Welp update: She told me we should get tested before we have sex, and I broke up with her, she even called me the worst boyfriend ever (LMAO). She texted me right after saying "can we talk?" and I blocked her on all social media. She gave me the run around saying "sex is a big step for me" and that was just a bunch of some other bullshyt, so I'm good. let it be known that this woman was shorter than me and overweight, so it wasn't about how she looked. I tried dating bigger women or the women that "no man wants" and got this bullshyt.
at 27 years old, still a virgin and 5'5 in height, I'm done chasing women. Dating app to dating app, women never liking me in real life, etc. I'm done with this shyt. It just feels like a waste of time, and I personally would rather move on with my life than to keep chasing something that I've never had luck with in the first place. If I get horny I'll buy a prostitute or some shyt. Thanks to you brehs for your advice and I'll be lurking this thread.
EDIT: Before anyone says anything, this happened 2 days ago, so NO I DID NOT take her out for valentines day or buy her anything. She told me last week she got me a "boo basket" (whatever the fucc that is), but she can give it to another nikka she's fuccin, I don't care.