Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

Dudes rarely self examine themselves and play to their strengths. You gotta know your strengths + the market and go to where the numbers are in your favor.

Its one breh in here that stays with the PAAGs and I remember someone asking for tips for PAAGs but the context is dude is in a city with a large number thus he has a diverse pool of them compared to a city where the numbers may not be in your favor thus you may be stuck with asian chicks who stick to their own + white boys. And most dudes don't work on themselves to the point where they can get chicks to go against the grain because of them having universal attractiveness (something most men do not have).

Yeah I've done a ton of work on myself. Not so much to pick up women but feel good within myself. Which then means you exude that friendly DGAF attitude.

I'll agree with the PAAGs assessment I'm in a city and surrounding areas full of them. Which doesn't always guarantee success but it helps.

I've found looks are great for an opener and I know my looks get women really curious, but I always lead into following that up with ways that get women excited with my personality.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Looks do play a major role into attraction. Looks isn't just face but also body game. Sex appeal = muscular frame. Your body language. Check your posture always keep your head upward never downward. Looking up implies confidence. Looking down implies defeatism. Remember, we're kings over here. fukk that "woe is me" shyt. Adopt a little cockiness and swag to your personality. Women say they hate cocky dudes but it's all cap. They get wet from the cockiness.

Women go crazy for social status. Think of the biggest celebrities such as actors, singers, rappers, athletes, business men, influencers, people of notoriety in general.

Having clout means importance in society. We know women are mostly hive minded. They eat up what's promoted in the media. The more clout a person has, the better odds of survival. Having the means to producing a quality life. Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically. Hypergamy effect.

Clout is easy to gain. Providing value is how you get value. For my social media brehs, just copping a blue check is enough for these broads.

Passion. Why is passion in general so attractive? Passion shows how enthusiastic and committed a person is towards their craft. We know women are emotional creatures by default. They get turned on when a man is being unapologetically himself doing what he does best. Passion can about almost anything. It's the drive that makes results.

Me personally, one of my passions is art. Playing music instruments, dancing, poetry, drawing and poetry. Not gonna lie, I attracted a lot of broads from dancing in my 20's and teens.

I was dancing like 2pac back when he was in Digital Underground

Did I look silly af? YeahHowever, it was the raw confidence I exuded that captivated them.

The less you overthink about situations, the more present you become in those situations. fukk anxiety, that shyt is a whole mood killer.

There shouldn't be any reason why men should be scared to approach women. No man should have the mentality "Does she like me" Flip the script to "I'm just giving this broad a chance to fukk with me. If she fumbles me, she foolish" Listen brehs, you already know what you bring to the table. NEVER explain yourself to a broad. Women want what they can't have.


In this era, Gen Z don't really have the social skills to sustain the attraction. A lot of these Gen Z broads don't know how to talk. That's where our leadership skills come in. As a man, one of biggest assets is assertiveness and making rational decisions. Literally you have to train these broads cause a lot of them really be passive.

 

[The ADD]

Help an old head out:

I see a a few comments about women not knowing how to talk these days. Seems like the less y’all have to talk to them then better but am I something?

 

[Ohene]

Help an old head out:

I see a a few comments about women not knowing how to talk these days. Seems like the less y’all have to talk to them then better but am I something?

The problem is they cant hold a convo but still want you to take them out, talk to them on the phone etc.

For instance I was messing with this Eritrean a few weeks ago and she would call me just to barely say anything on the phone. Same while I was hanging out with her in person. Same chick was telling me to take her on a real date and I had no desire to because the last time she showed up late as fukk and basically just sat down, apologized and stayed quiet until i got the convo going lol.

shyt is wack. Eventually i relinquished her because I cant bother to be around an insufferable person just to get some p*ssy. She was garbage at pining anyway.

 

[The ADD]

The problem is they cant hold a convo but still want you to take them out, talk to them on the phone etc.

For instance I was messing with this Eritrean a few weeks ago and she would call me just to barely say anything on the phone. Same while I was hanging out with her in person. Same chick was telling me to take her on a real date and I had no desire to because the last time she showed up late as fukk and basically just sat down, apologized and stayed quiet until i got the convo going lol.

shyt is wack. Eventually i relinquished her because I cant bother to be around an insufferable person just to get some p*ssy. She was garbage at pining anyway.

Makes sense

 

[Spacejam23]

Yeah I've done a ton of work on myself. Not so much to pick up women but feel good within myself. Which then means you exude that friendly DGAF attitude.

I'll agree with the PAAGs assessment I'm in a city and surrounding areas full of them. Which doesn't always guarantee success but it helps.

I've found looks are great for an opener and I know my looks get women really curious, but I always lead into following that up with ways that get women excited with my personality.

What kind of work did you do on yourself?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Being friends with women, you get to meet their friends and a solid reference already. Doesn't mean you can NEVER go further. Or that you have to sleep with every woman you meet, or they are worthless. Have friends that are strippers and club girls, I meet their friends all the time.

People's black and white thinking always surprises me.

would admit that all my friends are attractive, and always very attractive to me, and I am sure this is mutual, but sometimes the sexual chemistry isn't right, sometimes the personalities aren't a match, I know a few that are bad, and like me, but I can already see it being a headache, because they are invested in commitment, or whatever. Sometimes it happens later.

totally understand what he is saying with "platonic" friends to a degree.

I find that all my platonic friends fall off when women get a man........so in the end, they're really just place holders.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

it’s honestly impossible to be happy when you get no bytches and you’re constantly reminded of it


i don’t think i can be comfortable im a lost cause. i meditate all the time but it doesn’t do anything. i always expect myself to fukk up before i even enter a social situation. it’s all good im just venting, i don’t necessarily need a solution. how do you go about tricking tho?

Maan u gotta unapologetically love yourself first

2nd your 6”1 and Nigerian ..u shouldn’t struggle
What city you live at ? Maybe u need to move
And find your tribe (Nigerian women)

 

[DJSmooth]

it’s no point in waiting anymore breh. just me personally, ive been wasting my social life and dating life with constant cope and bytching. fear of rejection. i gotta get my urges out. it consumes too much time and space in my mind. might as well finally live my life a lil and stop being a bytch.

anyone have a guide to this so i stop wasting my time?

What do you do for a living? How much money do you make?

 

[Ahadi]

Spoiler: H profile

 

[Ahadi]

The problem is they cant hold a convo but still want you to take them out, talk to them on the phone etc.

For instance I was messing with this Eritrean a few weeks ago and she would call me just to barely say anything on the phone. Same while I was hanging out with her in person. Same chick was telling me to take her on a real date and I had no desire to because the last time she showed up late as fukk and basically just sat down, apologized and stayed quiet until i got the convo going lol.

shyt is wack. Eventually i relinquished her because I cant bother to be around an insufferable person just to get some p*ssy. She was garbage at pining anyway.

Because they don’t have to. They aren’t taught to be accountable or hold a convo, the man just has to do everything.

Unless it’s of course a “corporate” environment, they know how to make conversation with Joe & Bill.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I find that all my platonic friends fall off when women get a man........so in the end, they're really just place holders.

Exactly lmfao waste of time. Providing boyfriend energy at a discount

 

[Apollo Creed]

Spoiler: H profile

Id disown my daughter if she was on that shyt

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Spoiler: H profile

Lol I always laugh when old heads say that want a younger 20 year old


I got headache from just being around them more than 10min

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Unless it’s of course a “corporate” environment, they know how to make conversation with Joe & Bill.

The jokes all of a sudden a little funnier.. follow-up questions to simple shyt are asked.. she the most engaged during the quick trivia time/small talk before the formal meeting starts

Man let me stop lmao