Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[John Reena]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

Leave that attention seeking, time wasting bird alone.

 

[Goon for hire]

Leave that attention seeking, time wasting bird alone.

I am

We must have different definitions of bushes. I don’t notify these chicks that they’ve been tossed. Let her figure it out on her own. Damn homie you fumbling like crazy. You were at a crossroads where you could’ve come out on top but you let your desire for her turn you into a clown. When you get the chance, REALLY read through the thread. It’s a lot I know but it’ll help a great deal. You sound like you don’t really believe in yourself and if that’s the case you’ll keep racking up these L’s.

Thanks for the advice man, im gonna read through the thread and use some of the tips in here

 

[Rich Spirit]

When y'all make plans with a chick do y'all hit her up in between? Say I made plans to chill in 3 weeks do you talk between that time or wait until she hits u?

3 weeks??

is this a long distance situation?

 

[John Reena]

Brehs......ya got to realize.....ALOT of chicks flirty n act like they feeling u for ATTENTION. Females THRIVE off that. That's why u gotta be ready 24-7 to send a chick to da bushes!!!!

 

[International Playa]

Brehs......ya got to realize.....ALOT of chicks flirty n act like they feeling u for ATTENTION. Females THRIVE off that. That's why u gotta be ready 24-7 to send a chick to da bushes!!!!

Very true, its important to be talking to as many women as possible, it makes it easier to bush women who are not acting right.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

just talking to her isn't a invitation to spend time together. Its being socially not awkward lol. If the shyt is burning you up to no end, just hold that shyt but appear indifferent in person. If you really want this girl or for her to act right if ya'll end up together again it has to be completely her idea and you have to maintain that level of indifference. Personally I don't hold grudges and unless you harm my livelihood I'm always open to see what you talking about. so if ya'll meant to be toether in a HEALTHY relationship you need to...do nothing . talk to her when you see her, get up on some new ass, never contact her outside of seeing her at school. If she really feeling a certain way about you she'll let you know whether tomorrow or three months from now. Then its up to you to decide where to go from there but at least you in the drivers seat. IMO its not a bad idea to hook up or get with exes, as long as they haven't physically harmed you or done some heinous shyt with your funds. Emotions will be hurt but thats life when dealing with people. BUT YOU MUST WALK AWAY AND NOT LOOK BACK. I've gotten back wtih exes over hitting them up at the right time and shyt and it never worked because it aint even her idea. you need to have more power in the relationship, especially with a woman who already knows how you tick.

Thank you. In the Tao de ching it says the woman submits through stillness as well. Okay, definitely get up on some new ass. I got 1 chick who has a bf of 3 years that wants to smoke with me. We're in the same class and are friends but I told her I could train (like personal trainer) her if she wants for like 10 bucks an hour or for free. But you're right. As of now I need to do nothing but handle my BI so I can transcend into who I'm meant to be. Stack my doe up so I can do martial arts etc.

Why does it have to be the woman's idea?

 

[TRFG]

3 weeks??

is this a long distance situation?

I was kinda of salty because of the last conversation we had and she about an 1 and half away

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

She using you for rides

 

[TRFG]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

you giving someone rides you not fukking

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Ran into my ex today. At first we just ignored each other but later on I got annoyed with putting up a "you don't exist" front. So I walked over and said hi. She tried to put up a front initially in front of her home girl but then loosened up and started smiling with me and laughing.

Then I peaced out. Was talking with a home girl in the hallway and here her and her friend come, but I just ignored her and kept talking to my friend.

I still miss her, glad we could at least be cordial, but iont want to chase her. I'm glad I could just break down this anger wall.

But I'm thinking I shouldn't hit her up. I should let her come to me instead and stay down. Esp since last time we spoke she cussed me out

Breh in highschool? Lol nikka go do hw and leave these females alone

 

[kaldurahm]

Thanks breh, I bushed her and all she replied with was "okay,whatever"

Sucks because she is the baddest chick that has ever gave me the time of day, I'm a quiet guy so these chances with girls like this don't arise for me much, as they usually fukk with the outgoing and popular nikkas.

Lesson learned I guess.

damn bro, you sound more innocent than me. All good, we all gotta learn

 

[Goon for hire]

you giving someone rides you not fukking

she not getting anymore rides out of me.

damn bro, you sound more innocent than me. All good, we all gotta learn

Yeah man, I'm young. Just gotta take the L and keep it moving, gonna chalk it up to the game and as a learning experience

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Breh in highschool? Lol nikka go do hw and leave these females alone

university

 

[MikelArteta]

Ish is weird as hell breh, again today my ex comes up to me at work and tells me do you know what day it is tomorrow and i said tuesday

and shes like its the 17th (we met on the 17th and both of our birthdays are on the 17th and i asked her to marry me on the 17th) I said oh that means my birthday is 9 months away.

She said aren't we going to celebrate , i said were not together .


I haven't said nothing but it likes she knows im going out on dates or something, for months i aint heard a peep, no talking no nothing, i went out on a date on friday and suddenly, its like im the one who ended the engagement or some ish

 

[MollyGalaga]

maaannnnn just my luck huh?

Out of the blue this chick comes and talks to me while im getting mail.
based on the convo it's obvious she's feeling me

I was chilling later today but then I started thinking, "breh she got a nice EVERYTHING (booty is on Cherokee, you can see that shyt from the front )
she hang around my cousin sometimes so she's good people, and I can tell she's not bullshytting this school shyt.
Plus I'm certain she's lowkey, so fukk it, Shoot"


my cousin tell me that she taken

Bullshyt

Spoiler: dadas

The in me is saying nah fam dont intrude on a home

but the in me is like

fukk it breh

Homes gotta come down sometimes
The plumbing gotta be taken care of tho
if she dont give it to u then u straight