damn. ive been there before. if it was me id try and just talk to her about it. but its up to you.I'm lowkey heavy in the friendzone with this chick...and It's all my faulti was so hot and cold with her in the past and i have a pretty aloof personality. A lot of the time it seemed like i didnt care. Idk if there's any way to climb out this ditch i built. She's a dope good chick and ion wanna hurt her
. But if i stay stuck in the the friendzone imma go ghost
I went over there on tuesday to see where her mind was at and drop off a harmless letter explaining i'm okay with the breakup and shyt and to talk a lil. She wouldn't answer the door (her mom said I came by) so she probs told her family I'm crazy or some shyt when her moms loved methen texts me like you okay. I call her up and its just dead dead dead. I'm in a good mood and you can hear it but shes just so fukking...lifeless sounding towards me. Like damn what did I actually do to you. Like I know nikkas who cheated on they baby moms who talk with more warmth about them. Eventually I just told her I left and a letter, and why'd you even pick up the phone (if she was going to be a lifeless doll) and she hung up
texted her I'm coolio and enjoy your life. I still think about her (mostly because we live a few minutes from each other and a lot of shyt I do around town I would do with her) but I'm at that point where I'm like good riddance. Did I make mistakes, yeah, small ones imo. So I'll fess up to that. But the bytch takes zero accountability in life and thats going to fukk her in th elong run so w/e.
But enough about that idiot girl we popping bottles with the homies tonight
just put the phone down and just leave her be, nothing good will come of this now or ever.
I'm lowkey heavy in the friendzone with this chick...and It's all my fault
So, I said that I was seeing this new pawg, cool girl, real chill. We had a lunch date and it went well, we text on and off the last 3 weeks with phone calls. But sometimes, when I text, I won't get a respond back for like hours. Okay, I already know what the deal is the first time she pulled it, so i'm already mentally prepared to toss her into the bushes. so the last 3 days I didn't text or call or anything. This morning she was like
Her: "hey, you okay, haven't heard form you in a while?"
Me: Yeah, school kept me busy. To be honest, I didn't think you were interested in me, so I kept it moving.
Her: I know, I just been real busy lately
Me:
Me: Yeah, I htink maybe the time is not right between us.
her: Oh ok.
I'm saying brehs, I ain't putting up with this shyt. You either in or you not. No such thing as half way crooks. Personally, I hate them fukking games. So i had no problem when i saw that shyt. Don't be afraid to cut a hoe go, let her dig her own grave.
u shouldn't have said "i didn't think u were interested in me". that tells her ur use to girls not being interested in u. it should have went something like this:
Her: "hey, you okay, haven't heard form you in a while?"
you: hey hun. yeah i've been hella swamped lately. great to hear from u though. what u up to?
Her: I know, I just been real busy lately
you: that's cool sweet baby. handle ur biz. let know when you're free so we can getogether, grab a drink or make dinner
trust, she woulda been on ur ass like flies on sh1t.
the fact that she hit u up in the first place meant she liked u somewhat. but based on how u were texting her and the sh1t u were saying, she saw u as beneath her. not a prize. women like guys whose feelings for them are unclear.
what i just texted shows many things. it shows u got ur hands full. with what? she doesn't know. but can only speculate. and btw, stop talking to chicks on the phone or texting too damn long. use them sh1ts only to set dates.
...Fat ass, engineering major, well spoken, etc so I don't wanna fck up my chances dealing with my homeboy who doesn't wanna come out the house. But to be real I always felt weird rolling to a function solo
Is going out solo that big of a deal?
Just met a Nigerian chick and she told me to go to this probate tonight at her school. Of the 3 dudes I'm close with (who id go with) only one is in town and he's bullshytting. I don't go to her school.
She's a problem
Am I trippen over this or nah.
Is going out solo that big of a deal?
Just met a Nigerian chick and she told me to go to this probate tonight at her school. Of the 3 dudes I'm close with (who id go with) only one is in town and he's bullshytting. I don't go to her school.
She's a problem
Am I trippen over this or nah.
i dont think its that bad to start going out solo. i started going out by myself and it isn't bad. i actually now enjoy it more than a group. i feel more in controlIs going out solo that big of a deal?
Just met a Nigerian chick and she told me to go to this probate tonight at her school. Of the 3 dudes I'm close with (who id go with) only one is in town and he's bullshytting. I don't go to her school.
She's a problem
Am I trippen over this or nah.
Is going out solo that big of a deal?
Just met a Nigerian chick and she told me to go to this probate tonight at her school. Of the 3 dudes I'm close with (who id go with) only one is in town and he's bullshytting. I don't go to her school.
She's a problem
Am I trippen over this or nah.
i dont think its that bad to start going out solo. i started going out by myself and it isn't bad. i actually now enjoy it more than a group. i feel more in control
