Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cynic]

I posted an update begs

You shouldn't have picked up. You need to take a hardline with her
for following you like that. It's weird

Further getting upset over it like you cheated is crazy....

I'd tell her straight up. That's a you problem and hang up.

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

My girl still tripping over this IG shyt.

She called me last night and went on a rant about being disrespected and not being appreciated and that I should go be with those IG hoes since I'm on their pages liking their pics .

I was like bytch I didn't anything wrong. It's just liking pictures. She just kept going in circles and it didn't go anywhere.

She said she gonna look for a guy that appreciates her body and not drool over insta-thots. I said cool.

I kinda get why shes upset cause she's insecure about her body. She knows I like big titty meats and the pics I liked were all big titty hoes.

Ok u gotta dilemma brah. She's clearly threatened by these models (or any chick that looks like em) and is jealous of them. Here are your options:

1. Dumb her because she's insecure to the point where you can't even look @ phat booties and titties no more? If u like big t*ts then why u with a chick wtih no titties? Are there other qualities about her? You just using her for pu$$y? If u just using her for the pu$$Y dump her and get another chick who is less insecure
2. Tell her that you're not gonna stop. Tell her that just cuz u like lookin at these chicks doesn't mean that you don't appreciate her. Remind her of those "other qualities" in point 1 above. Tell her she needs to try to focus on becoming more secure within herself so she won't be threatened by some random IG hoes you'll never even meet
3. Lie, tell her you'll stop, then say sorry, then keep on doing whatever you wanna do like a real nikka would
4. Keep her on the team but bench her motherfukkin ass cuz her game is wack right now and she ain't playin right. look for another star player brah

 

[Turbulent]

Should I dead this or still try and f*ck..??



This female at work.. I've been working on it for about a month...


I took her out on a first date maybe 3 weeks ago & it went really good (didn't crack or anything but it was cool)



So this is where shyt got goofy....



We had a date setup for last Friday after work (she lives 40 mins away so she was just gonna bring a second pair of clothes) we were just gonna kick it n do whatever ..



She tells me she forgot her change of clothes & would rather do it Saturday ....


Now I had a first time tinder date setup but figured date two with this chick would be better so I cancelled on my Saturday and made the co worker date for that date...



So Saturday rolls around and I text her

• Me-what time you free tonight
• Her- Later
• Me- okay later when
• Her- after 9

• couple text about what we might do

Then I text her around 7pm

• Me- are you free at 9 or after 9..?

I didn't get a whole reply until Sunday at 9:30pm



Now tell me if I handled it right or wrong



HER- Hey


Me- yeah


Her- nvm have a good night


Me- right you were the one on bs the other night but you got the attitude


Her- okay


Me- okay, lose my f*ckin number then


Her- okay


Me

I think you messed up by cancelling the date with the tinder one. Also you should have set a specific time for Saturday. She already showing she's flakey at that point. If she couldn't give you a specific time you should have told her "we should do it another time when your schedule is clear. Send a text another time when you want to do something" and leave it at that.

When she texted you the next day i would have teased her a little bit about it and tell her to holla when she wants to hang out or just leave it at that either way she's a flake so her being on some bs is a blessing cause she disqualified herself. Nothing lost.

 

[Shadow King]

Book is nothing but straight facts ...

Men are weak and women know it ...

All these mind games and sh!t tests are meant to fustrate and disorient n!ggaz

I don't feel like I'm getting any gems from the book though the fact that it's written in 1970 doesn't help either
No More Mr. Nice Guy and, so far, The Rational Male >>>

 

[fdsfa]

 

[African Peasant]

What's the best way to break up with a girl ?

I will se the girl this week-end and I need to end it, but I don't really know how to do it. And I don't want to hurt, more than necessary.

We've been together for a few months and she really try to keep me but I must move, so it's a little bit delicate.

What's the best way for a breh to deal with this ?

 

[Spades Of Aces]

What's the best way to break up with a girl ?

I will se the girl this week-end and I need to end it, but I don't really know how to do it. And I don't want to hurt, more than necessary.

We've been together for a few months and she really try to keep me but I must move, so it's a little bit delicate.

What's the best way for a breh to deal with this ?

The truth will set you free. Regardless of how you say it, she will be hurt as she invested a lot of time and emotions into you. So just break it to her plain. She'll respect you for it.

 

[African Peasant]

The truth will set you free. Regardless of how you say it, she will be hurt as she invested a lot of time and emotions into you. So just break it to her plain. She'll respect you for it.

You're right.

 

[TRUEST]

The truth will set you free. Regardless of how you say it, she will be hurt as she invested a lot of time and emotions into you. So just break it to her plain. She'll respect you for it.

no she wont. to @African Peasant - think of all the times u were dumped by chicks u really liked. remember how it hurt. dont be that brutal to this girl. just break up with her, tell her its never going to work, but if she needs time detach herself from u, consider an alternative.

there's nothing humane about going completely cold turkey on a chick that didnt do u wrong. many will disagree about this, but, do what u feel ur conscience will let u get away with. if ur the type thats ok dumping and moving on, do that. but be prepared for that to come full circle on u, with another girl u really like.

i have broken up with chicks in the past, but kept in contact and sorta gave them tips on what to do to improve themselves so they can be a better catch for the next man. lil by lil, over time, they were able to move on, and we remained friends.

 

[African Peasant]

no she wont. to @African Peasant - think of all the times u were dumped by chicks u really liked. remember how it hurt. dont be that brutal to this girl. just break up with her, tell her its never going to work, but if she needs time detach herself from u, consider an alternative.

there's nothing humane about going completely cold turkey on a chick that didnt do u wrong. many will disagree about this, but, do what u feel ur conscience will let u get away with. if ur the type thats ok dumping and moving on, do that. but be prepared for that to come full circle on u, with another girl u really like.

i have broken up with chicks in the past, but kept in contact and sorta gave them tips on what to do to improve themselves so they can be a better catch for the next man. lil by lil, over time, they were able to move on, and we remained friends.

Really, I want to do what is best for her. If she needs me to stay around and to keep contact, I got no problem with. She was good to me, so I don't intend to hurt her.

 

[Ohene]

that gut feeling you have when a girl who was really feeling you seems to be drifting cause you talked yourself out the puss.the worst


less is more brehs, remember that

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

This one girl curved me, I've gotten over it at this point but I kinda find this a bit weird, like, I post a lot of art, she never really likes that, but whenever I post a pic of myself (like I get a hair cut or some shyt) she'll like it, I posted some pics of some girls I've hung with, and she liked both those pics
I don't think it means anything but at the same time, it's a bit weird.

Women are strange. She still wants to be in your life but she curved you. I'd avoid all unnecessary contact with her.

 

[Spades Of Aces]

no she wont. to @African Peasant - think of all the times u were dumped by chicks u really liked. remember how it hurt. dont be that brutal to this girl. just break up with her, tell her its never going to work, but if she needs time detach herself from u, consider an alternative.

there's nothing humane about going completely cold turkey on a chick that didnt do u wrong. many will disagree about this, but, do what u feel ur conscience will let u get away with. if ur the type thats ok dumping and moving on, do that. but be prepared for that to come full circle on u, with another girl u really like.

i have broken up with chicks in the past, but kept in contact and sorta gave them tips on what to do to improve themselves so they can be a better catch for the next man. lil by lil, over time, they were able to move on, and we remained friends.

In my opinion, he has to be straight up with her. That way, she's able to improve for her next relationship. Does breaking up with a person you care about sucks? Of course it does. It's supposed to hurt. Hiding the truth from her isn't going to make things better in my opinion. People respect honesty. As long as he keeps it 100 with her, then it can be real closure and they're both able to press on.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Feels like everyone else is in the game whilst Im watching from the sidelines.

shyt don't even get me down anymore but I feel more numb than anything.

Think I'm just gonna put myself into school and saving money 100% and sit this years draft out again.

 

[Uitomy]

Women are strange. She still wants to be in your life but she curved you. I'd avoid all unnecessary contact with her.

They really are, I do have to get better at the no contact thing, sometimes I can go a few days, others a week or two, if I can just manage a month I think I'll be straight, idk why they don't wanna be honest with their feelings yet want to feel them so much