Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
Couple weeks ago I started messing with this chick who admitted that she has/had 3 somes "sometimes" with a married couple that she met at a sex club back in July of 2021. Knew right away that shyt would spell trouble but decided to see where it went (and get off my dry spell with sex). Sex was good, wasn't really attracted to chick fully though (on the thicker side and she white 
). After fukking the shyt out of her for 2 weeks she called me Sunday night after leaving my place Sunday morning, saying she has feelings for the husband in the 3 some group and didn't want to lead me on, thinking I wanted a relationship. She had brought that 3 some shyt up multiple times and said she had deaded it bc she was talking to me. Turns out it was more of a poly situation from the sounds of it. When she spilled all this on me and wanted to stop it and just be friends, I basically asked her why she involved me in this bullshyt and told her it was weird and hung up the phone. Been silent ever since. I knew what road this was headed down and that she would sabotage it eventually, because once you enter that type of lifestyle it's very hard to walk away, and never for another person (really it's an addiction like most other things)--they gotta want to leave that shyt themselves. shyt got me both mad at myself and upset that yet again I dealt with someone crazy/in a crazy situation. Should have deaded it the minute she even mentioned it, and really I told her ass I wouldn't keep talking to her if she was doing that. She reassured me (lied about it). Oh well, sucks to end that quickly, no matter the circumstances. Always takes a min for me to start searching again.
). After fukking the shyt out of her for 2 weeks she called me Sunday night after leaving my place Sunday morning, saying she has feelings for the husband in the 3 some group and didn't want to lead me on, thinking I wanted a relationship. She had brought that 3 some shyt up multiple times and said she had deaded it bc she was talking to me. Turns out it was more of a poly situation from the sounds of it. When she spilled all this on me and wanted to stop it and just be friends, I basically asked her why she involved me in this bullshyt and told her it was weird and hung up the phone. Been silent ever since. I knew what road this was headed down and that she would sabotage it eventually, because once you enter that type of lifestyle it's very hard to walk away, and never for another person (really it's an addiction like most other things)--they gotta want to leave that shyt themselves. shyt got me both mad at myself and upset that yet again I dealt with someone crazy/in a crazy situation. Should have deaded it the minute she even mentioned it, and really I told her ass I wouldn't keep talking to her if she was doing that. She reassured me (lied about it). Oh well, sucks to end that quickly, no matter the circumstances. Always takes a min for me to start searching again.
VertigoKnight
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Couple weeks ago I started messing with this chick who admitted that she has/had 3 somes "sometimes" with a married couple that she met at a sex club back in July of 2021. Knew right away that shyt would spell trouble but decided to see where it went (and get off my dry spell with sex). Sex was good, wasn't really attracted to chick fully though (on the thicker side and she white
So you wanted to get slightly more serious with her? you admit you don't even find her that attractive. did she get you in your feelings She sounds like a woman that ordinarily you would never have sex with, but your dry spell got you taking anything or anyone showing you interest.
From the start when she told you she is/was fukking married couples. You could have kept her in a very specific box if you wanted to carry on seeing her casually.
King
The black man is always targeted.
In my area it ain't worth it. Basically a scaled down version of tinder.Feeld looks interesting
You showing your face on there?
Whole bunch of weirdo cuckold CACS and non-binary lgbtq123+ folx
Only still have it because they're be some batshyt insane rich ass sugar mommas who into real kinky shyt on there. Hoping to bag one and have her fly me out
In my area it ain't worth it. Basically a scaled down version of tinder.
You showing your face on there?
Whole bunch of weirdo cuckold CACS and non-binary lgbtq123+ folx
Only still have it because they're be some batshyt insane rich ass sugar mommas who into real kinky shyt on there. Hoping to bag one and have her fly me out
not on it but I would show my face fukk it who cares
VertigoKnight
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On Feeld you can add private pictures so only your connections can see them.
I have noticed people have been more open to showing their faces on there in multiple pictures. I see a few 'I cant show my face because of my career' profiles and go
Probably some chick looking for a side situation
I have noticed people have been more open to showing their faces on there in multiple pictures. I see a few 'I cant show my face because of my career' profiles and go
Probably some chick looking for a side situation
travel
And if your happiness depends on having a woman that's not the life to live breh. You should be happy and enjoy life regardless
Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
So basically when we first met she said right off the bat she was looking for something serious and didn't want to waste time. She set the tone. A lot of hoes do that to cloak their intentions. I found her mature and emotionally stable so I believed her. I found her fatter than I usually like the girls I date to be and struggled to overlook that. But I was able to bc I'm seeking companionship now and don't want to run around fukking strange women or being used for my dikk (happens a lot in the Pacific Northwest).
Shorty fed my ego though and was saying the right things so I kept trying to overlook her weight and the 3 some shyt...until she kept saying slick shyt defending it. Just little things here and there. And then she said a few nights ago that she felt like she was more attracted to me than I am to her (never did anything to perpetuate that), and then she "jokingly" accused me of being with another girl when I went out with my friend and his sister Friday night. The red flags were certainly there.
To answer your question, my dry spell had a lot to do with my willingness to follow along. If I think a person is a good person I'll follow along with their bullshyt until I can't take anymore or it blows up in my face. The latter happened Sunday. Just a very weird situation overall. Basically said she thought she was ready for a relationship, but she still has feelings for the husband in the 3 some (something she never mentioned). Her comments here and there let me know she was struggling with leaving it behind, so I can't be but so surprised she sabotaged it. I wasn't in my feelings too much, I just hate having to break things off suddenly. On top of that i didn't feel comfortable even having her as a sex buddy when I found out about 3 some shyt. I thought she had ended it but she never did, which is why I kept talking to her.
I was at my side bytch house just busted a nut…put my shorts back on n watch the draft i hear
*door bell*
my bytch goes to the door n its her parents…after some chatter i hear “is his pants on”
her dad is 6’8 and looks like fukkn daryl dawkins…and i shake his hand and tell him my name…and this fakkit goes
“Totally disrespectful “
Tryna give me thats my lil girl bullshyt
…this bytch is 37 doggie…
than her cac fat mom tries to give me a talk about being careful n blah blah
…after a while they kinda calmed down…asked if i worked? Lol etc
Cant stand people like that
*door bell*
my bytch goes to the door n its her parents…after some chatter i hear “is his pants on”
her dad is 6’8 and looks like fukkn daryl dawkins…and i shake his hand and tell him my name…and this fakkit goes
“Totally disrespectful “
Tryna give me thats my lil girl bullshyt
…this bytch is 37 doggie…than her cac fat mom tries to give me a talk about being careful n blah blah
…after a while they kinda calmed down…asked if i worked? Lol etcCant stand people like that
I told this girl that certain things she did made me think of my ex. She said I'm gaslighting her. Does this even make sense or am I stupid?
She's gaslighting you...I told this girl that certain things she did made me think of my ex. She said I'm gaslighting her. Does this even make sense or am I stupid?
I was letting her know that being constantly left on read gave me flashbacks and she lashed out on me. Said I was projecting and gaslighting her. Said if I told any other girl that that I would be blocked. Which is crazy because I've told other girls how that triggers me and none of them gave me flack
Her energy towards me changed in the past 2 weeks. I thought I was crazy for thinking that she was gaslighting me and belittling me
Sounds like she's choosing "up" ...
Its her loss honestly I'm a good dude. She just has alot of baggage and is very emotionally immature
I'm alot more into this other girl I've been talking to for a while. She's into me too. She's smart, funny, and she's militant. Might have to cuff her soon
You depressed because you got no women
Or you’re depressed because your life ain’t in order. If your life is in order then you already know it’s dime a dozen out here. And there’s no shortage of women. Getting a chick is the easy part. reassess why you’re really down.