Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Im not interested in talking about other goals. My focus is to get better looking women that I deserve. I refuse to accept the leftovers that Life gave me when it comes to women. Thes ww


I don't like her. I want the other chicks not her. I could have smashed, but I stopped myself cause I don't want to get in a habit of smashing any chick that chose me. I'm good.


What's wrong with that tho?



AY what u thinking/feeling when you was rubbing on them tittles tho :pachaha:
 
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I don't like her. I want the other chicks not her. I could have smashed, but I stopped myself cause I don't want to get in a habit of smashing any chick that chose me. I'm good.

That's very valid in general, but breh you could have not liked her from the comfort of the crib.

Why go through the trouble of getting dressed, going out with a chick, buying her drinks and tacos, spending alone time for hours and escalating to peak sexual conversation with her throwing it at you if your bottom line is that you don't see her that way?

I feel like a lot of y'all have success barriers that you're not being honest with yourself about.
 

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That's very valid in general, but breh you could have not liked her from the comfort of the crib.

Why go through the trouble of getting dressed, going out with a chick, buying her drinks and tacos, spending alone time for hours and escalating to peak sexual conversation with her throwing it at you if your bottom line is that you don't see her that way?

I feel like a lot of y'all have success barriers that you're not being honest with yourself about.

What u mean by that?
 

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What u mean by that?
We all know about fear of failure, but fear of actually succeeding and getting what you want is very real too.

By and large, we're all addicted to our mental patterns. It's on us to explore them, get out of the ones that don't serve us and create new mental patterns (i.e. working out 5 days a week no matter what, creating a habit of approaching any female you find attractive, etc.)

A dude can scream from the rooftops that everything will be different if he just gets over this one problem and that he wants something so bad, but it's his bad habits and actual fear of getting what he wants that makes him make those crucial mistakes that keep him stuck.

For instance, the dude who wants to be a famous rock star might start showing up late to the studio, trashing hotel rooms and letting his vocals get fukked up right after signing that record deal he's wanted ever since he was a kid.

The reason is that even though we claim we hate being broke, womanless etc., there's most definitely a "comfort" zone there, even if you hate your circumstances. So many people will choose their known shytty circumstances, as opposed to stepping into the fear of having to become a new person and take on the unknown things that come with that.
 

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What do y'all say to your girl when she text you about guys trying to get at her..

e.g. the librarian or janitor tried to holla :mjlol:

Her former fukk buddy hit her up out the blue:patrice:

I aint the jealous type so miss me with that 'you share dat gurl.. pimp slap dat hoe blah.. blah..'
 

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We all know about fear of failure, but fear of actually succeeding and getting what you want is very real too.

By and large, we're all addicted to our mental patterns. It's on us to explore them, get out of the ones that don't serve us and create new mental patterns (i.e. working out 5 days a week no matter what, creating a habit of approaching any female you find attractive, etc.)

A dude can scream from the rooftops that everything will be different if he just gets over this one problem and that he wants something so bad, but it's his bad habits and actual fear of getting what he wants that makes him make those crucial mistakes that keep him stuck.

For instance, the dude who wants to be a famous rock star might start showing up late to the studio, trashing hotel rooms and letting his vocals get fukked up right after signing that record deal he's wanted ever since he was a kid.

The reason is that even though we claim we hate being broke, womanless etc., there's most definitely a "comfort" zone there, even if you hate your circumstances. So many people will choose their known shytty circumstances, as opposed to stepping into the fear of having to become a new person and take on the unknown things that come with that.



I'll admit that me but the hardest part about changing is breaking old habits
 

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I'll admit that me but the hardest part about changing is breaking old habits
That's all of us homie.

That's why stuff like this thread and accountability groups are so crucial. We'll always find ways to stay in our comfort zone if our circle of influence isn't sharpening us up.
 

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Brehs just so Im not crazy...if a chick you fukked previously wants to co,e to your place and do you a favor alone issa high chamce she trying to open herself up to get some D :jbhmm: cuz most women are not exactly altruistic creatures
 

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Brehs just so Im not crazy...if a chick you fukked previously wants to co,e to your place and do you a favor alone issa high chamce she trying to open herself up to get some D :jbhmm: cuz most women are not exactly altruistic creatures
Of course she wants the d1ck
 

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Brehs just so Im not crazy...if a chick you fukked previously wants to co,e to your place and do you a favor alone issa high chamce she trying to open herself up to get some D :jbhmm: cuz most women are not exactly altruistic creatures


:jawalrus: what's the favor
 
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