. If you get a good vibe from a chik, I say enjoy as much time as you can with her. Things might not end perfectly, but it could end in a positive lesson learned.

 

[RealAssanova]

@Emperor_ReinScarf went to the walmart at hwy 27 and there was a PAWG with a voluptuous body and an ass just made for backshots in front of me wearing a sundress

knew i had to holla at that...so i waited till we got outside and shouted excuse me miss....and it seemed like she heard but didn't wanna turn around ...so a nikka had to run abit with my fruit tray in my hand and said excuse me miss again...and she turned around and said ye....so i said do you got a minute...and she goes nope but thanks and some other shyt....but i was like and didn't care to hear what else she had to say, so i walked off to my car.

attitude was but the body was

 

[EQ.]

@Emperor_ReinScarf went to the walmart at hwy 27 and there was a PAWG with a voluptuous body and an ass just made for backshots in front of me wearing a sundress

knew i had to holla at that...so i waited till we got outside and shouted excuse me miss....and it seemed like she heard but didn't wanna turn around ...so a nikka had to run abit with my fruit tray in my hand and said excuse me miss again...and she turned around and said ye....so i said do you got a minute...and she goes nope but thanks....so i said and walked off to my car.

attitude was but the body was

it be like that sometimes.