Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

There’s a lot of Nigerian women over there right?

Do they stick their nose down at you because your Jamaican?

I know of that happening especially back in the day when there were huge tensions between Africans and Caribbeans, but to tell you the truth I don't mess with Nigerian women like that anyway so any of them looking down on me doesn't mean shyt regardless. There's too many dynamics with Nigerians especially I refuse to deal with, but that's another topic entirely.

I prefer my women to be of Caribbean descent.

The last 3-4 women I been on dates with have been Nigerian, you are right there is too many dynamics to deal with. When I deal with Nigerian women I prefer them to be a bit Westernized.

I actually got a date with a Westernized Nigerian girl on Sunday, she cant speak her language & cant cook her traditional food but seems cool so far but we shall see.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I know of that happening especially back in the day when there were huge tensions between Africans and Caribbeans, but to tell you the truth I don't mess with Nigerian women like that anyway so any of them looking down on me doesn't mean shyt regardless. There's too many dynamics with Nigerians especially I refuse to deal with, but that's another topic entirely.

I prefer my women to be of Caribbean descent.

In the UK I would never date a Nigerian woman, as yeah there was tons of left over antagonism between them and us Caribbeans. More a holdover of my parents gen.

I did date plenty of Ghanaian and Gambian chicks though. Gambian chicks were chill for some reason I met a ton of them who went to art college. And we vibed.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

That one that tripped about my insta posts

I was able to reel her back in...we hung out today...i smashed 4 times...Raw(she took the birth contol pill when she first got here)

I might be out the game brehs...she had the biggest butt(in my 28 years) n shes cute

Good luck brehs...ill be back to read stories

You ain't out the game until your dikk stop working

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

Stay in the house, reminisce on the good times
Scroll thru her Instagram
and call her and tell her how much you miss her.


Let me know how it goes breh

worst mistake of my life. Seriously. Feel like a king now that I shook that shyt

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

wrong thread. delete

 

[finallyjames]

Yeah I'm in Vancouver. Sometimes I do set them up fairly near. I have a good choice of places to meet up with the right ambience.

I always drop into conversation when we first start talking about what area she lives in. With the chick I met on Friday she lived near me but I wanted to select the right kind of place to sat to set the mood from the off. And also allow me to walk her home afterwards.

Ah, that's why you're always talking to Asian girls. I hear it's rough out there finding black people in Vancouver. Most of my family out there are in interracial relationships.

 

[Balla]

So do black men get love like that from other women there?

Ah, that's why you're always talking to Asian girls. I hear it's rough out there finding black people in Vancouver. Most of my family out there are in interracial relationships.

 

[VertigoKnight]

So do black men get love like that from other women there?

If you look decent with the right energy, yep. Like I said I was taken aback at the women that were approaching me or getting me on the apps

Persian/Iranian and Indian and Pakistani women are always on me. I'm actually chatting to a Persian chick at this moment. In the UK they'd have to be very hush hush if they liked dating black guys.

I've said it before there just seems to be less hangups about dating who you want here.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Lol this Persian chick I've been talking to since Monday. Sent me this earlier when I asked if she's flexible

She told me she can bounce the fukk out of it.

 

[DaRealness]

The last 3-4 women I been on dates with have been Nigerian, you are right there is too many dynamics to deal with. When I deal with Nigerian women I prefer them to be a bit Westernized.

I actually got a date with a Westernized Nigerian girl on Sunday, she cant speak her language & cant cook her traditional food but seems cool so far but we shall see.

In the UK I would never date a Nigerian woman, as yeah there was tons of left over antagonism between them and us Caribbeans. More a holdover of my parents gen.

I did date plenty of Ghanaian and Gambian chicks though. Gambian chicks were chill for some reason I met a ton of them who went to art college. And we vibed.

Yeah, I couldn't be with a Nigerian woman long term and being honest I haven't had too many good experiences with Nigerians generally anyway. Marrying into a Nigerian family, forget it. That's way out the question.

I'm too old to wanna deal with all those dynamics and the bullshyt at this stage in my life.

I've dated a few Ethiopian women before though (one of them in particular ).

If you look decent with the right energy, yep. Like I said I was taken aback at the women that were approaching me or getting me on the apps

Persian/Iranian and Indian and Pakistani women are always on me. I'm actually chatting to a Persian chick at this moment. In the UK they'd have to be very hush hush if they liked dating black guys.

I've said it before there just seems to be less hangups about dating who you want here.

You're a 1000% spot on where you mention that wouldn't happen in the UK. I don't fukk with them personally so it doesn't matter to me, but it's almost surreal when you say they would be on you like that and wouldn't mind walking with you in public lol. I'm trying to imagine an Indian woman all hugged up on a black man in the heart of Southall or Birmingham somewhere with no fukks given. I can't even picture that scenario. Yeah Asians talk like us and blast our music, but as for their women fukking with brothas, you know that's always They're not trying to be the victim of an 'honour killing' out here. I've known black men who have said that they've simply called out to an Asian woman they just know in public and the woman ignored them cos other Asian folks were around.

The chinese women who date black men in the UK don't seem to have any hangups from what I can see.

Vancouver sounds like a totally different world which is a good thing I suppose (sounds like they have no qualms openly stating they wanna fukk which I like. )

You don't wanna be dealing with a woman of any race or nationality who feels the need to "hide" you like you're something to be ashamed of anyway.

 

[Abraxus]

Vancouver has mild winters pretty much comparable to London. There are places in Canada where it can get down to -40 but that's further across the country.

What’s a good place to pick up women in Canada? I’ve chilled in London and been a lot of places but never Canada. Hell I was pulling em in Malaysia, women were fine too! I need to get some Canada action

 

[Abraxus]

Brehs, any advice on getting your Glow back when a girl you were feeling dumps you out of the blue?

Feel like i've lost that drive for a min. Ya know when you have that appeal that other girls can sense and the vibe you give off... It's like it ain't there no more


Back then it seemed so easy, like i'd notice a plethora of girls open to me moving in but now it's like i can't find none or ones that are responsive.

Yea, shyt like that happens sometimes. Slap yourself with your own pimp hand. You think you Don Juan and Casanova but she hit you below the belt like you Flava Flavvv! Man (no homo) if you at least a 7, you can get her back ina number of ways. First off, don’t show no fukking emotion to the c*nt that dumped you! It’s like I treat em as if they warped into another universe, that didn’t include them. I erase their numbers and when they text or call I be like excuse me but, who dis? It’s a psychological mind fukk and it’s on from there! If she got friends that halfway liked me I’ll invite the friend out and try to fukk on the sly but just over do the gentleman thing. If she frequents a club, bar or lounge (what hoe doesn’t) then I’d be there one time with a hot ass chic or maybe even get someone to play the part for me, yknow tell a fine girl yea this girl broke my heart and I just want some payback! Man women are emotional creatures, you’d be surprised at some of the shyt they’ll do if you say you been ‘hurt’ and whatever you do you gotta snap some pics of you having mad fun with other girls, the finer they are the more you’ll fukk with her. Put them shyts on Facebook, Instagram or send to her friends who in turn will send to her. She’ll start second guessing her decision and may even hit you off with a parting fukk or a complimentary blowjob. Me personally I’d relish another chance to wipe my dikk across her face ( if you did) if not man just chalk it up to the game and keep it moving. Best believe she looking for the next guy to take his turn on her twat.

 

[Abraxus]

Texting is dead in 2018, video calling is the best breh. Make use of the technology available. Video calling is more effective, it feels like it's a date already

Here is a chick I been video calling from the jump, she already feeling me & wants to suck my dikk on the first date, but she said she will make me wait to get the pusssy

Spoiler

I can’t and won’t ever give em that much attention or power over me man. Girl asked me to download Duo? Or some other bullshyt like that and I’m like for? She said so I can see you and talk to you. Nope. bytch, not me! I’ll hit you with these here texts, a pic every now and then and keep laying that slab in your twat like I been doing. Half the time I ain’t got shyt to say much anyway besides is we fukking? Or what? Nah? Dueces! Call me when you wanna fukk!

 

[MikelArteta]

Ah, that's why you're always talking to Asian girls. I hear it's rough out there finding black people in Vancouver. Most of my family out there are in interracial relationships.

You can fit every black person in Vancouver in their hockey arena

 

[VertigoKnight]

You can fit every black person in Vancouver in their hockey arena

That's a good point.