Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Any recents wins brehs?
Just checking in on this monday to say I will forever love cold approach, shyt is just ol reliable, gift that keeps on giving :ahh:


Been back in gym HEAVY last couple months, I rarely shoot my shot at the ladies in the gym in past but the gym just been soo packed with them this summer and they be BITING :ohlawd:

Ended up pulling two recently, first one go to fsu so she only in town for the summer, which is cool, we already know what it is, ending on good terms my link up in Orlando for the fsu vs. lsu game in a couple weeks.. The second literally just scooped and we either going out or gonna get a workout in.. :steviej:

Oh and just for transparency I been fumbling ALOT lately but put soo much shots up it might not matter.. I feel like Im gonna go on a run in the fall, catch a heat check..
 

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Just checking in on this monday to say I will forever love cold approach, shyt is just ol reliable, gift that keeps on giving :ahh:


Been back in gym HEAVY last couple months, I rarely shoot my shot at the ladies in the gym in past but the gym just been soo packed with them this summer and they be BITING :ohlawd:

Ended up pulling two recently, first one go to fsu so she only in town for the summer, which is cool, we already know what it is, ending on good terms my link up in Orlando for the fsu vs. lsu game in a couple weeks.. The second literally just scooped and we either going out or gonna get a workout in.. :steviej:

Oh and just for transparency I been fumbling ALOT lately but put soo much shots up it might not matter.. I feel like Im gonna go on a run in the fall, catch a heat check..
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Just checking in on this monday to say I will forever love cold approach, shyt is just ol reliable, gift that keeps on giving :ahh:


Been back in gym HEAVY last couple months, I rarely shoot my shot at the ladies in the gym in past but the gym just been soo packed with them this summer and they be BITING :ohlawd:

Ended up pulling two recently, first one go to fsu so she only in town for the summer, which is cool, we already know what it is, ending on good terms my link up in Orlando for the fsu vs. lsu game in a couple weeks.. The second literally just scooped and we either going out or gonna get a workout in.. :steviej:

Oh and just for transparency I been fumbling ALOT lately but put soo much shots up it might not matter.. I feel like Im gonna go on a run in the fall, catch a heat check..

We all will. Fall is clearance sale time.

Whoever got the resources wins

:mjlol:
 

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Just checking in on this monday to say I will forever love cold approach, shyt is just ol reliable, gift that keeps on giving :ahh:


Been back in gym HEAVY last couple months, I rarely shoot my shot at the ladies in the gym in past but the gym just been soo packed with them this summer and they be BITING :ohlawd:

Ended up pulling two recently, first one go to fsu so she only in town for the summer, which is cool, we already know what it is, ending on good terms my link up in Orlando for the fsu vs. lsu game in a couple weeks.. The second literally just scooped and we either going out or gonna get a workout in.. :steviej:

Oh and just for transparency I been fumbling ALOT lately but put soo much shots up it might not matter.. I feel like Im gonna go on a run in the fall, catch a heat check..
Sept is recruiting season

All the women coming back to the city
:scheme:

Lonely winter nights 60 days away :scheme:
 

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We all will. Fall is clearance sale time.

Whoever got the resources wins

:mjlol:
Facts, I didnt even look at it that way, it was more the fact I have not been outside these last couple months, it is entirely too fukkin hot to go to some spots, especially outdoors, even at nite. I just used July and Aug. to lock in and get right.. With Football season, getting out this heat and humidity, actually being able to rock some more of my favorite colognes, I think fall might be becoming my favorite season, got to be between that and spring at this point.. might as well add the clearance sale :russ:
 

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Sept is recruiting season

All the women coming back to the city
:scheme:

Lonely winter nights 60 days away :scheme:
You know whats funny breh, had a couple throwbacks hit me up in summer and then I put two and two together.. They was tryna lock in a sneaky link for the summer cuz the kiddies are with the dad, didnt know if I should be offended or take as compliment, I took the layup not gonna lie.. :heh: I was gonna ask if anybody else seen that happening, kinda threw me off but I peeped..
 

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You know whats funny breh, had a couple throwbacks hit me up in summer and then I put two and two together.. They was tryna lock in a sneaky link for the summer cuz the kiddies are with the dad, didnt know if I should be offended or take as compliment, I took the layup not gonna lie.. :heh: I was gonna ask if anybody else seen that happening, kinda threw me off but I peeped..

usually Fall= hoes tryna get locked down with a boo for holidays + Valentine day for the inevitable April break up to go into Memorial Day + Summer thot season (which for men = travel and post up at the pools for ONS lol)
 

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You know whats funny breh, had a couple throwbacks hit me up in summer and then I put two and two together.. They was tryna lock in a sneaky link for the summer cuz the kiddies are with the dad, didnt know if I should be offended or take as compliment, I took the layup not gonna lie.. :heh: I was gonna ask if anybody else seen that happening, kinda threw me off but I peeped..
I got 2 single moms on the rotation
One white and one black ..both mid 30s
Nothing wrong ..might need them for a quiet Monday Jan 11 2024 winter night :scheme:
 

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Facts, I didnt even look at it that way, it was more the fact I have not been outside these last couple months, it is entirely too fukkin hot to go to some spots, especially outdoors, even at nite. I just used July and Aug. to lock in and get right.. With Football season, getting out this heat and humidity, actually being able to rock some more of my favorite colognes, I think fall might be becoming my favorite season, got to be between that and spring at this point.. might as well add the clearance sale :russ:
usually Fall= hoes tryna get locked down with a boo for holidays + Valentine day for the inevitable April break up to go into Memorial Day + Summer thot season (which for men = travel and post up at the pools for ONS lol)

Yup. That 50% off.

Fall is for the responsible brehs who got their ish together. Got heat, a stocked fridge, drinks, etc.

Summer is for the big spenders, tricks, bums, entertainment dudes.

Fall / winter is the best because you can pull “straight to the crib” / coffee / hot cocoa / holiday signature drinks at a low key bar, Netflix, etc.
 

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Partially an unconscious bias, because of where I live, San Diego, but realizing that even here people actually adjust their behavior, regarding dating, and just living, according to the seasons. For me I try to be on it all the time. Not even dating or whatever, but just trips, dinners, new places, do it all.

like the movie quote from Collateral "you wake up realize it never happened, because you were never going to do it anyway"

don't these people realize that the imagined "later" is never going to happen, and they just miss out? Feel like a lot of people do some version of this, and they end up not doing anything, miss this, miss that, and what did you gain?
 
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met some chick last thursday i think. were having some good convos but the last message i sent was a response to what i did friday night - at like 2am

message her sunday night asking how her weekend was...no response

Its a very fine line between being over eager and being too cool . youre basically splittin atoms talking to these bytches
 

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Partially an unconscious bias, because of where I live, San Diego, but realizing that even here people actually adjust their behavior, regarding dating, and just living, according to the seasons. For me, me, try to be on it all the time. Not even dating or whatever, but just trips, dinners, new places, do it all.

like the movie quote from Collateral "you wake up realize it never happened, because you were never going to do it anyway"

don't these people realize that the imagined "later" is never going to happen, and they just miss out? Feel like a lot of people do some version of this, and they end up not doing anything, miss this, miss that, and what did you gain?
the way you type is mad confusing. i think you overuse commas. what are you trying to say exactly?
 

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Just checking in on this monday to say I will forever love cold approach, shyt is just ol reliable, gift that keeps on giving :ahh:


Been back in gym HEAVY last couple months, I rarely shoot my shot at the ladies in the gym in past but the gym just been soo packed with them this summer and they be BITING :ohlawd:

Ended up pulling two recently, first one go to fsu so she only in town for the summer, which is cool, we already know what it is, ending on good terms my link up in Orlando for the fsu vs. lsu game in a couple weeks.. The second literally just scooped and we either going out or gonna get a workout in.. :steviej:

Oh and just for transparency I been fumbling ALOT lately but put soo much shots up it might not matter.. I feel like Im gonna go on a run in the fall, catch a heat check..
i got a question fam. im an avid cold approacher too but with how fickle women are (it was always bad but gets worse every year lol) i am starting to feel like its not worth the effort

i say this having just got home from a fit, 38 yr old persian woman's place after she sucked the life outta me and swallowed lol . I bagged her off a cold approach, but it be like damn. Why I gotta holla at 20 hoes...and get like 7-10 numbers just to get some action with one or two chicks .
 
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