Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

I'm on a forum.....so I post, not lurk all day like a bytch and I'm in every section dropping knowledge not just in a relationship thread sounding like the male iyanla fix my life

I'm done doing the back and forth til you are in a successful and healthy relationship not built around you "getting angry" all in your hoemotions like a woman

says the guy arguing on the same side of a woman who thinks gangbanging is ok, and its ok to prevent her future boyfriends/husbands from knowing.

unfortunately for you, all the 62000 messages uve posted over the years have been reduced to these last pitiful messages from u. u basically showed ur ass and highlighted how dense u are. cant formulate a sentence to back up any argument. u just argue just to argue. classic trait of a airhead.

 

[Poitier]

No, I believe if your relationship is toxic or her behavior changes or there are other signs that cause you to question her then by all means go ahead and dig.

I mean sure seems like I was calling for snooping here


And this is the dude some of yall worship

 

[Deafheaven]

dude just wanted to argue. but he chose the wrong thing to argue on. but he's back himself into a corner and is now looking stupid, trying to back track on some "aaaaa i never said u shouldnt spy on ur girl" lol

shyt aint even spying. takes thirty seconds to check up on your girl in a myriad of ways not just grabbing a phone. I've learned my lesson from being complacent and just thinking every thing is fine when its not and me inquiring would have solved a lot of heartache. naw never again.

 

[Deafheaven]

I mean sure seems like I was calling for snooping here


And this is the dude some of yall worship

I don't even worship a god so def don't worship a man. But I'd be lying if following some of breh advice did not assist me greatly in my acquiring and winning back of women.

 

[Poitier]

I don't even worship a god so def don't worship a man. But I'd be lying if following some of breh advice did not assist me greatly in my acquiring and winning back of women.

As I said before, there is no one size fits all. Advice that might work for you might get another nikka in a jam. Not sure why buddy thinks there needs to be a "group think."

 

[Deafheaven]

As I said before, there is no one size fits all. Advice that might work for you might get another nikka in a jam. Not sure why buddy thinks there needs to be a "group think."

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

There are 3 successful ways of collecting information on a girl (getting her hoefax)

1 - You make sure that you have a non-judgemental vibe she'll feel more comfortable letting things slip, remember girls love telling on themselves

2 - You get them drunk now I know that sounds rapey but hear me out I aint saying you get her drunk alone, usually make sure its in a group setting and everybody is drinking. Make sure that you're that guy who starts the 'hey guys lets play truth or dare/never have I ever/(insert another game) ' . I've found out so much through this strategy

3 - Pillow talk after sex do this at your own risk

 

[Mr210]

To be completely honest my relationships with women improved by hundreds of percents after listening to truest abrasive ass posts. It is what it is

nikka blunt but he on point most of the time.

Cosign, I took his advice and my current relationship has been great...when I was still dating I was ignoring his advice and I was paying for it

Truest has the best advice on here....I look back and laugh at my old self

 

[True Blue Moon]

just saw this simp in the local paper

I’m a divorced father of two, who’s been seeing a woman who has one child, for two and a half years.

Everything was great between us — true love, planning to move in together, our sex life was amazing.

When we returned from a weeklong trip in March, I received a text saying she’s had another boyfriend for three years. The guy’s phone number was included.

I called him and he was in shock that she was two-timing. She’d lied to us both every day for over two years and told both of us the same b.s. — “love you to death,” “move in together,” etc.

We both called her. She freaked out, denied everything, and hung up.

She called me back saying she was sorry and wanted to be with me forever. An hour later, she calls back and ends it with me because she wants to be with him.

She calls me back later again, this time telling me she wants me and that he forced her to end it with me.

Now, five weeks later, she’s back with him. I cut her off. But she also wants me back. What do I do?


I think she has serious mental issues to lie to both of us for so long.

Do I give her a chance, or do you think she’ll hurt me again?


I’m the guy, “Devastated,” who wrote you about my girlfriend cheating on me for two-and-a-half years (May 24).

I got back with her. I still don’t fully trust her, but she shows me her phone and ended it with her other (simultaneous) boyfriend of three years.

Should I see a therapist with her? Am I making a huge mistake?

She seems open and honest, but I’m very nervous that she’ll lie and cheat on me again.

Should I just move on? I have a terrible feeling.




but dont check up on your investments brehs and brehettes

Lol watching this argument from the sidelines is getting frustrating because people keep talking in extremes. I think all the brehs are in agreement about checking the phone if it becomes necessary. Some brehs are conservative, on some check the phone regularly, even if the relationship is perfect, others are more moderate or liberal, only checking the phone if clues pop up.

No matter who is "right" or "wrong", we're all riding out our decisions

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

There are 3 successful ways of collecting information on a girl (getting her hoefax)
3 - Pillow talk after sex do this at your own risk

Wouldn't recommend this

 

[Astroslik]

Cosign, I took his advice and my current relationship has been great...when I was still dating I was ignoring his advice and I was paying for it

Truest has the best advice on here....I look back and laugh at my old self

You're the last person who should be offering any measuring stick of who gives good advice.

 

[Mr210]

You're the last person who should be offering any measuring stick of who gives good advice.

I just did...thank you

 

[International Playa]

Wouldn't recommend this

Share ya story breh

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Wouldn't recommend this

I would

 

[NeilCartwright]

Abort...you lost her respect and you are not satisfying her

Breh what? If she's letting the nikka Fck again (which she is) he's straight

On some real shyt if you can get to the point where you can stay 85% hard and last forever, do that.

We all know if you don't bust a nut in like 2 wks your shyt'll he rock hard but you prob won't last long.

Or get drunk off some brown liquor, or worst case scenario just cop one of those rhino 7 joints from the gas station.