Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Blackrogue]

She pushed up on me. Been talking to her for a few weeks and I smashed 3 times.

So I'm starting to wonder lol
Legit bad chick too

In Swahili there's a phrase. Bwana WA ugali, bwana wa nyama, bwana wa mbogo.. Basically husband for starch, husband for meat and husband for vegetables.

At the coast in Kenya you run into those type of girls whose only way out is to get a rich foreigner. She might get meat out of him or money. But she might like you genuinely. I've seen it all the time elsewhere. She might legit like you but know she has to out of her choices do other things and other people are there. Maybe for her to use to survive.

Maybe she'll compromise you for them if the price is right.
It's not something to take seriously long term. You could completely understand her spirit and who she is and be cool with her for ages. Just be cool with being her companion for the while and forego any possessiveness of her cause you can't keep her.

 

[Blackrogue]

Maaaaaaaan yall not fukking lying at all. Run far and fast from them type of women



Tell her she not going...

I know it's hard on hoes but y'all gotta be less possessive. It's a legit come. Up for her and at least she's not being a bum. It's like you afraid of losing grip on her if she far away. Let her go. Figure out the rest as far as how to work things out. She at least gave that courtesy

 

[Blackrogue]

There just as big of hypocrites as men. That Pakistani bytch had the audacity to say "U talk to alot of women, its a turn off" yet continue to blow me up and by the way was fukking an ex and had a roster of nikkas.



shyt was not good for my lack of trust in women

I moved to a small town to do business. For some reason I've met a lot of the more popular dudes among woman. I didn't try TBH and it's an annoyance cause shorties may chose them over me when we together. But between all of them and all the top women choosing you see they all have options among each other and they all legit. So a bruh who had one of many options finds that one person is also liking his friend but he's not surprised cause many like the friend like they like him.. I find their attitude to be... We just sharing this collective of women. She might chose person A one day. Another week chose person B.. But still like A. Should B be upset? I find in this circle person B and A both expand their options and they moment they bored they move on. They both have multiple possibilities.

That's why she was like oh well you have many girls too. That was a greenlight If you weren't already to have other options and possibly even prioritize them over her. She'll think it's all good until that threat appears. Or even when it doesn't and you're like...
Nah I'm good

 

[Mr210]

Maaaaaaaan yall not fukking lying at all. Run far and fast from them type of women



Tell her she not going...

Naw I talked to my cousin he has no issue with her going and even if he did, the documents say that even though they have joint custody she has exclusive rights to determine residence

 

[Mr210]

When/if I do date my social circle (or lack thereof) is gonna bite me in the ass hard.

Real talk it's never hurt me....I have 2 people that I consider friends...neither live in my city...here where I live I have some associates but I only hang out with them every so often....I've never had a chick bring it up but then again I've dated similar chicks that have very small circles too

 

[MaxPain]

I moved to a small town to do business. For some reason I've met a lot of the more popular dudes among woman. I didn't try TBH and it's an annoyance cause shorties may chose them over me when we together. But between all of them and all the top women choosing you see they all have options among each other and they all legit. So a bruh who had one of many options finds that one person is also liking his friend but he's not surprised cause many like the friend like they like him.. I find their attitude to be... We just sharing this collective of women. She might chose person A one day. Another week chose person B.. But still like A. Should B be upset? I find in this circle person B and A both expand their options and they moment they bored they move on. They both have multiple possibilities.

That's why she was like oh well you have many girls too. That was a greenlight If you weren't already to have other options and possibly even prioritize them over her. She'll think it's all good until that threat appears. Or even when it doesn't and you're like...
Nah I'm good

Nah its cuz she was projecting

She wanted me to not have options while she had her own (hypocrite) as a form of control since shes insecure

But at the same time the fact I had options is wat attracted her to me

She didnt even know me and him were friends she still doesnt know. And my friend hasnt smashed STILL all he has is a semi nude (her in a bra and panties)

And shes been blowing up my phone ever since I cut her off blatantly when I tried to meet up the second time & she gave the excuses that I talk to alot of girls and shes afraid to get hurt

I couldve finessed it cuz she was really attracted to me still but I felt like she was making excuses cuz she was emotionally unavailable/trying to play games so I cut her off & she got even more infatuated with me (staring at me on campus, meanmugging other girls im talking to, telling her friends she "hates" me)

So immature. So i said fukk it. Its july now and shes been blowing up my phone since January asking me questions like "why are u being like this/I miss u/ur not gonna ever talk to me again?"

 

[Dreamzeedream]

when it comes to the women I like . for some reason they never like me back. Its been like that for a while now

 

[Shadow King]

Real talk it's never hurt me....I have 2 people that I consider friends...neither live in my city...here where I live I have some associates but I only hang out with them every so often....I've never had a chick bring it up but then again I've dated similar chicks that have very small circles too

So how do you do your homework on a girl's past? That's my concern I don't care if one wonders about my circle

 

[MaxPain]

when it comes to the women I like . for some reason they never like me back. Its been like that for a while now

I used to have that problem. Literally treat them all the same and make the ones u like work for ur affection. Have a baseline of standards and stick to em

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I used to have that problem. Literally treat them all the same and make the ones u like work for ur affection. Have a baseline of standards and stick to em

what's yours

 

[Shadow King]

A nikka ordered like 11 books and 8 of them came today...the knowledge bouts be fed but I don't know where to start

I used to have that problem. Literally treat them all the same and make the ones u like work for ur affection. Have a baseline of standards and stick to em

If he has a knack for liking women that don't reciprocate the feeling I don't see this working. They have no incentive to work.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

A nikka ordered like 11 books and 8 of them came today...the knowledge bouts be fed but I don't know where to start

If he has a knack for liking women that don't reciprocate the feeling I don't see this working. They have no incentive to work.

Nah they reciprocate the feeling, they just wishy washy when it comes to doing it

 

[Mr210]

So how do you do your homework on a girl's past? That's my concern I don't care if one wonders about my circle

I'm confused you said your lack of a social circle would bite you in the aas

 

[MaxPain]

what's yours

If she rejects me once when I approach her walk away
If I ask her to meet up/out on a date if shes not available the first time ill ask another time if she cant make that second time cut her off.
Never double text
Never wait longer than 2 months for p*ssy
Never do something for a girl that ends up hurting or taking away from u
Never buy a bytch anything. No gifts or nothing
Never pay the first date. Always use cheap alternatives
Never pay for anything for any girl whose not ur main girl.
Never call more than once.
Never do anything that u dont want to do . If a girl makes u question it dont do it (example:Guys should I get married? No get married when U WANT to not cuz she suggested it)
Take the lead in everything u do. If ur tired from work but she wants u to come thru tell her to come over instead or just go to sleep
Never argue. Tell a bytch something once or ignore her till she gets it right
Be selfish
Always keep atleast 2-3 in the roster no matter if ur married or have a girlfriend. Ur taking an L being faithful to a fickle creature
The less u talk around ur girl (telling her ur day, better off u are
Never open up.
Never shoulder ur emotional issues on a woman
Never bad talk ur ex or another man
If she brings up another man check her. If shes talking shyt about another woman dont play into it and gossip



I also got a rundown of the types u should never date.

 

[MaxPain]

A nikka ordered like 11 books and 8 of them came today...the knowledge bouts be fed but I don't know where to start

If he has a knack for liking women that don't reciprocate the feeling I don't see this working. They have no incentive to work.

Hes gonna have to start somewhere and build his confidence up going for women that want him


Or boss his life up to where he can access those women he actually does want