Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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was she mad at you?
Yeah she was mad.
I dunno. My posts are usually how I feel although every now and then I have a moment where I'm talking cash shyt.
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i got some good advice for my nikkas in this thread
1. be light skinned and exotic with green eyes and long, luxurious good hair
2. have a deep commanding southern accent with some bass in your voice
it's so easy for me brehs
1. be light skinned and exotic with green eyes and long, luxurious good hair
2. have a deep commanding southern accent with some bass in your voice
it's so easy for me brehs
Let's keep it going. do not be a man that bases your decision making and thinking based on what everyone likes. That is a weakness, but unfortunately it is heralded as a strength in this politically correct society. We are taught not to rock the boat, to do things everyone likes, and if you don't do this or that, no one will like you. In other words, we are taught to succumb to the herd mentality and to be like the crowd. We are taught that instead of being principled, to follow the group. This mentality produces a weak breed of man that is easily led around. Having the proper principles and STANDING on them makes you strong.
So then, base your thoughts and decisions on PRINCIPLE, and these principles should be bigger than women and even yourself. My principles are Biblically based as well as principles I've cultivated through living, experiencing and observing. What is the real importance of principles? They define who you are as a man. They give you definition as a man. When people know you have strong principles and stand on them, they will deal with you on a level that they will not deal with another person. When someone knows everything you spit out your mouth is real, they will sit back and listen to what you have to say and accord you the respect of their ear. If they know you are stand up about your actions and about repaying your debts, they will loan you money much more readily or engage in business with you much more easily. It's the same thing with when dealing with women. When she knows the caliber of man you are, she will deal with you in a way that she won't deal with a guy who is changing his mind all the time and always shifting around.
The KEY mistake men make when dealing with women is thinking their decisions should be based upon what she likes. if you think like that, you are under her control and you will become weak in her eyes... and you must remember, if she doesn't feel as if you are bigger than her and stronger than her, then you are a boy to her. This is a key piece of knowledge because most men don't realize that in the process of being a man and in dealing with women, you will do a lot of things she doesn't like. But when she sees you stand on your belief and your principles are strong, she will RESPECT that. Catering to women and doing what she likes doesn't keep her around. She has 10 million simps to do that. Being real and standing on your principles and her liking how you express yourself is what really impresses a woman, and the best thing is, you'll impress her by NOT trying to impress her.
So then, when you take her out, your mindset shouldn't be 'whether she likes this or not' and whether you are impressing her. That's little man talk. Big man talk is, "She better be enjoying herself. If she doesn't, that's on her, because I'm enjoying it." Big men don't try to impress women. They act in a fashion that women try to impress them. How do you become 'big'? It's all internal, and starts with your thoughts and the principles you hold dear and how stringently you follow your principles. It is in treating others with respect, acting in a fashion that garners respect and cutting short the interactions of those who disrespect you. The higher quality of a man you become, the higher quality and quantity of women you get as a default... so then, do NOT focus on chasing women and what magical techniques to use on them. Focus on improving your caliber as a man and strengthening your manhood... and this manhood is NOT derived from what a woman likes... it is derived from powerful and righteous principles.
So then, base your thoughts and decisions on PRINCIPLE, and these principles should be bigger than women and even yourself. My principles are Biblically based as well as principles I've cultivated through living, experiencing and observing. What is the real importance of principles? They define who you are as a man. They give you definition as a man. When people know you have strong principles and stand on them, they will deal with you on a level that they will not deal with another person. When someone knows everything you spit out your mouth is real, they will sit back and listen to what you have to say and accord you the respect of their ear. If they know you are stand up about your actions and about repaying your debts, they will loan you money much more readily or engage in business with you much more easily. It's the same thing with when dealing with women. When she knows the caliber of man you are, she will deal with you in a way that she won't deal with a guy who is changing his mind all the time and always shifting around.
The KEY mistake men make when dealing with women is thinking their decisions should be based upon what she likes. if you think like that, you are under her control and you will become weak in her eyes... and you must remember, if she doesn't feel as if you are bigger than her and stronger than her, then you are a boy to her. This is a key piece of knowledge because most men don't realize that in the process of being a man and in dealing with women, you will do a lot of things she doesn't like. But when she sees you stand on your belief and your principles are strong, she will RESPECT that. Catering to women and doing what she likes doesn't keep her around. She has 10 million simps to do that. Being real and standing on your principles and her liking how you express yourself is what really impresses a woman, and the best thing is, you'll impress her by NOT trying to impress her.
So then, when you take her out, your mindset shouldn't be 'whether she likes this or not' and whether you are impressing her. That's little man talk. Big man talk is, "She better be enjoying herself. If she doesn't, that's on her, because I'm enjoying it." Big men don't try to impress women. They act in a fashion that women try to impress them. How do you become 'big'? It's all internal, and starts with your thoughts and the principles you hold dear and how stringently you follow your principles. It is in treating others with respect, acting in a fashion that garners respect and cutting short the interactions of those who disrespect you. The higher quality of a man you become, the higher quality and quantity of women you get as a default... so then, do NOT focus on chasing women and what magical techniques to use on them. Focus on improving your caliber as a man and strengthening your manhood... and this manhood is NOT derived from what a woman likes... it is derived from powerful and righteous principles.
how long do you wait before start meeting new girls?
Me and girl broke it off. It was mutual break up .. she wanted certain things that i couldn't provide. But i'm kinda having a hard time thinking about other women cause she's still on my mind.
What can i do ?
Me and girl broke it off. It was mutual break up .. she wanted certain things that i couldn't provide. But i'm kinda having a hard time thinking about other women cause she's still on my mind.
What can i do ?
Women are very skilled at sensing out a man's spirit. I'm sure many of you have noticed that there are days when you are just feeling yourself and a sort of energy bounds off of you that women can pick up on. Those days where you just walk out the door feeling yourself, you notice all of these women smiling at you and staring you down. Other days, when you are down and dreary, you see it reflected on the women. The takeaway from this is that how you feel about yourself on the inside is one of the things that will matter the most when dealing with women. The extent that you are real with YOURSELF and with HER is what is ultimately important. If you know how to genuinely enjoy yourself, you will start attracting a lot more women.
Instead of focusing on the 'hot spots' to take women to, focus on finding those places YOU like. You have to learn to develop your tastes and really learn to enjoy yourself. When you learn to enjoy yourself, it reflects in your spirit and people can pick up on it. There are certain people, when they walk into the room, the whole room dampens and there are others, when they walk in, everything brightens up. This is how powerful your state of mind and your spirit is.
Learning to love and appreciate yourself is extremely important. I'm not saying love yourself to the point you become arrogant and overly proud and where you completely ignore constructive criticism... You simply have to learn to like yourself and who you are, and if there are elements about yourself you do not like, you have to work on it until you are where you want to be. Why is this important? As I said, all of this will be reflected in your spirit, which will eventually manifest outward. People will be able to sense it in you. How powerful is this piece of knowledge? Extremely. Think about a guy like Tupac. He was a guy from a poor neighborhood and yet he got into a position where he made people all around the world want to represent an element that is associated with poverty and danger-- be a thug. Because he embraced who he was, he had people wanting to become that which is typically found as distasteful. When you embrace who you are and what you are about and represent it, then people will really pick up on it and the people who like what you are doing will start to gravitate towards you. In dealing with women, this is important because you will be dealing with women who are of the same mind as you and who WANT to deal with you. You are coming from a position of power, instead of the position of weakness where you are constantly trying to impress some woman and trying to figure out what she likes so you can give it to her and hoping it makes her like you. When dealing with women and anyone in general, you have to come from a position of power, morals, strength and self-respect. This is the essence of leadership.
Instead of focusing on the 'hot spots' to take women to, focus on finding those places YOU like. You have to learn to develop your tastes and really learn to enjoy yourself. When you learn to enjoy yourself, it reflects in your spirit and people can pick up on it. There are certain people, when they walk into the room, the whole room dampens and there are others, when they walk in, everything brightens up. This is how powerful your state of mind and your spirit is.
Learning to love and appreciate yourself is extremely important. I'm not saying love yourself to the point you become arrogant and overly proud and where you completely ignore constructive criticism... You simply have to learn to like yourself and who you are, and if there are elements about yourself you do not like, you have to work on it until you are where you want to be. Why is this important? As I said, all of this will be reflected in your spirit, which will eventually manifest outward. People will be able to sense it in you. How powerful is this piece of knowledge? Extremely. Think about a guy like Tupac. He was a guy from a poor neighborhood and yet he got into a position where he made people all around the world want to represent an element that is associated with poverty and danger-- be a thug. Because he embraced who he was, he had people wanting to become that which is typically found as distasteful. When you embrace who you are and what you are about and represent it, then people will really pick up on it and the people who like what you are doing will start to gravitate towards you. In dealing with women, this is important because you will be dealing with women who are of the same mind as you and who WANT to deal with you. You are coming from a position of power, instead of the position of weakness where you are constantly trying to impress some woman and trying to figure out what she likes so you can give it to her and hoping it makes her like you. When dealing with women and anyone in general, you have to come from a position of power, morals, strength and self-respect. This is the essence of leadership.
Don't rush out to meet new women. Spend time getting your mind resettled and reflecting over events until you are back in your right mind. The last thing you ever want to do is start making decisions and start dealing with women in order to cover up your pain. You will not only hurt yourself, but you will end up hurting the woman you are dealing with.
A woman who doesn't talk to a bunch.of different men
Is not a social media whore
Doesn't curse like a sailor
No kids
No tattoos
Is submissive
Humble
In shape
Loves God
Doesn't club or get drunk
This is all I ask for and its impossible to find
Is not a social media whore
Doesn't curse like a sailor
No kids
No tattoos
Is submissive
Humble
In shape
Loves God
Doesn't club or get drunk
This is all I ask for and its impossible to find
This is why this 'alpha male' stuff is trash. Here we have Joe Johnson, a multimillionaire who can get all kinds of women, aka alpha in the PUA world, and here he is getting broken for all kinds of cash. If you don't deal with moral women, your prosperity won't last.
http://www.tmz.com/2013/12/03/nba-s...pport-settlement-brooklyn-nets/#ixzz2mThKG4Cv
Look at his baby momma's webpage:
http://shannonbecton.com/
Many women have literally become insane in this nation.
http://www.tmz.com/2013/12/03/nba-s...pport-settlement-brooklyn-nets/#ixzz2mThKG4Cv
Look at his baby momma's webpage:
http://shannonbecton.com/
Many women have literally become insane in this nation.
What's so sad is how adamantly these women claim to feminist ideology and how much backing they get from simps. Women already bring little to the table as is, but they don't even want to take a man's last name and you have men actually willing to sign up for that. Honestly, I thought it was disgusting before, but I'm not quite so disgusted at it anymore... These sucker men who willingly accept these deals and get broken by women brought it upon themselves. They backed the ideology, they accepted losing terms from women and they reaped the fruit they sewed, which was rotten. They say we're misogynists and hate women. The real misogynists are modern feminists. THEY hate women, which is why they spend so much time emulating men.
So my ex has been reading my posts on this site and this thread.
Talk about an interesting conversation...
that's wildbut in truth, that's not too bad - i mean, for the most part this thread is just about kicking what should be widely known and accepted knowledge. no secrets and unnecessary game just some rules to live by to build yourself up and by extension - be the kind of leader a strong family unit needs.
I heard this story on the radio yesterday.shes getting 1.2 mil a year for the rest of her life, and if joe gets traded, he has to move her to wherever he is and get her a spot in that same city.
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Yeah its going to be real hard to find a chick that meets those requirements 100% but Ive been with chicks that are very very close to it
Its hard for me to find a woman w/o any tatts (i dont have any) my current girl has 2 small ones one is on her ankle but she always wears jeans and the other is on her wrist and is usually covered by her bracelets. My girl is in her mid 30s her getting drunk days are behind her she just gets a buzz and she is usually with me when she drinks except for the occasional happy hour with her girls. She only goes to clubs for celebrating bdays
I heard this story on the radio yesterday.shes getting 1.2 mil a year for the rest of her life, and if joe gets traded, he has to move her to wherever he is and get her a spot in that same city.
nikka got a baby mama haunting clause in his contract