Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Peep what I wrote today I think its on the previous page

In confusion you give people the benefit of the doubt.

You start to rationalize behaviors
You start to fantasize

The battle of emotions v logic going on in your heart you know its wrong and will end horribly but the heart right.

It's note for note where I am now. Admittedly confused.
 

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Yup, I don't get friendzoned because I pick up the signs and kill any feelings before she does.

I don't get dumped because I know the process women go through in dumping so I'm already a step ahead.

I don't get confused as to what are we and ish because I know the games and tactics.

Its like a qb like peyton manning he's seen every blitz and defense out there, while a rookie qb won't audible and be dumbfounded the experience is unmatched.


^^^^ this c/s 10000

its some deep shyt but real shyt that people fail to realize and its where i learned it after my first love and serious heartbreak
sure i still made missteps along the way thru the years we all do but it wasn't as bad or necessarily the same mistakes either
 

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Yup, I don't get friendzoned because I pick up the signs and kill any feelings before she does.

I don't get dumped because I know the process women go through in dumping so I'm already a step ahead.

I don't get confused as to what are we and ish because I know the games and tactics.

Its like a qb like peyton manning he's seen every blitz and defense out there, while a rookie qb won't audible and be dumbfounded the experience is unmatched.


basically how it is for me when i was single
i was first like emmitt smith run thru them all durable breaking records made more mistakes but was bout that having fun life more or less

then became more like peyton to prolong the career and recognize certain things i didnt see before and stop that shyt with that OMAHA real quick
 

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Experience, rookies make mistake throwing into triple coverage, not seeing the blitz, not Omaha out of that 9 in box HB draw.

But with experience all those sacks interceptions, years spent watching tape you stay one step ahead.


If there is anything I've picked up throughout the years is how to read women, even when I hope I'm wrong I'm right.

I remember having feelings for this chick even slept with her then she dropped how such a great friend I am.

I could already tell she was trying to demote me into friend zone , I packed my bag of feelings I had for her and already departed.

By the time she brought up so about a few weeks ago bla bla bla

I was already gone a step ahead brehette , talking to someone new.


Same with another chick got distant, texts got shorter writing on the wall, packed my bags and withdrawled by the time she emotionally withdrawaled I felt nothing, just said cool, i waa feeling the same way :heh: and never talked to her again.

Even the psycho ass chick who keeps emailing and texting me, I called felt the coldness in her voice and just deleted and never spoke to again till she popped up 6 months later.


basically how it is for me when i was single
i was first like emmitt smith run thru them all durable breaking records made more mistakes but was bout that having fun life more or less

then became more like peyton to prolong the career and recognize certain things i didnt see before and stop that shyt with that OMAHA real quick
 

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Most of the time, a man loses trying to 'win over' a woman and forcing the issue instead of letting things come to him... meaning he tries to convince a woman that isn't into him or has lost interest in him to reignite those flames. When her feelings start to fade, more times than not, it's done. No need to get emotional over it. Just keep it pushing.
 

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Most of the time, a man loses trying to 'win over' a woman and forcing the issue instead of letting things come to him... meaning he tries to convince a woman that isn't into him or has lost interest in him to reignite those flames. When her feelings start to fade, more times than not, it's done. No need to get emotional over it. Just keep it pushing.

i agree unless your married with kids just keep pushing, hell i cant even remember the names of chicks who flaked on me in 2013
 

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http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...rmer-admirer-that-I-rejected-is-a-millionaire

Just Jane: Snobbery cost me my rich guy and now I regret it

MY best friend’s husband has just made his second million – and I’m so jealous and angry I can hardly bring myself to talk to her.


The thing is that I used to go out with this bloke in college. He was obsessed with me and constantly asked me to marry him. But I dismissed him as a boring geek and treated him like dirt.

The day I finally broke up with him he cried like a baby and I actually thought it was quite funny and laughed in his face. My best mate told me that I was wicked and cruel and a month later I discovered that they were dating.

The rest, as they say, is history. He graduated, got a brilliant job and is now the proud owner of a fantastic house and classic car, plus large fortune.

They’ve just flown to Australia, first class, for an extended holiday and I know that she got diamond earrings and a designer handbag under the tree.

Plus, she claims that he’s now absolutely phenomenal in bed after they both attended a two-week tantric sex workshop in Los Angeles.

Unsurprisingly, my mate is like the cat that got the cream and all I can do is silently seethe. You see, this is the story of my life. I’m a terrible snob and my own worst enemy.

I always think that the grass is greener on the other side of the dumped a guy just before his mother died and he inherited her massive house.

Now I’m sitting in my tiny flat, staring at my four walls thinking: “Am I ever going to make something of myself?” I’m 32 and beginning to feel increasingly alone.



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http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...rmer-admirer-that-I-rejected-is-a-millionaire

Just Jane: Snobbery cost me my rich guy and now I regret it

MY best friend’s husband has just made his second million – and I’m so jealous and angry I can hardly bring myself to talk to her.


The thing is that I used to go out with this bloke in college. He was obsessed with me and constantly asked me to marry him. But I dismissed him as a boring geek and treated him like dirt.

The day I finally broke up with him he cried like a baby and I actually thought it was quite funny and laughed in his face. My best mate told me that I was wicked and cruel and a month later I discovered that they were dating.

The rest, as they say, is history. He graduated, got a brilliant job and is now the proud owner of a fantastic house and classic car, plus large fortune.

They’ve just flown to Australia, first class, for an extended holiday and I know that she got diamond earrings and a designer handbag under the tree.

Plus, she claims that he’s now absolutely phenomenal in bed after they both attended a two-week tantric sex workshop in Los Angeles.

Unsurprisingly, my mate is like the cat that got the cream and all I can do is silently seethe. You see, this is the story of my life. I’m a terrible snob and my own worst enemy.

I always think that the grass is greener on the other side of the dumped a guy just before his mother died and he inherited her massive house.

Now I’m sitting in my tiny flat, staring at my four walls thinking: “Am I ever going to make something of myself?” I’m 32 and beginning to feel increasingly alone.



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its all about $$$ and status to these chicks

dude is the exact same dude just because he has money and status now shes wondering
this is why ima start telling chicks i make min wage
 

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I'm slipping brehs :damn:.

Need the slap I'll only get from the Coli :wow:.

Getting caught up with a girl from my past. She was everything I wanted in a girl. Head straight, focused, intelligent, loyal, good looks but not outta this world plus we just gel. I even get along with her family, the first day I met her fam I was supposed to pick her up but ended up drinking until 6am with her step-dad and doing the macarena on the edge of their pool :mjcry:.

What went wrong? She went away, got a got into a long term relationship and had a kid :snoop:.

I need to be stopped before stepping into that shyt, those moments are starting to come pouring back when we speak.

The real fukked up part is in my head I have this ridiculous monolog like:

"She's different, she was never a thot"
"Yeah but she was virtuous enough to get knocked up :sas2:"

"She's always been loyal in her relationships"
"Yeah, she gon be real loyal when her baby daddy comes round while you at work :sas2:"

"We've always had a connection"
" Yeah, now you gonna need to add a third party to that connection :sas2:"
I think we should heed the advice given in this thread that went something like: If you have to write a paragraph or more on a chick that ain't your girl, that you ain't smashing or that works at your lucrative job, move on.
 

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Pretty much. A woman that's really into you will make you write something along the lines of, "Man, she's annoying. She wants all of my time."

If you have to really sit and ponder 'what's going on' and how you can rekindle the interest, stop wasting time and keep it pushing.

A relationship with women ain't like a computer or like cars where you can just replace the part that isn't working and everything is like new. Most relationships are more like potatoes. Once it's gone spoiled, it's ruined. When a woman checks out emotionally, you attempting to 'regame her' or wait on her is going to be a waste of time in more scenarios than not. Sticking around is just going to have you wondering why she is always so 'busy', and you'll come on here later angry when you find out that she was dealing with some new negro.

I'd actually like to hear if any of you had a woman 'check out' on them emotionally, talked about taking a break, etc... you know, go distant, etc., and they successfully rekindled the flame and everything was like new. For me, once they 'checked out', they were gone, but maybe your experience is different.
 

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I'd actually like to hear if any of you had a woman 'check out' on them emotionally, talked about taking a break, etc... you know, go distant, etc., and they successfully rekindled the flame and everything was like new. For me, once they 'checked out', they were gone, but maybe your experience is different.

:ohhh: this ain't never happened to me
 

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Here's the reality of the situation. Women base their decisions on emotions. It's like a videogame you've played and beat and got bored with it. You simply don't want to play that videogame anymore. Someone attempting to logically convince you to play that videogame won't work. You don't want to play it.

It's like that with women. So many dudes listen to what a woman is saying ON THE SURFACE and try to fix the 'so-called problem', aka I'm not showing enough affection, aka I don't give her enough roses, etc. etc. More than anything, what she is really telling you is she is BORED and ready to move on. She's giving you excuses so as not to hurt your feelings. The more you give in and attempt to appease these so-called demands, the more agitated she becomes until she just flat out gets sick of concocting excuses and just dumps you. This is why you see women stick in relationships with REAL problems where a dude might be beating up on her or is two steps away from prison, but yet she can't pull herself away. She's emotionally engaged and not bored.

If a woman isn't entertained by your everyday, natural personality, don't waste your time. If she doesn't have a strong moral base from which she is operating under which helps her keep her emotions under control, don't bother.
 
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Most of the time, a man loses trying to 'win over' a woman and forcing the issue instead of letting things come to him... meaning he tries to convince a woman that isn't into him or has lost interest in him to reignite those flames. When her feelings start to fade, more times than not, it's done. No need to get emotional over it. Just keep it pushing.

The thing I get caught up in is trying to make sense of the situation. Like, How the fukk am I at fault? Have I changed? But more often than not, I can't find the answer. She doesn't have an answer that makes sense. I can either go crazy trying to figure out how we got here... OR I can just move on and say fukk it. As much as I would like a logical explanation, I know it's never coming..

For whatever reason, most of these women aren't logical.
 
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