Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

Noted. I messaged him to just check on him because he has told me personal things about his life/stress, but if I get no response, .

yeah, context key. Lotta brehs are out here depressed as hell and can come off as distant, and sometimes engaging with women can be energy draining when they are already low on energy.

 

[brandy]

yeah, context key. Lotta brehs are out here depressed as hell and can come off as distant, and sometimes engaging with women can be energy draining when they are already low on energy.

I feel like shyt. He said something happened.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I feel like shyt. He said something happened.

its best to check in on people to make sure they are ok more so than for your self gain, thats why I mentioned saying "you good" to preface/show that you are concerned about their well being being that they left you hanging more so than you only are hitting them up because you want to be around them.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Don't let the thumbnail throw you off. Just listen

He's technically right.

You don't gotta be good looking to get the below average white women he gets.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

He's technically right.

You don't gotta be good looking to get the below average white women he gets.

Right message, wrong messenger.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you’re not committed no one owes you anything. Just like a job interview no obligation to get back to you if they don’t like you.

I’ve been on dates that went for hours even some went back to their spot and all that yet still never heard from them. It’s life

 

[VertigoKnight]

If you’re not committed no one owes you anything. Just like a job interview no obligation to get back to you if they don’t like you.

I’ve been on dates that went for hours even some went back to their spot and all that yet still never heard from them. It’s life

Yeah, I'm at the point that sometimes you'll just have a pleasant time with someone and that's it. And like you said nobody owes anyone anything.

It's also why I don't ever message a woman after a date. If she likes you she'll be in touch.

If she doesn't then, nothing I can do. Certainly won't be blowing up her phone.

 

[MikelArteta]

Even the best goal scorers in soccer/football go through scoring droughts and as well times where everything is clicking. It all evens out so don't be all when you're in a drought. Sometimes I have nothing, zero women I'm talking to, zero dates, zero matches , fumbling everything on some

Other times I'm talking to a bunch of different women, casual dating, bunch of dates a week just falling into ish

Just like the egyptians in the bible 7 years of feast before 7 years of famine just gotta know it will turn around again brehs

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

But I like him more than the others because we had good chemistry from my perspective.

What do you think made you feel this way? Is there something he did differently than the others?

 

[brandy]

What do you think made you feel this way? Is there something he did differently than the others?

Yes, he stands out from the rest. I don't know how to explain it, but he gives butterflies. I can see he has a pure soul/misunderstood. We will see though

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I feel like shyt. He said something happened.

There is a 99.5 % chance he is lying. I give people the benefit of the doubt in most areas of life except dating. I sincerely believe that if people want to be with you, they will make their best efforts to do so.

If you are really interested in him, follow up to make sure it is not one of the very rare cases where someone actually has something going on that legitimately keeps them from contacting you.

But just so you don't end up overly disappointed, more than likely he is lying and just not as interested as you are.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes, he stands out from the rest. I don't know how to explain it, but he gives butterflies. I can see he has a pure soul/misunderstood. We will see though

so there are guys who are showing more interest, not flaky etc. but you don't feel that "spark"?

 

[MikelArteta]

There is a 99.5 % chance he is lying. I give people the benefit of the doubt in most areas of life except dating. I sincerely believe that if people want to be with you, they will make their best efforts to do so.

If you are really interested in him, follow up to make sure it is not one of the very rare cases where someone actually has something going on that legitimately keeps them from contacting you.

But just so you don't end up overly disappointed, more than likely he is lying and just not as interested as you are.

It's true all of it. As men we all know if you really like a chick, then you will show interest and do your best to keep in contact and meet up etc.

Chicks you don't really care about meh

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yes, he stands out from the rest. I don't know how to explain it, but he gives butterflies. I can see he has a pure soul/misunderstood. We will see though

lol pure soul?

sound like you're about to get got.

 

[brandy]

so there are guys who are showing more interest, not flaky etc. but you don't feel that "spark"?

It's hard to explain it. I did the same mess with my ex. I liked another a guy more than him, but the other guy's flakiness pushed me towards my ex who showed me more interest. I ended up loving him until he moved and the LDR brought us to the end.

lol pure soul?

sound like you're about to get got.

I know, but the weight loss from the heartbreak keeps me looking well.