Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DonFrancisco]

I agree with @kevm3 . The minute you stop giving a shyt about impressing women and you work on being you and building your career in the moment when so many women flock to you and it won't matter what type of women. In a strange way you end up building mystery around you and the more you do things like live life, take adventures, travel, and just become social person is the moment when the woman you wanted as younger guys starts sending you sexy selfies and wanting your attention. The ironic part of is that you won't even care.

I say this but also know the signs of when a woman is hitting on you and when to flirt back. I still suck at that but women that really want you will basically get you. Still, you can't suck at body language and flirting. Honestly over the past year and a half I just stop caring. I went from wanting to chase tail to just being me. As soon as I got that attitude women from different walks of life started getting at me. Of course for some reason, I get specific type of chick from specific countries lol.

 

[DonFrancisco]

And yes women are illogical. Part of it is due to their nature, sexuality, and the patriarchal society we live in. Use it to your advantage because even the most feminist women still want a man and relationship, they just have different things they are attracted oppose to other women.

Oh yeah, just stay in your lane, the women you want will come to you if you just be yourself and you improve yourself constantly. Pick up new hobbies, travel new places, create new social circles, and just be a renaissance man of sorts hahahaha.


Just my experience the past year. I'm still fighting the urge to impress a woman thou so I'm far from being supremely confident.

 

[kevm3]

I have question and it weird:

Does anyone just attract a certain nationality of women? I attract two specific nationalities and both are next to each other hahaha. I'm wondering if that has happen to anyone. I guess this would boil down to types of women I attract.

Yeah, sometimes you just have a 'type' that's attracted to you on average.

 

[Kal El]

I've been out of the game for a while, and I recently started trying this online thing out.

Had a few dates in the last week that went ok, but I'm obviously a lil rusty. What's the etiquette for picking up a girl for a first date?

Do you walk up to her door and ring the doorbell, or do you just shoot her a text from your car saying "I'm outside"

I've been doin the latter.

 

[Action Mike]

Breh there is no such thing as going slow or waiting with a woman. She'll be ready to give it up as soon as you get her in her feelings. That's the thing with women, they'll tell you all this bullshyt, but if you sit back and peep game, none of that shyt adds up with their actions. She'll tell one guy she's waiting til marriage, but will bust it open on the first night if she meets the right guy.

I was gonna type this verbatim.



In short, 'going slow' doesn't exist. If a woman knows shes dealing with a high quality dude, then he has options.

What woman is going to wait for those options to materialize?

Don't stay in her world, bring her into yours.

 

[NerdNash]

Still working on staying focused through the day. Been getting distracted by social media and other shyt (texts, etc)

And that all ties into me thinking about my ex for some reason

 

[MikelArteta]

With women its like a club some will wait in line and she will take it slow, others will get that VIP access and be in

I want to take it slow has also uttered i haven't done this before, if the chemistry is right

I was gonna type this verbatim.



In short, 'going slow' doesn't exist. If a woman knows shes dealing with a high quality dude, then he has options.

What woman is going to wait for those options to materialize?

Don't stay in her world, bring her into yours.

 

[MikelArteta]

With women its like a club some will wait in line and she will take it slow, others will get that VIP access and be in

I want to take it slow has also uttered i haven't done this before, if the chemistry is right

I was gonna type this verbatim.



In short, 'going slow' doesn't exist. If a woman knows shes dealing with a high quality dude, then he has options.

What woman is going to wait for those options to materialize?

Don't stay in her world, bring her into yours.

 

[Rich Spirit]

I've been out of the game for a while, and I recently started trying this online thing out.

Had a few dates in the last week that went ok, but I'm obviously a lil rusty. What's the etiquette for picking up a girl for a first date?

Do you walk up to her door and ring the doorbell, or do you just shoot her a text from your car saying "I'm outside"

I've been doin the latter.

Honestly it really doesn't matter. I typically just call and let her know that I'm outside. It shouldn't affect how the date will go unless she's real anal about that type of stuff

 

[Bless't]

I've been out of the game for a while, and I recently started trying this online thing out.

Had a few dates in the last week that went ok, but I'm obviously a lil rusty. What's the etiquette for picking up a girl for a first date?

Do you walk up to her door and ring the doorbell, or do you just shoot her a text from your car saying "I'm outside"

I've been doin the latter.

Any first date I've had off of the internet, I always tell her where to meet at. No problems doing that. But if I were to go pick her up... I think I'd call and just tell her I'm out front.

 

[DonFrancisco]

Going slow exist. I've a few women that would do things like that. Like someone said, bring them to your world.

 

[DonFrancisco]

Also peep her fashion game, if it matches or similar to yours she's more compatible for you. Trust me, that is a big indicator if she's going to be cooperative or not.

I look at indicators when I'm out and trying to approach women. It helps me screen out the ones that I might have success vs. The ones im sure wont feel me.

 

[OaklandCertified]

Going slow exist. I've a few women that would do things like that. Like someone said, bring them to your world.

Going slow exist only when a man is in control. There's no going slow for women because they are run by emotions. If you get a woman feeling right all bets are off.

 

[Action Mike]

Going slow exist only when a man is in control. There's no going slow for women because they are run by emotions. If you get a woman feeling right all bets are off.

Agree 100%, only when it's on the brehs terms then is it acceptable.

If a woman 'feels it' it's a wrap. No rules.

I would go as far as to say it's insulting a bish tell a guy that she wants to go slow, just on the assumption that other women aren't campaigning for this guy and he can afford to wait twiddling his thumbs while she explores what these other guys are about...



Same level as them telling you, if there not doing anything else on the day you asked them out only then they will go out with you.

We ain't option number 2. Brehs value yourselves.

 

[DonFrancisco]

Agree 100%, only when it's on the brehs terms then is it acceptable.

If a woman 'feels it' it's a wrap. No rules.

I would go as far as to say it's insulting a bish tell a guy that she wants to go slow, just on the assumption that other women aren't campaigning for this guy and he can afford to wait twiddling his thumbs while she explores what these other guys are about...



Same level as them telling you, if there not doing anything else on the day you asked them out only then they will go out with you.

We ain't option number 2. Brehs value yourselves.

I agree. Last year I was smashing this exchange student from Asia. She wanted to take it super slow so i did. At the same time I was dating this other chick. I made the decision to table exchange student's ass and talk to her on a weekly basis. Talk enough to establish myself as a possible lover in her mind but i never revealed too much of myself. I always kept her on her toes and kept that mystery. 2 months passby and we smashed. She didn't care i was smashing another chick.

What I'm saying is women are different and you have run game on them on a case by case basis. The girl I was dating, i moved quick like thunder and the side girl, she wanted to move slow do i adjusted accordingly. The side girl thought she was running game by not giving in to my advances (it did work, i was kinda feeling her) but at the end i kept my composure. The funny part was i told her i wanted to have fun and nothing else and she was cool with it.

Women aren't objects brehs, there is never a 100% set formula for running game lol. The only absolute rule in the dating game is to value yourself a great deal and being confident. Just my 2 cents over my limited experience in being back in the dating game.