Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[pete clemenza]

always act masculine around women. women do not, i repeat, DO NOT like feminine behavior on men. that happy dance may be cute to some girls, but trust, it isnt cute to most. and even the girls that its cute to, may find it funny at first, but if u continue doing it, her attraction to u will decrease. the girl in ur situation cant control her natural instinct. she likes u, but, her instinct is telling her "this is not a real man. he cant protect me. he acts like a child".

i was with one of my exes years ago at her friends house. one of the dudes at the getogether was telling a story about some girl. and as he was telling the story, he attempted to be funny by mimicking how the girl talked. in doing so, he made body movements that was purely feminine. and within milliseconds of him doing that, one of the females in there (i think his aunt) told him "dont ever do that again". that;s not cute! it was like her natural instinct to reprimand him. and as an observer, i saw the whole thing and it was not cute on him at all. little sh1t like that can drop a girls attraction for you, FAST! for this dude, i guess he felt comfortable doing that because he was at his family's gathering.

in ur situation, OP, i honestly cant blame your girl. and u shouldnt. she was brought into ur life to make u a man. i strongly recommend u reconnect with this girl and get ur head straight. do experiments on her (without her knowing). take her out, handle everything. dont ask for her input. just surprise her. u do this for a week or two, and i wouldnt be surprised if she hits u with the "I think im falling in love with you". women love dudes who handle things and all they have to do is get dressed and show up. its called courting. (dont take a mile out of this and end up in a relationship where u allow the girl to do nothing while u carry the burden of the relationship!).

Damn a nicca can't do a happy dance and use lip balm Of course a dude doing female impressions will raise a flag but come on

 

[TRUEST]

Damn a nicca can't do a happy dance and use lip balm Of course a dude doing female impressions will raise a flag but come on

if thats all u took from my post, don't know what to tell ya.

 

[TRUEST]

one of the best ways to weed out women who may not be good for you is to tell them "i want us both to get checked before we do anything". lol. the ones who are promiscuous, who probably aint gotten checked in a while, and who know they probably have something will dip out quick. others will try very hard to convince u they don't have anything because they always use protection lol.

 

[Shadow King]

@Shadow King Are you Kent nikka? Every piece advice anyone gives you, you got an excuse

With your mentality you wont improve with women out here. Change the way you think breh.

You gotta really want it, you clearly dont want it.

I might be
I already told @True Blue Moon I might not be cut out for the "improve with women" life. So maybe I don't want it.

Until I'm happy with myself I won't be happy chasing p*ssy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn a nicca can't do a happy dance and use lip balm Of course a dude doing female impressions will raise a flag but come on

it somewhat goes back to the old if a woman is feeling you she will find that funny and cute, if she aint well

 

[True Blue Moon]

Nah, knowing girls, I highly doubt the few things she pointed out are the actual deal breakers. Somethings are just too fragile or awkward to bring up. Dude is most likely doing many feminine things. This is often the case for men who were raised in a women dominated household.

Yeah, I'm moreso picturing goofy jokes like how Will Smith did in Fresh Prince. But if it's some deeply engrained stuff that's just straight up non-masculine then that's different.

 

[True Blue Moon]

I might be
I already told @True Blue Moon I might not be cut out for the "improve with women" life. So maybe I don't want it.

Until I'm happy with myself I won't be happy chasing p*ssy.

Breh, I feel you, but on some love shyt it's borderline disrespectful to keep coming in the thread telling everyone why you can't do anything.

It's like if we're in a running group, right. The point is to get in shape and become the best version of yourself with support all around you as long as you show up.

Some of us are ripped as fukk and marathon runners. Some of us are former athletes who wanna get back into shape. Some of us don't have an athletic bone in our bodies, but have diabetes in our family so wanna start good habits. Some of us are fat as fukk and always the last one to finish, but get better by a little bit each time.

But the point is we're all here for each other and bonding over the fact that while everyone else is bullshytting and making excuses, we got out of bed at 6 a.m. and kept our word with each other to get just a little bit better today.

It's like you're showing up and complaining to everyone about how your shins are fukked up, your feet hurt and you can't run today because of XYZ reason. So you sit on the park bench every time and wait for us to finish busting our ass.

Trying is a part of life breh. If it's not about women, this will show up in a thousand other areas. You got help all around you but refuse to even lace your sneakers up

Nah, you haven't even bought your sneakers yet, homie. You're on jogging forums telling people why certain brands of sneakers hurt your feet so you'll stick with the ones you got, and then using that same excuse every time you join the group.

You telling me you can't do ONE SINGLE THING to get better breh?

I don't speak for everyone, but again, on some love shyt, it's my opinion that if you're not gonna even try, just lurk and then start posting again once your mind is right and you're ready to at least think about attempting a half of a baby step.

 

[Shadow King]

Breh, I feel you, but on some love shyt it's borderline disrespectful to keep coming in the thread telling everyone why you can't do anything.

It's like if we're in a running group, right. The point is to get in shape and become the best version of yourself with support all around you as long as you show up.

Some of us are ripped as fukk and marathon runners. Some of us are former athletes who wanna get back into shape. Some of us don't have an athletic bone in our bodies, but have diabetes in our family so wanna start good habits. Some of us are fat as fukk and always the last one to finish, but get better by a little bit each time.

But the point is we're all here for each other and bonding over the fact that while everyone else is bullshytting and making excuses, we got out of bed at 6 a.m. and kept our word with each other to get just a little bit better today.

It's like you're showing up and complaining to everyone about how your shins are fukked up, your feet hurt and you can't run today because of XYZ reason. So you sit on the park bench every time and wait for us to finish busting our ass.

Trying is a part of life breh. If it's not about women, this will show up in a thousand other areas. You got help all around you but refuse to even lace your sneakers up

Nah, you haven't even bought your sneakers yet, homie. You're on jogging forums telling people why certain brands of sneakers hurt your feet so you'll stick with the ones you got, and then using that same excuse every time you join the group.

You telling me you can't do ONE SINGLE THING to get better breh?

I don't speak for everyone, but again, on some love shyt, it's my opinion that if you're not gonna even try, just lurk and then start posting again once your mind is right and you're ready to at least think about attempting a half of a baby step.

I can be a better me which I've failed to do this year outside of one aspect.

And the underlined is what I'll do.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

@True Blue Moon @Bboy y'all got any books that could help change mentally?


Trying to change my outlook and Perception

 

[True Blue Moon]

@True Blue Moon @Bboy y'all got any books that could help change mentally?


Trying to change my outlook and Perception

Any specific mental change you looking for breh? Maybe tell me a little bit about your current thought process or what sort of edge you're trying to gain and I'll see what books jump out at me.

 

[Bledswole]

 

[True Blue Moon]

what's good breh

 

[PinotNoir]

one of the best ways to weed out women who may not be good for you is to tell them "i want us both to get checked before we do anything". lol. the ones who are promiscuous, who probably aint gotten checked in a while, and who know they probably have something will dip out quick. others will try very hard to convince u they don't have anything because they always use protection lol.

That's not totally accurate...ask to see her phone>>text messages..this method says alot and you'll know how much she likes you, the guys she's currently seeing if any, unresolved issues with exes etc etc.

 

[Bledswole]

what's good breh

Nothing much.

What's going on yo way?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Vibed with this young lady last name she opened my eyes to things