Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If u feel like u gotta cheat with anyone why be with them in the first place imo
I get paranoid part cuz Mexico city 2 weeks u will never know what happen that's life but at same time if u trust her give her that trust but keep an eye out on sublte changes cuz it shouldn't happen period
I don't get y gone 2 weeks in the first place
U don't have to ignore her while she gone keep it normal breh and u can still do u
Don't let fear make u do something stupid on a assumption without proof for starters or major signs
But if ur saying things to make her feel secure and she blowing it off that's wrong on her part and brings in question what's the deal
Now should u txt her to make her feel secure she should already know this and so should u
That's a good point, I have trust issues myself tho.
I do trust her, but at the same time I'm like ehhh. She seems to be hella obsessed with me when we're together which can be 6 days out the week so I feel like she's into me.

And bc she's Mexican and it's a place she's always wanted to go I suppose. Her girlfriends met up with her, ones married etc.

That's true, I mean I did get a love you text, but I feel like she wanna blow me phone up all the while I get a "I'm single" vibe yet I'm still babe.

That's true, I guess bc we're still kinda young and childish... I don't like the while gone for 2 weeks thing but when I was her age I travelled for months tbh so I understand it.

I just don't want to be waiting and getting played at the same time. Only for someone to come back and try to be bood up with me again
 

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I mean as important as sex is it not everything breh. Why aren't y'all compatible in,bed

I like sex more than she does. I end up hitting other chicks up, but things are getting quite serious. I don't wanna be stuck in a relationship where it seems I'm always begging for sex.

I was her first tho, if that counts for anything
 

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I like sex more than she does. I end up hitting other chicks up, but things are getting quite serious. I don't wanna be stuck in a relationship where it seems I'm always begging for sex.

I was her first tho, if that counts for anything
I mean do you want sex or do you want her?
 

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When you talk to multiple girls at the same time it's hard to truly care....which is both a good and bad thing

One of them leaves :yeshrug:

One of them really likes you :yeshrug:

there's always another one to replace them with :ld:
 

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Talk to you about what? You didn't think it would work, so you made a tough call. If you think you made a hasty decision then tell her you want to work it out.

Nah it's always bad for the man to be begging for sex. Sex is the natural offspring of desire much like food is birth off hunger. U don't have to convince anyone to eat their favorite delicious food, why should you convince or talk to a woman about fuccking u?

She should already have that desire. If she doesn't, then u are not her favorite delicious food.

Save your dignity. Leave the relationship. Reexamine ur behavior and check to see if there's anything ur doing that's repelling to puccy.
 

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Random question, if your lady withholds sex from you because you guys are having issues, is it fair to withhold spending money on her? :jbhmm:
I had a very bad experience about this once. It was my first time dealing with. I made all the wrong decisions. My advice to u, go fucck someone else. The relationship is on its way to being dead. Withholding sex is hella disrespectful.
 

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That's a good point, I have trust issues myself tho.
I do trust her, but at the same time I'm like ehhh. She seems to be hella obsessed with me when we're together which can be 6 days out the week so I feel like she's into me.

And bc she's Mexican and it's a place she's always wanted to go I suppose. Her girlfriends met up with her, ones married etc.

That's true, I mean I did get a love you text, but I feel like she wanna blow me phone up all the while I get a "I'm single" vibe yet I'm still babe.

That's true, I guess bc we're still kinda young and childish... I don't like the while gone for 2 weeks thing but when I was her age I travelled for months tbh so I understand it.

I just don't want to be waiting and getting played at the same time. Only for someone to come back and try to be bood up with me again
Wifey Mexican here just chill and see how things go breh her being clingy better than nothing at all
Just keep things normal if she blow up ur phone so be it most want a female like that
If u hate how clingy or obssessed she is then cut her if not appreciate it
Just look for subtle changes if she has any
It's ok to have doubts bout trust it's not ok to make moves with no proof or any major signs
Get over the hurt part breh that shyt can happen at any given time in a relationship
Random question, if your lady withholds sex from you because you guys are having issues, is it fair to withhold spending money on her? :jbhmm:
First off if it's just a day or 2 maybe 3 (depends on sex drive and issue) no big deal she just needs time to coo off gotta respect that
But if that shyt is a week or weeks sit down talk to her and ask y is this necessary to withhold that long now if u seriously fukked up I mean cheated fukked up u have no leverage or say so gotta suck it up anything other than that she needs to understand how can u take her serious to another level in the relationship if u ain't married of course cuz u mad and that's ur way of punishing me it just shows ur immaturity and u ain't worth my time to be staying together
We need to fix this issue together not withhold sex cuz of it
Now if she is ur wife I be a savage withhold spending money talking to her or sleeping same damn bed as her and whatever else I can do to get the point across it's not ok to do this while also telling that and say till u grow up this is what I'm gonna do and when ur ready to sit down at the adult table so we can talk to fix this issue u left me with no choice but to do this.
shyt my wife would kill me not giving her dikk or just flat out rape me in my sleep
 
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