Hopefully it works out for you bro.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Hopefully it works out for you bro.
pretty much done with online dating its near impossible for me to get a response these days.
i know im gonna have to start going out to meet women but shyt is gonna be extra tough as i dont have the social life for it,what am i to do brehs?
Get out the house and explore the city
women will tell you whatever you want to har, i know it calmed your fears and made you feel good. But she can love you but not be in love with you. But I hope it allw orks out in your favour
In my opinion key is just to live life, you'll never have it "together" in every facet so to speak to be ready. I've said it before you shouldn't want a relationship until you meet a woman that's worthy of you being in a relationship with.
It's like dudes going to the nba, yeah if they stayed 4 years they would be ready but screw that they leave early, what I mean is that "putting" off anything you want to do until you become so and so is risky because you never know what can happen. Yeah we may be in our 20s and early thirties here, but we can be snuffed out any day or situations can change.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
pretty much done with online dating its near impossible for me to get a response these days.
i know im gonna have to start going out to meet women but shyt is gonna be extra tough as i dont have the social life for it,what am i to do brehs?
Join a social sports club breh. Especially now in the summer, alot of people are playing sports etc fun way to link up with people and stay healthy.
TeFLoNBoMBz
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I know how it is fam. I'm going through something myself..
Back in October me and my ex split over me losing my cool over a nikka that jugged me over craigslist. Things were getting bad before then but was the last straw. I left and she changed
the locks on the door the next day. I was sick and determined to get her back. I did the same things you did, texting her mushy shyt and telling her how I felt because I really did love her. She has a son (I've been in his life since he was 4) and my son really thought they were brothers. For 2 months I worked on changing the things about myself I knew I needed to change, I even went to see a therapist and took a class for anger management. I really wanted my family back so I did everything I had to do show her I was serious. During this time my mom was diagnosed with cancer and her health deteriorated fast. So I'm trying to get my ex back, taking care of my moms and kids..I got a promotion at my job that required me travel so I was in and out of town. We reconnect back in January..talking on the phone everyday, going out with the kids, spending time. She knew how I felt about her and I made it known but it never got back to the way it was. I couldn't shake the feeling that she was trying to friend zone me. I wasn't having that. I've done to much and fought to hard to save our relationship for her to basically accept a demotion in her life. I also couldn't afford to invest any more time and emotion in her because my mother needed me more than ever. I cut all communication with her in the beginning of June and haven't talked to her since. She text me asking about my mom but I didn't respond. I still love her, I think about her constantly but at the same time I want her to live her life and find happiness. My life got to real and I really needed to focus and handle my business as a man. I said all of that to say this: sometimes it can be your ego that don't want to take the L, especially if you were the one that fukked up. But that's a question you have ask yourself. I hope everything works out, either way you'll come out stronger.
b_priest9mm
A work in progress...
Pretty sure I got played. 
-Girl I work with.
-Never really talked with her before.
-Out of the blue starts with playful behavior towards me.
-I oblige because why not, see if it goes anywhere.
-I figure right about now is the time where I make my move.
-Before I can ompletely changes her tune after a week of talking/flirting.
-Suddenly I don't exist anymore.
-Catch wind of her crushing for real on another co-worker.
-It's as if we're strangers again. Haven't spoken in a few months.
This ALWAYS happens to me.
-Girl I work with.
-Never really talked with her before.
-Out of the blue starts with playful behavior towards me.
-I oblige because why not, see if it goes anywhere.
-I figure right about now is the time where I make my move.
-Before I can ompletely changes her tune after a week of talking/flirting.
-Suddenly I don't exist anymore.
-Catch wind of her crushing for real on another co-worker.
-It's as if we're strangers again. Haven't spoken in a few months.
This ALWAYS happens to me.
Cancer sucks hope your mom beats it
But yeah man I've been there before, a woman may still have feelings for you, may say she loves you. Talks to you every day and all that but the romanyic emotions she has for you are gone.
And when that happens it doesn't matter what you do.you could be the last man on earth and she'd fall in love with a horse before you.
When its gone its gone, its like a guy in the NBA who was averaging 25 a game suddenly his skil is gone and he's a bench warmee impossible to get it back. He looks the same no homo but the skills are just gone.
But yeah man I've been there before, a woman may still have feelings for you, may say she loves you. Talks to you every day and all that but the romanyic emotions she has for you are gone.
And when that happens it doesn't matter what you do.you could be the last man on earth and she'd fall in love with a horse before you.
When its gone its gone, its like a guy in the NBA who was averaging 25 a game suddenly his skil is gone and he's a bench warmee impossible to get it back. He looks the same no homo but the skills are just gone.
Quiet Magician
Superstar
Pretty sure I got played.
-Girl I work with.
-Never really talked with her before.
-Out of the blue starts with playful behavior towards me.
-I oblige because why not, see if it goes anywhere.
-I figure right about now is the time where I make my move.
-Before I can ompletely changes her tune after a week of talking/flirting.
-Suddenly I don't exist anymore.
-Catch wind of her crushing for real on another co-worker.
-It's as if we're strangers again. Haven't spoken in a few months.
This ALWAYS happens to me.
This is why you never in under any circumstance try to smash your coworkers. Doesn't matter how hot she is, shyt will always fukk you up.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
Pretty sure I got played.
-Girl I work with.
-Never really talked with her before.
-Out of the blue starts with playful behavior towards me.
-I oblige because why not, see if it goes anywhere.
-I figure right about now is the time where I make my move.
-Before I can ompletely changes her tune after a week of talking/flirting.
-Suddenly I don't exist anymore.
-Catch wind of her crushing for real on another co-worker.
-It's as if we're strangers again. Haven't spoken in a few months.
This ALWAYS happens to me.
Learn from this shyt breh, hopefully in the future these experiences will help you recognize what kind of games females play. Girls at work especially like the attention from male co-workers, it drives their confidence up and 9/10 will switch up soon as you try and approach. I suggest never "talk" to your female co-workers but if you must always inquire about any of their female friends.
b_priest9mm
A work in progress...
Ah, I fell for the old bait and switch for attention. No question what this was about.
I duped myself back into being naive about women and gameplay. I forgot that women like the attention sometimes. It's on me to determine real interest or if I'm ego boost fodder. I think I'll play it safe and treat every girl as an attention whore until otherwise noted.
Won't happen again.
I duped myself back into being naive about women and gameplay. I forgot that women like the attention sometimes. It's on me to determine real interest or if I'm ego boost fodder. I think I'll play it safe and treat every girl as an attention whore until otherwise noted.
Won't happen again.
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b_priest9mm
A work in progress...
That begs the question though, how can you tell the real interest apart from the attention whores?
I don't need to tell you all how much wasting time on an attention whore is draining.
I don't need to tell you all how much wasting time on an attention whore is draining.
Sovereign
Ancient One : The Pinnacle of Evolution.
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EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
Girl will flat out ask for your number or offer hers and or try and set something up (we should go workout together/we should watch a movie/ etc).