Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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These women be playing some lame ass games with some lames


Im not finna call her out on it i dont care

I always walk into shyt tho like man why:dwillhuh:
 
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How do i just be a fwb brehs?

Im used to dating a chick to try n build something but I can’t do that shyt rn
 

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One general reflection I've found to be true is the higher above herself a female perceives you to be, the better she will treat you... and it's all a perception game. Gold and diamonds are just essentially rocks/minerals pulled out of the earth and for most people have very little to no actual day to day utility and yet people will pay exorbitant sums to put manufactured versions of these items on their body. Why are these held in such high esteem then? Perception and marketing.

How a woman will perceive you will largely come from the way you control her perception of you and there are several factors that lower or raise it in her eyes.
 

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So i had an interesting thought that i forgot to share. the definiton of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result, so i decided to do the opposite of everything ive been doing. And its working!

i usually keep my hair cut and my face clean shaven, but now im letting both grow out
i used to not work out and eat terribly, but now im working out and eating right. lost 10 pounds as of this morning.
I used to chase one chick in particular and always text her first or pressure her to hang out. Now i dont text her at all
i used to wear whatever to work, now i take extra time to look my best
I never wore cologne, just deordant. but now i wear Versace and yves saint laurent. Got hella chicks telling me i smell great

The results is that i am looking and feeling better, and women are starting to notice. Chicks at work are starting to notice me and speak more. Had one girl literally tell me "we should text' yesterday and give me her number (dont worry, i wont smash. But i have smashed 4 chicks at work so far:lupe::lupe::lupe:)

So if you dont like whats happening in your life with women, or just period, literally do the exact opposite of what you usually do.
 

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So i had an interesting thought that i forgot to share. the definiton of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result, so i decided to do the opposite of everything ive been doing. And its working!

i usually keep my hair cut and my face clean shaven, but now im letting both grow out
i used to not work out and eat terribly, but now im working out and eating right. lost 10 pounds as of this morning.
I used to chase one chick in particular and always text her first or pressure her to hang out. Now i dont text her at all
i used to wear whatever to work, now i take extra time to look my best
I never wore cologne, just deordant. but now i wear Versace and yves saint laurent. Got hella chicks telling me i smell great

The results is that i am looking and feeling better, and women are starting to notice. Chicks at work are starting to notice me and speak more. Had one girl literally tell me "we should text' yesterday and give me her number (dont worry, i wont smash. But i have smashed 4 chicks at work so far:lupe::lupe::lupe:)

So if you dont like whats happening in your life with women, or just period, literally do the exact opposite of what you usually do.


Dude!

That George Costanza “Do the opposite” is truth!
 

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Got dates with two different women set up for the next two weeks. I been talking to them on FaceTime these past few days, they ready to delete all the dating apps before they even meet me. Facetime/Video calling is a blessin in this game:steviej:

Valentine's day is around the corner, no woman wants to be single, so a lot of women are really open to be approached.


@kevm3 what do you think of Alpha Male Strategies (AMS)
 

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Got dates with two different women set up for the next two weeks. I been talking to them on FaceTime these past few days, they ready to delete all the dating apps before they even meet me. Facetime/Video calling is a blessin in this game:steviej:

Valentine's day is around the corner, no woman wants to be single, so a lot of women are really open to be approached.


@kevm3 what do you think of Alpha Male Strategies (AMS)

I think he has some interesting stuff. Don't agree with everything he says, but then again that's to be expected.

The ultimate premise of focusing on building your life instead of chasing women is something I agree with. When you look better, smell better, and talk better, you will get way more interest from women. When you have your life together, you will be way more confident in dealing with women. NEVER chase them. Give them an opportunity and if they don't take it, move on. You always hear this notion of 'being a prize'. Prizes don't give themselves away. They have to be won. Now the key is to be valuable enough that a woman wants to 'win' you.

I've found that the higher value a woman finds you, you will get MUCH better treatment from her and have ease in dealing with her. If a woman shows that she views you with little or no value, move on, and in the meantime just improve yourself so that it will be easier to deal with women in general.
 

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Another thing I've found is women don't particularly care for principles and how great of a guy you are. They care first and foremost about FEELINGS and being entertained. They only look for that provider guy when they are getting old, their bills are piling up and they can no longer get that super charismatic guy that all the other ladies want...

So in other words, if you are trying to catch a woman by showing how sweet and nice of a guy you are and how you take care of your women and other such things, you are setting yourself up to be used and abused. Charisma and social skills are the number 1 factor in dealing with women, even above looking handsome or having on some nice cologne.
 

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Another thing I've found is women don't particularly care for principles and how great of a guy you are. They care first and foremost about FEELINGS and being entertained. They only look for that provider guy when they are getting old, their bills are piling up and they can no longer get that super charismatic guy that all the other ladies want...

So in other words, if you are trying to catch a woman by showing how sweet and nice of a guy you are and how you take care of your women and other such things, you are setting yourself up to be used and abused. Charisma and social skills are the number 1 factor in dealing with women, even above looking handsome or having on some nice cologne.


the bolded is gospel and describes what i was doing to a T. Or used to do rather. Now i do the opposite
 

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The best thing I've realized is that most woman has a expiry date may be one date, a week, a month, years , decades but she has an expiration date in your life and having a sixth sense to pick up when she's about to expire . Adopting this mantra has made everything easy . Just like if I go in my fridge and I pick up the milk carton and it's expired yeah it sucks but when I'm ready I'll just get another carton and carry on


Recently was talking to this Nigerian chick met up hanged and all that. I remember I hit her up on a Friday and then two days later she messaged me back she saw my msg but was to busy to reply

I said cool no worries and promptly deleted her number from my phone And haven't heard from her since
 

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I think it's safe to say that in 2019 the myth of having to be a "nice guy" (you don't know how much I hate that term) is more or less shattered at this point. If any man hasn't got THAT memo by now then he's either been living under a rock or he doesn't want to be saved. The whole thing was a scam, a con. What we were taught growing up were naive philosophies at best with no basis in reality.

Even against all the current severe opposition to natural, god made masculinity most men are slapping their foreheads realising they've been fooled this whole time.

As a man you have to stand on your square and not get shifted because women will constantly shyt test you and try and coerce and shame you into things you know damn well you don't want to do i.e. lending money, giving them lifts, dating single mothers or overweight broads etc.

There's a current thread on here right now with some dude complaining he told his woman some secret that she blurted out. Whether you believe the bible is literal or figurative, I always remember that story where Samson simped and blabbed off to Delilah on some pillow talk bullshyt and ended up getting his hair cut and losing his strength. You see that with dudes all the time, running their mouth to women, trusting them with shyt they have no business knowing and showing all their cards. Now I treat women like mushrooms - feed them shyt and keep them in the dark. You don't need to know why I'm not with my ex, or how many women I'm dating or what I'm looking for in a woman. None of your business. I date, keep my options open and that's all you need to know. Women ask too many damn questions.

This applies to all areas of life because when you show you're easily coerced you'll just get ate up in this world.
 
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