Yo.... wait a minute.
What?
Yo.... wait a minute.
Dudes rarely self examine themselves and play to their strengths. You gotta know your strengths + the market and go to where the numbers are in your favor.
Its one breh in here that stays with the PAAGs and I remember someone asking for tips for PAAGs but the context is dude is in a city with a large number thus he has a diverse pool of them compared to a city where the numbers may not be in your favor thus you may be stuck with asian chicks who stick to their own + white boys. And most dudes don't work on themselves to the point where they can get chicks to go against the grain because of them having universal attractiveness (something most men do not have).
The problem is they cant hold a convo but still want you to take them out, talk to them on the phone etc.Help an old head out:
I see a a few comments about women not knowing how to talk these days. Seems like the less y’all have to talk to them then better but am I something?
Makes senseThe problem is they cant hold a convo but still want you to take them out, talk to them on the phone etc.
For instance I was messing with this Eritrean a few weeks ago and she would call me just to barely say anything on the phone. Same while I was hanging out with her in person. Same chick was telling me to take her on a real date and I had no desire to because the last time she showed up late as fukk and basically just sat down, apologized and stayed quiet until i got the convo going lol.
shyt is wack. Eventually i relinquished her because I cant bother to be around an insufferable person just to get some p*ssy. She was garbage at pining anyway.
What kind of work did you do on yourself?Yeah I've done a ton of work on myself. Not so much to pick up women but feel good within myself. Which then means you exude that friendly DGAF attitude.
I'll agree with the PAAGs assessment I'm in a city and surrounding areas full of them. Which doesn't always guarantee success but it helps.
I've found looks are great for an opener and I know my looks get women really curious, but I always lead into following that up with ways that get women excited with my personality.
Being friends with women, you get to meet their friends and a solid reference already. Doesn't mean you can NEVER go further. Or that you have to sleep with every woman you meet, or they are worthless. Have friends that are strippers and club girls, I meet their friends all the time.
People's black and white thinking always surprises me.
would admit that all my friends are attractive, and always very attractive to me, and I am sure this is mutual, but sometimes the sexual chemistry isn't right, sometimes the personalities aren't a match, I know a few that are bad, and like me, but I can already see it being a headache, because they are invested in commitment, or whatever. Sometimes it happens later.
totally understand what he is saying with "platonic" friends to a degree.
Maan u gotta unapologetically love yourself firstit’s honestly impossible to be happy when you get no bytches and you’re constantly reminded of it
i don’t think i can be comfortable im a lost cause. i meditate all the time but it doesn’t do anything. i always expect myself to fukk up before i even enter a social situation. it’s all good im just venting, i don’t necessarily need a solution. how do you go about tricking tho?
it’s no point in waiting anymore breh. just me personally, ive been wasting my social life and dating life with constant cope and bytching. fear of rejection. i gotta get my urges out. it consumes too much time and space in my mind. might as well finally live my life a lil and stop being a bytch.
anyone have a guide to this so i stop wasting my time?
The problem is they cant hold a convo but still want you to take them out, talk to them on the phone etc.
For instance I was messing with this Eritrean a few weeks ago and she would call me just to barely say anything on the phone. Same while I was hanging out with her in person. Same chick was telling me to take her on a real date and I had no desire to because the last time she showed up late as fukk and basically just sat down, apologized and stayed quiet until i got the convo going lol.
shyt is wack. Eventually i relinquished her because I cant bother to be around an insufferable person just to get some p*ssy. She was garbage at pining anyway.
Exactly lmfao waste of time. Providing boyfriend energy at a discountI find that all my platonic friends fall off when women get a man........so in the end, they're really just place holders.
Id disown my daughter if she was on that shyt
Lol I always laugh when old heads say that want a younger 20 year old