Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[africngiant]

its over and they slow

that shyt empty

 

[Ahadi]

@re'up so you got me on I LOVE LA



Not a bad show tbh. Literally showcases dating today. I didn’t realize the black woman was Forrest Whitaker’s daughter.

Main girl just got the ick in real time, because her boyfriend don’t wana be more than what he is lol he likes just being a normal school teacher, normal life, normal game nights

 

[Ohene]

@re'up so you got me on I LOVE LA



Not a bad show tbh. Literally showcases dating today. I didn’t realize the black woman was Forrest Whitaker’s daughter.

Main girl just got the ick in real time, because her boyfriend don’t wana be more than what he is lol he likes just being a normal school teacher, normal life, normal game nights

should i peep?
tough to find a good comedy and i trust hbo

 

[Ahadi]

should i peep?
tough to find a good comedy and i trust hbo

Yeah check it out. Leans more Gen Z, it’s a mix of Girls & Entourage. Couple of alphabet scenes as a heads up. But it’s pretty funny at points. The main girl is playing herself as usual.

They release episodes every Sunday at 10:30pm, Episode 6 dropped last night. But they’re all on MAX.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

And the thing is speaking socially is a muscle so especially with speaking of women. I remember you know being in the mall as a teenager with my guys and we would all just take turns you know talking to women and it wasn’t so much what would happen after it was just let’s see if you can get the number, just enjoying the moment with an attractive woman, etc.

And so the fact that they didn’t do that when they were younger and now you can see it in the video that they’re struggling because it’s just “hello, can I add you on WeChat?” no type of banter, not creating any level of comfortability.

I remember going down just a YouTube rap hole of these pick up artist and watching them was probably my first realization and understanding that there’s “white game/ mouthpiece ” vs “black game / mouthpiece ”.

Dance floors were place you dance with a women and get her #
Now they recording a snap/tiktok and want nothing to do with dancing

Man The young boys are so cooked

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dance floors were place you dance with a women and get her #
Now they recording a snap/tiktok and want nothing to do with dancing

Man The young boys are so cooked

young dudes aint even at these places, its the women cooked., Young dudes just opting out of society at this point.

 

[Ohene]

You think the game in the US is messed up, try China

And the thing is speaking socially is a muscle so especially with speaking of women. I remember you know being in the mall as a teenager with my guys and we would all just take turns you know talking to women and it wasn’t so much what would happen after it was just let’s see if you can get the number, just enjoying the moment with an attractive woman, etc.

And so the fact that they didn’t do that when they were younger and now you can see it in the video that they’re struggling because it’s just “hello, can I add you on WeChat?” no type of banter, not creating any level of comfortability.

I remember going down just a YouTube rap hole of these pick up artist and watching them was probably my first realization and understanding that there’s “white game/ mouthpiece ” vs “black game / mouthpiece ”.

lol was watching this with my girl two nights ago...telling her the same thing about how how my friend and i used to chop women at the mall

 

[Ahadi]

y

 

[Ahadi]

lol was watching this with my girl two nights ago...telling her the same thing about how how my friend and i used to chop women at the mall

Yup. That was your practice.

Get your Aunt Annie pretzel and work each floor

 

[Ohene]

Yup. That was your practice.

Get your Aunt Annie pretzel and work each floor

yea the key was getting desensitized to rejection and learning not to overthink the engagement
these we chat dudes need to keep at it and refine their skills / open up the repetoire. no other way to go about it

 

[General Mills]

 

[re'up]

And the thing is speaking socially is a muscle so especially with speaking of women. I remember you know being in the mall as a teenager with my guys and we would all just take turns you know talking to women and it wasn’t so much what would happen after it was just let’s see if you can get the number, just enjoying the moment with an attractive woman, etc.

And so the fact that they didn’t do that when they were younger and now you can see it in the video that they’re struggling because it’s just “hello, can I add you on WeChat?” no type of banter, not creating any level of comfortability.

I remember going down just a YouTube rap hole of these pick up artist and watching them was probably my first realization and understanding that there’s “white game/ mouthpiece ” vs “black game / mouthpiece ”.

It's an entirely different and disconnected form of socialization. Creates a lot of isolation and distance, even from the people you are around every day, like in middle school or high school.

Around 1998, I was 12/13, and I had little 7th grade girlfriends, a lot of that was just looks, I didn't have a lot of game or even confidence, or extroversion at that age. Still am pretty reserved in a lot of social situations but it's something I can turn on whenever I want. It wasn't like a walked up to them and said some smooth shyt, and then we were "going out". But I did talk to girls, that was NORMAL back then. Girls you had class with hooked you up with their friends. You said whats up with Tiffany? They said ohh she thinks you are fine. We walked the mall, we walked Six Flags. We on dates to the movies. I had girls come up to me, and I'd just be about as smooth as a 7th grader could be, which is not that smooth, but it's interaction.

These kids are socialized to resent and mistrust each other through social media, before they have even kissed a girl, kissed a guy. It's something that should be addressed by all politicians and all levels of government.

 

[re'up]

@Ahadi

I like that you fukk with the show. I think it captures this generational moment perfectly, a lot like Insecure does. The writing and satire are razor sharp. The girls are all bad. And they are all hilarious. Alani standouts with her lines too. Some gay material, but it' not any more than Industry.

it's not what MY dating life looks like, but I know a lot of girls like that, who aren't even all that young. They are so delicate, but so rigid, guarded, and delusional, and I think without a sense of self. They all need constant validation and adoration. The way they speak to each other, in the delusional style of motivational speakers is very very on point.

no you are beautiful and good. We are all beautiful and good. The girls I knew in high school would never ever talk like that to each other.

 

[The ADD]

lol was watching this with my girl two nights ago...telling her the same thing about how how my friend and i used to chop women at the mall

 

[Ahadi]

@Ahadi

I like that you fukk with the show. I think it captures this generational moment perfectly, a lot like Insecure does. The writing and satire are razor sharp. The girls are all bad. And they are all hilarious. Alani standouts with her lines too. Some gay material, but it' not any more than Industry.

it's not what MY dating life looks like, but I know a lot of girls like that, who aren't even all that young. They are so delicate, but so rigid, guarded, and delusional, and I think without a sense of self. They all need constant validation and adoration. The way they speak to each other, in the delusional style of motivational speakers is very very on point.

no you are beautiful and good. We are all beautiful and good. The girls I knew in high school would never ever talk like that to each other.

Man, thanks for putting me on. It definitely captures that girls + entourage + insecure vibe. Alaini’s lines / prescience are refreshing to see. Definitely LA black girl energy.

Especially with you know those LA types they quickly need to latch onto to one another “omg I love your lip color” “omg your top” it’s like they really do sell each other dreams, because they don’t wanna be left out of that circle.

Even with the relationships, the main character, you can tell she was starting to get “ick” with her boyfriend from the very beginning.

1. She felt like she was stagnant, couldn’t get the promotion, coming home to mundane lifestyle. (Strike 1)
2. Her friend came back outtta nowhere, called her boyfriend short, and she slowly went back to her “real self”(strike 2)
3. She got the promotion & is working with her best friend (in her mind, she’s doing better than him and doesn’t need his stability) (strike 3)
3. They went over to her bosses house, noticed her boss and her husband are overachieving power couple. The get back home and talk about how cool that is & the boyfriend said “i don’t know how they could live like that, I don’t wana be anything more, I’m comfortable” and you can see the disgust on her face (strike 4)
4. Now she’s coming home with leftover horny from (something different & intriguing) agency dude, and fantasizing about him during sex with stable teacher (strike 5)



The psychology is crazy.