Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The reward is so small all these games, tests and tactics and money spent for what? A mouth that has sucked like 20 dikks, a warm hole that the whole block has been in

A great women is great but there are so few.




I'm with you my G... all these birds are good for dikkin down and nothing more...so stick and move thats all they get out of me... no second dates, no extra isshh... whatever ill will they feel about that...that their problems not mine... i have my plans for my future and Ill be damn if i let any woman slow me down... most of these women just see money when see a man and they just think of ways of how to use this man to get it....thats it...i wish brothers will see that....but usually by the time they do...its too late...
 

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Dude is cool he pmed me because he wanted to create a thread but didn't have enough posts thats how Mich he rarely posts :heh:

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I hope some of the younger dudes in here are really picking this up. You're going to waste A LOT of time and money if you're sitting here spending all this time trying to become the man you think women want. All of that effort will be for waste. The woman for you is the one that's not going to require you to have all kinds of flashy things because she's so into your personality.
 

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I was just thinking today of how when I was less stable and oblivious how I had so much more "success" with women.

If you play their games and be oblivious to the tactics and do chameleon stunts and don't check them and dont walk away you'll win , you'll make the playoffs but you'll never win the elusive title
 
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I was just thinking today of how when I was less stable and oblivious how I had so much more "success" with women.

If you play their games and be oblivious to the tactics and do chameleon stunts and don't check them and dont walk away you'll win , you'll make the playoffs but you'll never win the elusive title

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strange game....the only winning move is not to play
 

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I was just thinking today of how when I was less stable and oblivious how I had so much more "success" with women.

If you play their games and be oblivious to the tactics and do chameleon stunts and don't check them and dont walk away you'll win , you'll make the playoffs but you'll never win the elusive title

That so-called success is headache inducing because you realize those women don't really like 'you'... they just like the element of drama surrounding you, and as soon as that is gone, they're gone. It's like making friends with someone who is on hardcore drugs only because you like watching the crazy stuff they do when they're high. Do you really want someone around you who is only there because you're not in a calm place in your mind?

What are they bringing? Probably the only thing is sex. If a woman is only around because you are acting like a degenerate, she aren't bringing much to the table but access to her vagina, which she is likely sharing with someone other than you while she's with you.

I think men really need to understand a woman that is really YOURS and a woman that is just WITH YOU at a point in time. The difference is that a woman that is yours doesn't constantly put worries on your mind. You don't have to go out of your way to 'entertain her.' She's not being disrespectful by talking to other dudes. A woman that is 'with you' is constantly giving you headaches because she's 'always busy'. She's talking to other dudes. She's just with you for entertainment value and not really you. When you start doing all those tricks, you're going to get the latter. It may feel like you're winning at the moment, but when you find out what that woman is really all about or you find out how ultimately futile all of your stunts were now that she left... it makes you question, was this really worth it? The answer is no. If a woman can't bring you peace of mind and respect, she's not really 'yours'.
 

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@JUSE_HEDD Yeah breh, definitely get rid of her. Sounds like a problem and y'all haven't even met yet. Plus, like everyone else said.. these online dating site broads got hundreds of nikkas in their inbox.

So here's a quick story. The broad who cheated on me is supposedly telling people that I have been harassing her and I have not spoken to her in weeks lol. What type of shyt is this? :pachaha:

I don't give a fukk, just sayin. It's sad.

She's vindictive, petty, and sounds like and drama queen. Obviously she's upset she didn't get her way by getting caught cheating or she's just a flat out crazy bytch.
 
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I'm late but....whats wrong with this again?

I asked if she had any plans this weekend and he response is "I'm all booked this weekend". Like @Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3 said in a span of 48 hours she can't find a just few (1.5-2) hours to sit and chat she's either not digging you or someone else is digging her.

Secondly she said she's a bit of an "a$$hole" and generally speaking in terms of the American lexicon, the term a$$hole is a negative connotation. Nobody likes a$$holes. That's a character flaw to me.
 

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She won't be booked enough not to sign into okcupid tom

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I asked if she had any plans this weekend and he response is "I'm all booked this weekend". Like @Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3 said in a span of 48 hours she can't find a just few (1.5-2) hours to sit and chat she's either not digging you or someone else is digging her.

Secondly she said she's a bit of an "a$$hole" and generally speaking in terms of the American lexicon, the term a$$hole is a negative connotation. Nobody likes a$$holes. That's a character flaw to me.
 

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That so-called success is headache inducing because you realize those women don't really like 'you'... they just like the element of drama surrounding you, and as soon as that is gone, they're gone. It's like making friends with someone who is on hardcore drugs only because you like watching the crazy stuff they do when they're high. Do you really want someone around you who is only there because you're not in a calm place in your mind?

What are they bringing? Probably the only thing is sex. If a woman is only around because you are acting like a degenerate, she aren't bringing much to the table but access to her vagina, which she is likely sharing with someone other than you while she's with you.

I think men really need to understand a woman that is really YOURS and a woman that is just WITH YOU at a point in time. The difference is that a woman that is yours doesn't constantly put worries on your mind. You don't have to go out of your way to 'entertain her.' She's not being disrespectful by talking to other dudes. A woman that is 'with you' is constantly giving you headaches because she's 'always busy'. She's talking to other dudes. She's just with you for entertainment value and not really you. When you start doing all those tricks, you're going to get the latter. It may feel like you're winning at the moment, but when you find out what that woman is really all about or you find out how ultimately futile all of your stunts were now that she left... it makes you question, was this really worth it? The answer is no. If a woman can't bring you peace of mind and respect, she's not really 'yours'.
 
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