Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Huellz Santana]

You just started dating her and she acting like this...

Don't reassure her of anything. Your self improvement is paramount. If she can't get with the program, then the bushes is where she belongs with a less ambitious man.

All women do this because they require attention and stability. Reasons why bum nikkas can knock up girls all year long because they don't have shyt to do with their lives.

You either gonna have to get use to it and keep checking her every so often because she won't stop, they never do.

Or you gonna have to drop her and stop seriously dating till you get to where you want to be in life. Start back when you have the time to dedicate to dating women.

9/10 women ain't good for building with, they don't understand the void you feel as a man when you ain't where you want to be yet.

Charge her to the game

gonna have to bush her brehs. we keep having issues and she's not seeing where I'm coming from. she kept me up until 3 am last night arguing about the same ol' shyt. I'm at work barely making it today.

I consider myself a veteran so I guess what's troubling me is that this happened. im gonna need to meditate and examine how I ended up here. she's easily gotten the best version of me as far as being a boyfriend goes.​

 

[Huellz Santana]

breh I hope it works out for you @Supreme Leader Reinscarf a girl turning down my proposal or ending an engagement is my one non-negotiable. shyt is instant status for me

but then again I've never proposed or been engaged so I'm sure its a lot of conflicting feelings that I wouldn't know about​

 

[Lord Bison]

Working at a call center is one of the easiest and best opportunities to meet women. There's usually always an overabundance of chicks there. It's up to you if you want to take the risk of dealing with chicks you work at. But it is VERY VERY easy to find something that you like up there.

All you have to do is dress well, be about your business and lay back in the cut and you WILL find a woman that is attracted to you. Even my introverted ass got cat called in the call center. If you lift weights and stay in decent shape, you'll have it on easy mode. These chicks will find a way to put themselves in your presence. All you have to do is seal the deal.

Again, you can eat like a Golden Corral buffet at the call center. But do so at your own risk.

 

[MikelArteta]

Honestly I think it's done and never coming back, I talked to her today and she still is on how I thrashed her

All I said is she has doubts, she gave me back the ring, I'm embarrassed, and lold when my friend said she wished she could slap her

This ish is outrageous and I'm throwing in the towel eff it.

 

[Lord Bison]

Honestly I think it's done and never coming back, I talked to her today and she still is on how I thrashed her

All I said is she has doubts, she gave me back the ring, I'm embarrassed, and lold when my friend said she wished she could slap her

This ish is outrageous and I'm throwing in the towel eff it.

Sounds like she won't reveal the root cause of the issue because she found the excuse she needed to pin everything on you and make it entirely your fault. The fact of her searching through your phone alone makes me believe that she was searching above and beyond for a way out. Women are terrible communicators and even worse when it comes to things like morality.

My question is if the relationship is "over" why are yall still continuing to talk? Even though yall had a great relationship, deep down you know you need to bush the shyt outta her. I'm sure you're aware of what she'll do when you finally go through with it. When she comes back, you'll finally get your explanation on WTF happened, but by then you probably won't care.


Either way. You know what type of mentality you need

Welcome back to #HOH breh

 

[True Blue Moon]

Honestly I think it's done and never coming back, I talked to her today and she still is on how I thrashed her

All I said is she has doubts, she gave me back the ring, I'm embarrassed, and lold when my friend said she wished she could slap her

This ish is outrageous and I'm throwing in the towel eff it.

Whether you were right or wrong for what you did, and regardless of to what degree -- the bottom line is that she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life with you. Even if her beef with you is justified, which it is, a woman who is down for the long haul would be emotional because you hurt her, BUT actively looking for and hoping for reasons to make up and get back to love. A woman who wants to build a world with you will put up with so much more shyt than this, especially if and when you come correct as a man and apologize.

Likewise, any woman can get cold feet during an engagement, but a woman who is down for you will have a nuanced conversation about it and feed off your strength and vision for where you're leading y'all, as opposed to just giving the ring back and calling it off.

So even though she has a point on being upset, this argument is way more about the big picture of her not wanting to get married to you. If you need to audit the relationship and take some information that will help you with your next one, great. But don't think that fixing the incident with you texting your home girl will do anything to help your current situation whatsoever.

Her reasons for everything that happened with the called off engagement and this argument all boil down to something along the lines of "I don't see a future with you", "My family/friends put doubts in my head and it woke me up", "Something is missing with my sexual attraction to you", "I'm scared because this is it and I'm not ready to shut down my world and options", etc. However, women are feeling creatures, so she's going to act out in these ways, as opposed to boiling down whatever the issue is in three sentences or less.

After getting past this friend texting thing, you're going to leave a dish out, forget to dump the trash or not text her goodnight or something stupid, and these "I don't know about us" moments will keep happening. It's going to feel like she's crazy. She's not crazy, this is just how most women emote.

So it's on you to read between the lines and know what you know, so you can put you both out of your misery and end it -- or give her the space to figure out whatever she needs to, while you also go do you. But if you let her keep you stuck on following the symptoms, you're only going to get taken on an emotional roller coaster ride that gets worse and worse.

It's in her nature to end things in a dramatic and emotionally tumultuous way, because that's how she processes her feelings. That's her comfort zone, but you don't have to go for an emotionally abusive ride as she gets you out of her system. If you want to process things with your sanity intact, you gotta set a boundary and find your own peace, instead of following her lead.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

It kinda hurt when you get Rejected based off Physical

 

[TRUEST]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf

its hard to recover from this type of situation you're in. but even if she comes back and yall get back together, you must get ur sh1t together. everything about what ive read so far tells me this girl holds the power in the relationship. i cannot stress this enough. u need to change the dynamics of that asap (if yall get back together).

the best way to recompose yourself and to be a wholesome man again is to spend less time with her. give her a reason to start missing u. be measured in how u respond to her. let her do all the work in pursuing. you;ve already apologized. she needs to find her way back into your life. seduce her again. and stop being all up under her ass.

no, u dont need to be with her everyday. shes not ur wife yet. even if shes the one that wants to be under ur ass, u need to let her know u've got business to take care of and she'll be ur first priority after u've done what u need to do.

in other words, u need a hobby. a hobby ur excited to be alone to work on. something to keep u occupied. men handle business and dont inquire with their wives on what steps to take forward. they'll respect u more if u crush buildings on ur own accord as opposed to having to ask for their input all the time.

she doesnt need to know every problem ur dealing with. part of me feels, once u found out ur girl had over $100,000 saved, u thought, u know, if i casually mention to her about my debts, maybe she'll help me. and she probably offered to help because she felt cornered. she cant say no, and she cant not offer to help because she already told u how much she has. so, there's probably a lil resentment there. if i were u, id pay her back asap. and if she ask where u got the money, just say "dont worry about it babe. i got this". (a panty wetting response btw - manly!)

during the seduction process, seeds of attraction need to be planted firmly and nurtured correctly, just like planting a tree. a tree that is haphazardly put into a hole in the ground, will have defects. it'll probably not grow as tall and big as it could have. or if it grows at all, it may grow in a wobbly direction, instead of vertically. and if it does grow and appears healthy, it'll be very easy for the simplest of winds to uproot it.

to plant a firm attraction in the object of ur affection, you need to woo her properly. she needs to see u as the go to man. u need to establish yourself has a strong figure early on. u can still salvage this, but, a lot of it depends on her pursuing and u knowing precisely how to respond!

 

[MikelArteta]

Thanks brehs, I know I sound like a damn simp that's why I come here for that good advice to slap me

 

[MikelArteta]

Thanks brehs, I know I sound like a damn simp that's why I come here for that good advice to slap me

 

[Lord Bison]

The fact that she went through his phone is violation enough to fall back and I mean all the way back. WTF is she doing going through brehs phone in the first place. ESPECIALLY AFTER SHE BROKE UP WITH YOU FIRST

In my experience when chicks have done this, they're looking for a way out and vilify the man in the process. Especially if you're a dude who stayed faithful.

Imo there's no salvaging this relationship. If she wants out... give her what she's asking for.

 

[jalamanta]

bytches ain't shyt

 

[EffYou]

Working at a call center is one of the easiest and best opportunities to meet women. There's usually always an overabundance of chicks there. It's up to you if you want to take the risk of dealing with chicks you work at. But it is VERY VERY easy to find something that you like up there.

All you have to do is dress well, be about your business and lay back in the cut and you WILL find a woman that is attracted to you. Even my introverted ass got cat called in the call center. If you lift weights and stay in decent shape, you'll have it on easy mode. These chicks will find a way to put themselves in your presence. All you have to do is seal the deal.

Again, you can eat like a Golden Corral buffet at the call center. But do so at your own risk.

HOw is it working at a call center? Pay/flexibility/ overall attitude for the job?

 

[Lord Bison]

HOw is it working at a call center? Pay/flexibility/ overall attitude for the job?

It really depends on what type of work you do. I've worked at call centers where the pay was and others where the money was

If you're going to work at one, your endgame is to get the hell off the phones. Dealing with customer's all day over dumb shyt will have you like

As far as attitude goes, it's corporate america at it's best. So you will have to kiss some ass to move up the chain. It's really what you make of it.

But trust and believe the women there are plentiful. It's a good chance that whatever center you work at, the women will outnumber the men. Even if you're socially awkward af, as long as you dress halfway decent you will eat because it's a 100% guarantee that you will find a woman/women that will find you attractive.

I'd advise anyone that has problems socializing with people to work at a call center. It helped break my awkwardness. I remember this one gig I was at, I used to get domed up in the breakroom by this one wild ass chick at lunch.

If you're not trying to make a career out of it, you can eat good at the call center. The women all of the one's i've worked at have been


If you're trying to seriously get your bread up, look for a call center gig that gives you paid vacation time, and health insurance benefits at the very least. Gotta keep that work/life balance intact

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Working at a call center is one of the easiest and best opportunities to meet women. There's usually always an overabundance of chicks there. It's up to you if you want to take the risk of dealing with chicks you work at. But it is VERY VERY easy to find something that you like up there.

All you have to do is dress well, be about your business and lay back in the cut and you WILL find a woman that is attracted to you. Even my introverted ass got cat called in the call center. If you lift weights and stay in decent shape, you'll have it on easy mode. These chicks will find a way to put themselves in your presence. All you have to do is seal the deal.

Again, you can eat like a Golden Corral buffet at the call center. But do so at your own risk.

lol. I manage a team of 20 folks at a call center. In my group there's only one chick I'd smash, but being a manager means that I won't entertain that shyt in the slightest. my career is more important. On one of the other floors I saw another smashable chick. Every time I go walking around another floor all the nosy ass chicks are like "Who is that?"

Eat up tho breh.