Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I guess the Valentines day effect is real.
Definitely. I had chicks I was dating suddenly go ghost and out of nowhere they have a "boyfriend", always some older ugly guy. And they posting stories with pictures with the dude.

They make a big show out of telling me we can't link up anymore because they have a boyfriend now

Just in time for Valentine's Day

I ain't tripping, just funny how it happens. Those must be the guys buying expensive stuff for Valentine's Day...I save money every 14th

In less than a month they'll be reposting videos and memes about being single
 

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I can't do women that need constant communication . I was talking to this 50 year old milf ..and she gets upset if I don't answer back within 10-30 minutes.
Lady I have a job and have hobbies , only people that have nothing else going on in their life can be texting/talking 24/7.
How old are you?
 

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Welp update: She told me we should get tested before we have sex, and I broke up with her, she even called me the worst boyfriend ever (LMAO). She texted me right after saying "can we talk?" and I blocked her on all social media. She gave me the run around saying "sex is a big step for me" and that was just a bunch of some other bullshyt, so I'm good. let it be known that this woman was shorter than me and overweight, so it wasn't about how she looked. I tried dating bigger women or the women that "no man wants" and got this bullshyt.

at 27 years old, still a virgin and 5'5 in height, I'm done chasing women. Dating app to dating app, women never liking me in real life, etc. I'm done with this shyt. It just feels like a waste of time, and I personally would rather move on with my life than to keep chasing something that I've never had luck with in the first place. If I get horny I'll buy a prostitute or some shyt. Thanks to you brehs for your advice and I'll be lurking this thread.


:salute:

EDIT: Before anyone says anything, this happened 2 days ago, so NO I DID NOT take her out for valentines day or buy her anything. She told me last week she got me a "boo basket" (whatever the fucc that is), but she can give it to another nikka she's fuccin, I don't care.

:hubie:
 
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Welp update: She told me we should get tested before we have sex, and I broke up with her, she even called me the worst boyfriend ever (LMAO). She texted me right after saying "can we talk?" and I blocked her on all social media. She gave me the run around saying "sex is a big step for me" and that was just a bunch of some other bullshyt, so I'm good. let it be known that this woman was shorter than me and overweight, so it wasn't about how she looked. I tried dating bigger women or the women that "no man wants" and got this bullshyt.

at 27 years old, still a virgin and 5'5 in height, I'm done chasing women. Dating app to dating app, women never liking me in real life, etc. I'm done with this shyt. It just feels like a waste of time, and I personally would rather move on with my life than to keep chasing something that I've never had luck with in the first place. If I get horny I'll buy a prostitute or some shyt. Thanks to you brehs for your advice and I'll be lurking this thread.


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Good shyt.

You should only be dating women you’re attracted to. Don’t waste your time trying to deal with a woman you aren’t attracted to / “no one wants”, she feels it and ultimately, you’re wasting each others time.

Get back in the lab, focus on yourself. I’m not saying abandon dating apps, but focus on real life interactions, use dating apps as an additional source, but not your main source of interaction.

Remember, you as a man control whether you want to be in a relationship, she controls sex, without sex, you shouldn’t even be speaking about a relationship. Especially not in 2024 lol.

Once you find a woman who really likes you, it’ll change your mindset completely. What woman won’t do, another will.
 

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Good shyt.

You should only be dating women you’re attracted to. Don’t waste your time trying to deal with a woman you aren’t attracted to / “no one wants”, she feels it and ultimately, you’re wasting each others time.

Get back in the lab, focus on yourself. I’m not saying abandon dating apps, but focus on real life interactions, use dating apps as an additional source, but not your main source of interaction.

Remember, you as a man control whether you want to be in a relationship, she controls sex, without sex, you shouldn’t even be speaking about a relationship. Especially not in 2024 lol.

Once you find a woman who really likes you, it’ll change your mindset completely. What woman won’t do, another will.
I respect what you're saying breh, but i'm done with all of that. I had no luck with dating apps/no luck in real life. I never fit in with society (I still don't fit in at 27, lmao) which in turn made me anti-social. People thought I was gay before I got into this "relationship" actually. I just wanna work, make money to support myself and drink beer. I go to the gym too, but it's taking too long to make progress. I don't want kids either.
 

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Welp update: She told me we should get tested before we have sex, and I broke up with her, she even called me the worst boyfriend ever (LMAO). She texted me right after saying "can we talk?" and I blocked her on all social media. She gave me the run around saying "sex is a big step for me" and that was just a bunch of some other bullshyt, so I'm good. let it be known that this woman was shorter than me and overweight, so it wasn't about how she looked. I tried dating bigger women or the women that "no man wants" and got this bullshyt.

at 27 years old, still a virgin and 5'5 in height, I'm done chasing women. Dating app to dating app, women never liking me in real life, etc. I'm done with this shyt. It just feels like a waste of time, and I personally would rather move on with my life than to keep chasing something that I've never had luck with in the first place. If I get horny I'll buy a prostitute or some shyt. Thanks to you brehs for your advice and I'll be lurking this thread.


:salute:

EDIT: Before anyone says anything, this happened 2 days ago, so NO I DID NOT take her out for valentines day or buy her anything. She told me last week she got me a "boo basket" (whatever the fucc that is), but she can give it to another nikka she's fuccin, I don't care.

:hubie:
You need to decide if you even want a relationship or just sex
 

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Welp update: She told me we should get tested before we have sex, and I broke up with her, she even called me the worst boyfriend ever (LMAO). She texted me right after saying "can we talk?" and I blocked her on all social media. She gave me the run around saying "sex is a big step for me" and that was just a bunch of some other bullshyt, so I'm good. let it be known that this woman was shorter than me and overweight, so it wasn't about how she looked. I tried dating bigger women or the women that "no man wants" and got this bullshyt.

at 27 years old, still a virgin and 5'5 in height, I'm done chasing women. Dating app to dating app, women never liking me in real life, etc. I'm done with this shyt. It just feels like a waste of time, and I personally would rather move on with my life than to keep chasing something that I've never had luck with in the first place. If I get horny I'll buy a prostitute or some shyt. Thanks to you brehs for your advice and I'll be lurking this thread.


:salute:

EDIT: Before anyone says anything, this happened 2 days ago, so NO I DID NOT take her out for valentines day or buy her anything. She told me last week she got me a "boo basket" (whatever the fucc that is), but she can give it to another nikka she's fuccin, I don't care.

:hubie:
Do not and I repeat do not date women you aren’t attracted to instantly it always ends bad
 
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