Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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As a guy who can be a little too serious when dealing with people, I have to remind myself to have fun, that it's all a game. Letting my guard down is rule number 1 (plus I have BRF so I look pissed all the time), it just sucks that I'm usually guard free and a little more friendly when I drink a certain amount. I've also been reading Kama Sutra (book is hilarious but it has a lot of game) and one great gem that I can remember off top is to not be shy. There are women that like shy guys but more than likely, they're at home or at the supermarket, not in the club with you. Because I'm not the greatest looking guy I don't always have women fall into my lap (it happens:takedat: but not as often as i'd like) but the women that I have picked up have told me that they were glad I said something. I knew my ex for some time before we got together but if i didn't say anything to her, she wouldn't have said anything to me (fukk that chick tho :mjcry:.)
 

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I need to leave this chick, she doesnt know how to talk to me or people. A simple convo ends with her raising her voice disrespectfully, she feels she can talk to people anyway she wants and people should accept it. Its only a matter of time she says something wrong to the wrong person.She only 21 so its mostly because of her immaturity, but I have fukked with other 21 year old and they werent disrespectful lil brats

This bytch very lucky I got no potential replacements, she disrespectful and her sex game is very weak (she lost her virginity last summer).If I had 3 women like last summer, she woulda been out the door already.:francis:
 
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I need to leave this chick, she doesnt know how to talk to me or people. A simple convo ends with her raising her voice disrespectfully, she feels she can talk to people anyway she wants and people should accept it. Its only a matter of time she says something wrong to the wrong person.She only 21 so its mostly because of her immaturity, but I have fukked with other 21 year old and they werent disrespectful lil brats

This bytch very lucky I got no potential replacements, she disrespectful and her sex game is very weak (she lost her virginity last summer).If I had 3 women like last summer, she woulda been out the door already.:francis:

Lool damn, she sound like a problem. Do you have any concrete examples of her going off the rails. Honestly the fact that you are even complaining about her instead of having already booted her out the door makes me think she's pretty attractive. Yay or nay?
 

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ol girl from several pages back, who hurled all those derogatory words at me now's trying reconnect on some "can you call me". type sh1t.

its almost like arithmetic. 1 + 1 = 2. if u get into it with a girl, and she loses her cool, u keep urs. and walk away. it's bound to fucck her head all up. nothing hurts these women more than indifference. absolutely nothing.

considering all the sh1t this girl said to me months back, and how we fell out, i'm shocked she wants to reconnect. but then again, i'm not shocked.

Yo! This happen to me last weekend. She was on some white supremacist tip fukkery. I charged her to the game by outing he rout on snapchat of my experience with her at the beach that day. She send me a snap telling me I was a "lame" and will never get a gf, all that bs women say to you when they are mad. Following week I go to the gym to sign up and she is there. She looks at me with anger and storms off into the bathroom. Before I gave her my number she kept hitting me up to go to the beach I kept avoiding her cause I always been curved and lead on by women so I was skeptical of her thinking she will run game on me. 3rd week I finally gave her a chance and she was alright, but then she got comfortable and started her racist nonsense and other bs. Her personality is rude and disrespectful and she has low self esteem. She looks alright but her personality kills it. She always talking ish about anyone including kids. Anyway I'm thinking she gonna hit me up this Saturday for the beach, but I always go to the beach solo n gonna run into her. I ain't trippin over her cause I really don't care for her n talking to other chicks. What y'all think of this?
 

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I need to leave this chick, she doesnt know how to talk to me or people. A simple convo ends with her raising her voice disrespectfully, she feels she can talk to people anyway she wants and people should accept it. Its only a matter of time she says something wrong to the wrong person.She only 21 so its mostly because of her immaturity, but I have fukked with other 21 year old and they werent disrespectful lil brats

This bytch very lucky I got no potential replacements, she disrespectful and her sex game is very weak (she lost her virginity last summer).If I had 3 women like last summer, she woulda been out the door already.:francis:

I delt with a chick like this she 22. Told her if she gonna keep doing what she doing she should delete me from her life and never hit me up. And guess what? For 3 weeks she been hounding me to hangout with her before this happened.
 

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Things were going well with the girl who plays volleyball for the school, but i fell back. I hit her back up a while ago. She said she was busy with SGA elections and i just took that L:yeshrug:turns out she was actually online to join a sorority:ehh: Idk if i try to get back in her space or if she'll be busy with all this new attention and her line sisters:patrice:

And with the nigerian engineering major chick at another school..the date went well last weekend. Tried to link up before the weekend but she also said shes busy. She said she'll let me know when she's free:francis:i know shes in math/physics classes but still.

A brotha cant seem to catch a break:leostare:
 

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I suck at texting

I get a number and introduce myself a day later and get the fade out real quickly

I know this cuz I got the same chick up a few weeks later like this the nikka that wanna fukk and she came back more interested. I still ain't hit but it taught me that chix think I'm corny when I text basic shyt

Is there a medium between going full blast and mr Rogers?

What should the first few texts look like when u reaching out?
 

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I suck at texting

I get a number and introduce myself a day later and get the fade out real quickly

I know this cuz I got the same chick up a few weeks later like this the nikka that wanna fukk and she came back more interested. I still ain't hit but it taught me that chix think I'm corny when I text basic shyt

Is there a medium between going full blast and mr Rogers?

What should the first few texts look like when u reaching out?

Such a fine line my breh.

Gauge her interest and ask general questions that enable you to figure out her personality type. Sounds corny but it works. Some chicks are THOT's in the text game and want basic ass convo. Some girls like a little politeness dashed in with some sexual innuendos and flirtatious texts. Some other ladies are boring af and have no conversational skills. So it's not just on you.
 

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Such a fine line my breh.

Gauge her interest and ask general questions that enable you to figure out her personality type. Sounds corny but it works. Some chicks are THOT's in the text game and want basic ass convo. Some girls like a little politeness dashed in with some sexual innuendos and flirtatious texts. Some other ladies are boring af and have no conversational skills. So it's not just on you.

I can't even get to that point. I'm figuring these chix must not have liked me in the first place.

Hi I'm Scorpio.

O hi


Blah blah

No reaponse

Battle of attrition

shyt is aggravating
 

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I can't even get to that point. I'm figuring these chix must not have liked me in the first place.

Hi I'm Scorpio.

O hi


Blah blah

No reaponse

Battle of attrition

shyt is aggravating

Yeah. Basically numbers dont mean shyt nowadays.

But, you'll get the number of someone you're interested in and they'll show you the same respect/interest back and it'll be smooth as fukk.

:salute:
 

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Me and the nurse been dating since Feb. Things are going slow, still getting to know her and she getting to know me. Even though it hasn't been said it feels "exclusive" meaning she spends a lot of her time with me and she is always over at my crib. But she still has other suitors trying to get they way in but she curves them and spends her time with me. I guess that should mean something. But she is afraid to give me her all just yet cause she still kinda hurting from her last relationship. I get it but I guess I'm getting slightly impatient because I know I'm a good catch and good guy for her but she gotta see it herself. Plus honestly, I was bit insecure with her having the other guys try and holla but then she ain't my girl and we dating so she free to talk to whomever and so am I. I still have a few back ups on my "bench" that text and call me but they noticed I've fallen back on them. The chemistry is there and we already act like a team. We took a road trip to AC and had a great time for her bday. I like her a lot and I can tell she likes me a lot to but afraid. I know I should take it one day at a time but I just feel she a great look. Hopefully she will feel the same way. I'm sick of dating. I'm sick of dealing with these women influenced by social media. This nurse she has no social media and she just attracts people with her personality and grace. I hope I can lock this down brehs.
 
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Such a fine line my breh.

Gauge her interest and ask general questions that enable you to figure out her personality type. Sounds corny but it works. Some chicks are THOT's in the text game and want basic ass convo. Some girls like a little politeness dashed in with some sexual innuendos and flirtatious texts. Some other ladies are boring af and have no conversational skills. So it's not just on you.

I'd go further and recommend you give up texting as your platform of choice altogether. There's no useful "gauging" you will be doing through text. I'd try to minimize texting as much as possible unless it is to set up a meeting. Plus you don't want to deal with the chicks who want to show they are "busy" by waiting for hours to respond to you when you know that they are always on their phone.
 
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