Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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What color was the trench coat?Whole thing devolved literally into the type of convsrsation that would happen in the booth at Tom's, just with a bit of Breh flair...
Givethanks
Superstar
Being a good Boyfriend is rewarding and all, but man once that good weather hits.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Ontario sun hittin today ah lie?Being a good Boyfriend is rewarding and all, but man once that good weather hits.
Gotta do what you gotta doBeing a good Boyfriend is rewarding and all, but man once that good weather hits.
Givethanks
Superstar
My g, you zeet eh. One thing Ontario got a whole selection.Ontario sun hittin today ah lie?
Keep my head down and fight these demons lol. I've been stress free for 8 years, and I gotta keep it that way.Gotta do what you gotta do
Lord knows the lessons I learned in my early 20s humbled myself
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
stronger man than me, guided by your faith/prinicples...My g, you zeet eh. One thing Ontario got a whole selection.
Keep my head down and fight these demons lol. I've been stress free for 8 years, and I gotta keep it that way.
Lord knows the lessons I learned in my early 20s humbled myself
...... one day I will attempt to reform these City Boy ways.............
But that day ain't today...
She's gonna blame you
He never helped me take off my jacket he's not a gentleman
Remember that jacket story
My g, you zeet eh. One thing Ontario got a whole selection.
Keep my head down and fight these demons lol. I've been stress free for 8 years, and I gotta keep it that way.
Lord knows the lessons I learned in my early 20s humbled myself
It's not worth ending back up on hinge or whatever and swiping left and right and being frustrated
Givethanks
Superstar
Spoken like a man who loves his family; congrats again been.
it isnt. like i said a page ago the majority of these good looking women you see walkin around the city aint worth your time
they either got a boyfriend / roster , or theyre jaded, stress-laden, mentally unstable, got wack personalities or wont be that into you anyways and will give you the run around/waste your money.
Yup sounds about right. Or a million close guy friends you gotta accept
Babymama Magnet
All Star
Anyone ever been in the situation of putting your career before your gf?
More or less broken up with my gf of 4 years due to having a deep conversation of where we were going and what we wanted from each other. We're both in our 30s (me mid 30s and her early 30s).. I'm doing a career transition and putting effort into learning and implementing AI (AI Agents and building No Code apps) so i straight up told her this is important and there will be priority towards it.
She see this as affecting/neglecting the relationship. We've just had a talk and in her words she wants to enjoy life now while shes independent and young with no kids and she wants a relationship where she doesn't feel lonely or neglected. It sucks because been with her for 4 years now, moved in with her last year and its been rocky since then.
I want to feel like i'm doing the right thing and putting time and effort into a new career (recently joined a hackathon event to build my app and showcase it) but i also feel shytty as shes solid and truly does care for me.
If any questions are why can't i do both, i've tried but i end up neglecting either one. If i try to spend more time on the relationship (spending time with her, watching films/shows etc) work/learning don't get done and i feel resentful towards myself for not doing it but if i focus more time on the work/learning and neglect the relationship i end up feeling guilty for not spending enough time with her.
Brehs any advice?
edit: Not trying to date anyone now that we've broken up but being 34 and possible 36/37 if i do decided to date again doesn't make me feel positive at all
More or less broken up with my gf of 4 years due to having a deep conversation of where we were going and what we wanted from each other. We're both in our 30s (me mid 30s and her early 30s).. I'm doing a career transition and putting effort into learning and implementing AI (AI Agents and building No Code apps) so i straight up told her this is important and there will be priority towards it.
She see this as affecting/neglecting the relationship. We've just had a talk and in her words she wants to enjoy life now while shes independent and young with no kids and she wants a relationship where she doesn't feel lonely or neglected. It sucks because been with her for 4 years now, moved in with her last year and its been rocky since then.
I want to feel like i'm doing the right thing and putting time and effort into a new career (recently joined a hackathon event to build my app and showcase it) but i also feel shytty as shes solid and truly does care for me.
If any questions are why can't i do both, i've tried but i end up neglecting either one. If i try to spend more time on the relationship (spending time with her, watching films/shows etc) work/learning don't get done and i feel resentful towards myself for not doing it but if i focus more time on the work/learning and neglect the relationship i end up feeling guilty for not spending enough time with her.
Brehs any advice?
edit: Not trying to date anyone now that we've broken up but being 34 and possible 36/37 if i do decided to date again doesn't make me feel positive at all
Sounds like she is less important that the business. Do what you need to do there and date after it’s where you need it.
Doesn’t sound like it was going well. After 4 years anyway