Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Not really. I've been cheated on twice, first time I had no idea they are the one that told me. Guilt ate them up if they never mentioned it would never know.

2nd time if I wasn't pissing razor blades I never would have known.

Sure, some people are very good at infidelity but most people change behaviors, relationships go toxic, etc when they stray IMO.
And it doesn't hurt? You don't think being paranoid is unhealthy and what if your partner is faithful and catches you snooping? You just fukked up a good investment.

 

[Poitier]

Not really. I've been cheated on twice, first time I had no idea they are the one that told me. Guilt ate them up if they never mentioned it would never know.

2nd time if I wasn't pissing razor blades I never would have known.

And I've been cheated on and picked up on the signs within a month.

Basically, we not gone agree because of our personal biases so I'm just toss up the and be on my way

 

[twan83]

Like I said before if u don't give me a reason to check the phone I won't cuz u earned that trust and respect
If u give me reason too I will check ur phone cuz u showed signs of being shady and foolishness that I have to cover my ass to make sure I aint being played for a fool

It's how I found out my ex wife was cheating on me and plan on leaving me for another person cuz she gave signs of come home late too often with no respect of hey I'm at work late or talking to my friends so be home late

Her phone would ring and i would go reach for it to give it to her cuz not around like I normally do and when she walks in be like don't touch my phone

Txt msg 2 or 3 in morning too often

So I find out the day after my son bday she cheating and so we get divorce and she hasn't seen her kids since that day


Going on 8 years no contact from her to talk or see her kids

 

[twan83]

I don't like going thru people shyt and if i can find out without doing which I have even better but if I can't and I know something up I will do what's best for me and my kids
And if I'm wrong I will apologize and explain my actions and reasons y I did it simple as that

There is no wrong or right way imo cuz u can find out without checking and u can't find out with checking if she is just that damn good

Cuz my friend went thru his wife phone didn't find shyt said sorry but what happen was his wife phone buzzed and come to find out she had a extra phone and he found out she cheating from that extra phone he knew nothing bout cuz the 1 day she slip up cuz he apologize and she felt she was In the clear

 

[MikelArteta]

Your ex wife hasn't seen her kids in 8 years?



And it's exactly what I've been saying if you've never had your heart ripped out put on train tracks ran over, being treated like the biggest fool of course your views will be different than someone's else.

Your the only person out there who will protect your heart.

Like I said before if u don't give me a reason to check the phone I won't cuz u earned that trust and respect
If u give me reason too I will check ur phone cuz u showed signs of being shady and foolishness that I have to cover my ass to make sure I aint being played for a fool

It's how I found out my ex wife was cheating on me and plan on leaving me for another person cuz she gave signs of come home late too often with no respect of hey I'm at work late or talking to my friends so be home late

Her phone would ring and i would go reach for it to give it to her cuz not around like I normally do and when she walks in be like don't touch my phone

Txt msg 2 or 3 in morning too often

So I find out the day after my son bday she cheating and so we get divorce and she hasn't seen her kids since that day


Going on 8 years no contact from her to talk or see her kids

 

[twan83]

Your ex wife hasn't seen her kids in 8 years?



And it's exactly what I've been saying if you've never had your heart ripped out put on train tracks ran over, being treated like the biggest fool of course your views will be different than someone's else.

Your the only person out there who will protect your heart.

Ya 8 years
Here's the thing it hurt a lot but it should of been more worse and the hurtest I've experienced but it wasn't
Here's why
1. Our marriage was doomed a year in advance I knew it she knew it I kept lil hope but faced reality also I couldn't get divorce at time I wanted too cuz I was being medical boarded from army and my health was extremely poor and needed a plan to get custody so had to wait it out and it be stupid to do it at that time
2. Love i had faded so didn't hurt as much

My first love hurt me more than this one not even close

My current wife would be devastating for me

My ex wife left cuz I was sick and she didn't want to help take care of me and help raise kids simple as that

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup, and I know what you mean even though I'm going through a broken engagement it's funny if I hadn't gone through what I did in the past. I'd prob be a bigger wreck at the moment but I know I'll get over this and the sun will shine again because what I've been through.

Ya 8 years
Here's the thing it hurt a lot but it should of been more worse and the hurtest I've experienced but it wasn't
Here's why
1. Our marriage was doomed a year in advance I knew it she knew it I kept lil hope but faced reality also I couldn't get divorce at time I wanted too cuz I was being medical boarded from army and my health was extremely poor and needed a plan to get custody so had to wait it out and it be stupid to do it at that time
2. Love i had faded so didn't hurt as much

My first love hurt me more than this one not even close

My current wife would be devastating for me

My ex wife left cuz I was sick and she didn't want to help take care of me and help raise kids simple as that

 

[Mr210]

Great discussions

 

[Prynce]

Brehs how would y'all approach a female over snapchat?

@Poitier @twan83 how should i hit her up

 

[twan83]

Brehs how would y'all approach a female over snapchat?

@Poitier @twan83 how should i hit her up

Ima be honest with u I don't fukk with snapchat like that but I'm familiar with it
And I would use it the same way I would on a dating site or in person
With a message asking how are u doing what's ur name and y I did hit her up whether it be cuz I find her attractive or her eyes or lips
I aint got time to beat around the bush
She will respond with her name and a thanks and everything else just falls in place
It's either gonna be a win or a lost regardless i at least tried and a L is not a big deal on to the next one
If it's a win will see if she worth my time to take things further

 

[Captsmackabeat]

Why is it when you tell a woman how you really feel about the relationship
She wants to screaming they miss the old you







bytch I am doing better because of you

 

[Poitier]

Brehs how would y'all approach a female over snapchat?

@Poitier @twan83 how should i hit her up

I'm not on Snap but I assume its like any other social media where pics/video, attraction and follower counts matter more than what you say in the actual message

 

[MikelArteta]

just saw this simp in the local paper

I’m a divorced father of two, who’s been seeing a woman who has one child, for two and a half years.

Everything was great between us — true love, planning to move in together, our sex life was amazing.

When we returned from a weeklong trip in March, I received a text saying she’s had another boyfriend for three years. The guy’s phone number was included.

I called him and he was in shock that she was two-timing. She’d lied to us both every day for over two years and told both of us the same b.s. — “love you to death,” “move in together,” etc.

We both called her. She freaked out, denied everything, and hung up.

She called me back saying she was sorry and wanted to be with me forever. An hour later, she calls back and ends it with me because she wants to be with him.

She calls me back later again, this time telling me she wants me and that he forced her to end it with me.

Now, five weeks later, she’s back with him. I cut her off. But she also wants me back. What do I do?


I think she has serious mental issues to lie to both of us for so long.

Do I give her a chance, or do you think she’ll hurt me again?


I’m the guy, “Devastated,” who wrote you about my girlfriend cheating on me for two-and-a-half years (May 24).

I got back with her. I still don’t fully trust her, but she shows me her phone and ended it with her other (simultaneous) boyfriend of three years.

Should I see a therapist with her? Am I making a huge mistake?

She seems open and honest, but I’m very nervous that she’ll lie and cheat on me again.

Should I just move on? I have a terrible feeling.




but dont check up on your investments brehs and brehettes

 

[Rich Spirit]

Brehs how would y'all approach a female over snapchat?

@Poitier @twan83 how should i hit her up

Just comment on something they posted and let the conversation flow from there

 

[reserved_one]

No homo in advance but i need some advice brehtren about sex.

So yesterday me and my girl decided to go on air bnb and get us a room in a house instead of hotel which was nice. Everything was going well until after we had sex. Mind you it was our first time doing it together. She said that the sex was good but it wasn't what she expected. So, now im confused like "What do you mean"?

She then said "Dont get me wrong, it was good but I couldnt feel shyt".

"Im just not used to this"

"I Wanted you to pound my shyt"

Im like

It wasnt like I was stroking her like an old ass man lol. I was giving it to her and managed to Stay hard the entire time but I did go on autopilot at times just so I can last longer. We also did foreplay beforehand. I used a condom but I dont like em because sometimes it make my shyt go soft.

Then i heard her whispering to a homegirl on the phone in the bathroom. I didnt hear the Conversation though.

Im like Damn you gotta tell her our Business smh. I got my nut and was satisfied. I did what I had to do

It just makes it seem like theres something wrong with me. Lowkey it got me thinking that she used to fukking bigger guys 8-12in. Im on the average side of the game and im content with that. I cant do nothing about it. Thats what i was born with.

But It sorta put me on notice to see what can I do better. She just chalked it up to trying a different Position Next time.

She ended up giving me head later in the night and no Problems...no problems until I got on my phone and played a Quick game of Spades

She started bytching about that saying that I disrespected her.

What I can't lay down, get head and play Spades on my phone?

Idk brehs...Im really feeling this chick but Damn

She's in a good Mood now, just dropped me off but Im still thinking about last night. I feel a lil insecure now.