Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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guys, i hate to be a d1ck but this thread is meant to be about how men can deal with women. not how women can deal with men. there's a separate thread for that.

if some of yall are hoping to slide into this girl's inbox and try to get in them draws, u can do so. but lets not turn this thread into bullsh1t. she's a chick. she can get over any guy faster than any of u can get over a girl. so stop this sh1t.
 

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Yea I don't have a preference but I never ended up with a black female not Cuz of lack of trying but lack of Cuz of places I've lived at and what they had weren't any good black females or they were married
Being overseas Alot or in West Texas with majority Hispanic it is what it is
I get asked that Alot y didn't I stay within my race I'm like I don't care what race just want a good woman and not like I didn't try I told them but oh well it is what it is

I've had multiple people recommend i date non black to lessen the chances of heartbreak. Two friends in particular who are now married outside their race, one white guy, one egyptian.
The state of affairs is sad.
 

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Yea I don't have a preference but I never ended up with a black female not Cuz of lack of trying but lack of Cuz of places I've lived at and what they had weren't any good black females or they were married
Being overseas Alot or in West Texas with majority Hispanic it is what it is
I get asked that Alot y didn't I stay within my race I'm like I don't care what race just want a good woman and not like I didn't try I told them but oh well it is what it is

Word. I'm in some ways damn near black panther levels of militancy but nowadays I'm like fukk man...most these blacks girls on that feminist tip and hate me off jump street. And then you have the ones whove fukked with dboys they whole life so they jaded. There are the completely well adjusted beautiful black women out there but they usually been cuffed for years or fixated on career path and shyt. Its a weird game now. I'm pretty much like I'm going to keep my personal convictions and regardless of color if you fukk with them you fukk with them. My stepmoms white and a pretty good woman, so I know not all white women are demons lol
 

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guys, i hate to be a d1ck but this thread is meant to be about how men can deal with women. not how women can deal with men. there's a separate thread for that.

if some of yall are hoping to slide into this girl's inbox and try to get in them draws, u can do so. but lets not turn this thread into bullsh1t. she's a chick. she can get over any guy faster than any of u can get over a girl. so stop this sh1t.

In my 26 years never slid in DMs. She approached the thread with more decorum than that chick who was having lesbian fantasies so thats why I responded :ld:

you are correct tho breh, we've given her enough gems.
 

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guys, i hate to be a d1ck but this thread is meant to be about how men can deal with women. not how women can deal with men. there's a separate thread for that.

if some of yall are hoping to slide into this girl's inbox and try to get in them draws, u can do so. but lets not turn this thread into bullsh1t. she's a chick. she can get over any guy faster than any of u can get over a girl. so stop this sh1t.

Why so butt hurt :martin:
Mods can move it there if necessary.
I couldn't find a relationship thread to post in except this one.

And your last comment about we can get over things quicker. Maybe it's just your chick that got over you fast. :comeon:
 

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Fair enough. Main reason I can recover from breakups and go out and date again quickly is because for one I don't hold grudges and I know who I am. I am a main of morality and I earnestly try to be a good mate. So it may seem narcissistic but I rarely feel that I was really the huge problem in a breakup. I'm far from perfect but if you believe you could have done little more to make the relationship better than it becomes very easy to put it behind you and go out and look again because you have the internal solace that why you are moving on and can find something better, they will search for years before they find someone of your character. A lil arrogance isn't the end of the world. Especially if its deserved.

Brilliantly put.
Yea i have regrets about being overly emotional at times and being passive aggressive. I've rationalized them in time though. No one's perfect. But that regret did keep me stuck mentally at first. I could've done better, but reality is there was nothing worth being better for in with this relationship. I'll just have to apply what i learned with the next one so i can walk away how you described if it ends
 

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I understand why chicks get annoyed with the whole DM shyt. Its in their nature and they love the attention even while they say its annoying and And alot of guys be thirsty as hell with it. But man these broads nowadays get WAYYYY too obsessed with mentioning it constantly.

For real. Its like how we men by nature can have huge egos but we can keep it under control. But some of these chicks still just cant control themselves with putting out pics of people "sliding in their Dms.". Yeah the guys doing it are thirsty but the women have turned it even cornier by mentioning it constantly...some of them need to get some hobbies for real man. Get other hobbies and post pics on IG of that hobby or whatever and talk about that. Every post from these chicks gotta be about who is sliding in their DM or taking ass shots at their 8 year old son's football games....

Take up boxing...MMA...learn to sew...try gardening...anything. Then talk about that on FB and IG besides sitting around smoking weed all the time retweeting statuses of "Life Quotes" and constantly repeating "cosign" over and over again. YEAH MEN AINT shyt GIRL!!!" . Then rinse and repeat.

Some damn fukking clones man.

I wouldn't be surprised if years down the line there is a movement like what happened years back with Brazil...except this time guys are moving onto "square chicks". Not busted square chicks but like the tinashe types or girls considered corny.I promise you the IG thots will change overnight if that happened. I know a big rant guys but i just lost it after seeing a timeline today....its like all they can talk about is sliding in DMS..OK WE GET IT.....it was funny the first time/

these bytches need to get a damn hobby...their fathers should have put them onto hobbies instead of inflating their egos from the age of 2 to 18 with the daddy's little girl bullshyt....

next time some of yall ask an IG thot or any other chick you know in regular life who seems to feel herself too much....ask her what are her talents or hobbies....watch her freeze up.

these chickens only have their sex to offer...not even conversation...i bet none of these chicks even know how to sew or iron.
 

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guys, i hate to be a d1ck but this thread is meant to be about how men can deal with women. not how women can deal with men. there's a separate thread for that.

if some of yall are hoping to slide into this girl's inbox and try to get in them draws, u can do so. but lets not turn this thread into bullsh1t. she's a chick. she can get over any guy faster than any of u can get over a girl. so stop this sh1t.
she came in here respectfully and she wanted a MALES perspective on this topic so thats why dudes answered and it makes sense, let her know man

but that being said, i mean....this is a males group to dealing with women and now that she got her answer....

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she came in here respectfully and she wanted a MALES perspective on this topic so thats why dudes answered and it makes sense, let her know man

but that being said, i mean....this is a males group to dealing with women and now that she got her answer....

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That's fine.
Thanks to the men who replied.
Appreciate it.
 

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she came in here respectfully and she wanted a MALES perspective on this topic so thats why dudes answered and it makes sense, let her know man

but that being said, i mean....this is a males group to dealing with women and now that she got her answer....

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i get what you're saying. respectfully or not, this is mainly for men. i say this definitively because, if u continue entertaining her BS, more females will begin posting in this thread asking dumb questions, and taking away time from those men who really need our advise.

again, i hate to be the d1ck here, but they have their own thread. they can revive it and ask it there. and if u guys wanna respond to that, feel free to do so. but i hate coming up in this thread reading 2 long pages about how to deal with a GUY
 

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i get what you're saying. respectfully or not, this is mainly for men. i say this definitively because, if u continue entertaining her BS, more females will begin posting in this thread asking dumb questions, and taking away time from those men who really need our advise.

again, i hate to be the d1ck here, but they have their own thread. they can revive it and ask it there. and if u guys wanna respond to that, feel free to do so. but i hate coming up in this thread reading 2 long pages about how to deal with a GUY

You're doing the most. You sound very bitter at women.
If you have a link to this thread you keep talking about, post it.
Also, someone more insightful would be able to deduce potential insight or lessons for men based on the last two pages.
Regardless, stop being so bitter.
Being the female version of you whose disdain and bitterness for the opposite sex is palpable is what i pray i never end up becoming.
Don't let the chick who clearly hurt you turn you into a twat. It's unattractive.
Peace.
 

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You're doing the most. You sound very bitter at women.
If you have a link to this thread you keep talking about, post it.
Also, someone more insightful would be able to deduce potential insight or lessons for men based on the last two pages.
Regardless, stop being so bitter.
Being the female version of you whose disdain and bitterness for the opposite sex is palpable is what i pray i never end up becoming.
Don't let the chick who clearly hurt you turn you into a twat. It's unattractive.
Peace.
:childplease:
 

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Grimace all you want.
It's very obvious you've been heartbroken before.
If i can sense this off a post, I'm sure any woman irl who is not dimwitted sees it and the resulting games I'm sure you play to protect yourself.
Good luck though.
 
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